Hesitancy when giving a number

[crowolf]

One of the girls actually replied a day later.

We had a few exchanges, and she even said she has been thinking about me.

I doubted it (as it sounded like she was trying to run fake game on me). Then she started qualifying that it was true.

But then I replied 6 hours later and said something kind of stupid, and she dissapeared.

Will ping her tomorrow, and will see it there is any juice left here.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Broads are illogical creatures.

They feel unsafe with a nervous guy, yet safe with a smooth guy. Even though the smooth guy is more likely to be an abuser (that's how a lot of abusers operate: they use their smoothness to gain the trust of the soon-to-be victim)

On the other hand, the nervous guy is (the vast majority of the time) too timid to be an abuser.

Timid men don't get sex period

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

They feel unsafe with a nervous guy, yet safe with a smooth guy. Even though the smooth guy is more likely to be an abuser (that's how a lot of abusers operate: they use their smoothness to gain the trust of the soon-to-be victim)

While safety is an important concern for most women, they feel unsafe with a nervous guy because he won't be able to protect her 'when push comes to shove' and the self-assured confident man feel safe because he's able to protect her.
Another thing has to do with responsibility and accountability. Women want a man who can take control of them so they don't have to be responsible and accountable anymore. They feel that the self-assured confident man can take care of them when they give over control, but the nervous twitchy guy doesn't have enough control for them to submit to his control.

 

[GoodMan32]

Timid men don't get sex period

The fact this timid guy has had 9 free partners disproves what you're saying.

Besides, my point still stands: A timid man is less likely to abuse her.

 

[GoodMan32]

While safety is an important concern for most women, they feel unsafe with a nervous guy because he won't be able to protect her 'when push comes to shove' and the self-assured confident man feel safe because he's able to protect her.
Another thing has to do with responsibility and accountability. Women want a man who can take control of them so they don't have to be responsible and accountable anymore. They feel that the self-assured confident man can take care of them when they give over control, but the nervous twitchy guy doesn't have enough control for them to submit to his control.

And here's yet another obstacle us socially awkward men face: If we try to act alpha, we come across as total creeps.

 

[davidsonj73]

She hesitated to give OP her number because she had a low interest level in him.