I made a post about my mom divorcing. She reconnected with " the love of her life". She is now coming up with every reason not to be with this guy. This man is a very good person, he is a millionaire, very kind and his family accepts her. This is a rare man indeed. Me and my sister are shocked at my moms excuses.
I made this post to illustrate something that I noticed almost 10 yrs ago. It is usually not personal. The reasons why many women reject you often has nothing to do with your objective worth. I have seen this story time and time again. People ( especially women) are often balls of trauma, anxiety and conflicting emotions. Unhealed women will make the most random self sabotaging choices in their dating lives. Until a person heals they will run on autopilot repeating the same self destructive behaviors.
Only after the man moves on and gets a new woman will the original woman be forced to self reflect. People are complex. Never take a break up or rejection personally ( sometimes it is your fault though).
I believe that life is ultimately fair. We eventually get what we deserve. If we do not have the dating life that we want it is because we make unconscious self destructive decisions. This applies to men and woman.
I made this post to illustrate something that I noticed almost 10 yrs ago. It is usually not personal. The reasons why many women reject you often has nothing to do with your objective worth. I have seen this story time and time again. People ( especially women) are often balls of trauma, anxiety and conflicting emotions. Unhealed women will make the most random self sabotaging choices in their dating lives. Until a person heals they will run on autopilot repeating the same self destructive behaviors.
Only after the man moves on and gets a new woman will the original woman be forced to self reflect. People are complex. Never take a break up or rejection personally ( sometimes it is your fault though).
I believe that life is ultimately fair. We eventually get what we deserve. If we do not have the dating life that we want it is because we make unconscious self destructive decisions. This applies to men and woman.