It will be my 2nd experience but...

nelysses

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I know I gave you a bit of a headache last month. I got rid of all those overthinking. The girl noticed and blocked me at that time but the good news is I found a new girl.
The girl also wants to experience something but she says things like "I hope your performance is good".
I couldn't get a proper erection with the girl last time, it got even worse when I put a condom on my d*ck and couldn't even enter her.
I have no idea how to solve this problem. What can I do?
 

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Less worrying and posting, more action.

Also, not gaining 15KG in a month typically helps.

Erection health is typically a sign of body health overall.
 

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Less worrying and posting, more action.

Also, not gaining 15KG in a month typically helps.

Erection health is typically a sign of body health overall.
How about you stop worrying about it posting on this forum and have a good time instead?
I'll try to have fun but it's a little difficult when someone tells you they hope you're doing well but you can't even get an erection.
 

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It's probably saying no more masturbation but we will meet in 2 days with girl. This Saturday. I don't know what to do.
No it's telling you please get in shape so I can worry about pumping blood to your c0ck...right now it's doing everything it can just to keep your heart going, it doesn't give a damn about getting it to your c0ck.
 

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No it's telling you please get in shape so I can worry about pumping blood to your c0ck...right now it's doing everything it can just to keep your heart going, it doesn't give a damn about getting it to your c0ck.
Oh man I'm going to gym for 1 months. I haven't missed any yet. I also have a diet. Even though I haven't lost weight, my belly has gotten smaller.
Also man I do 5 times mast today. I really have problem about that.. When I see that girls body I masturbated. and again...
 

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No it's telling you please get in shape so I can worry about pumping blood to your c0ck...right now it's doing everything it can just to keep your heart going, it doesn't give a damn about getting it to your c0ck.
and now I don't know now. I wonder if this time instead of making love on the first date, should we have coffee and make love at a later time? I won't masturbate until then either.
 

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You worry too much, erection problems in most cases arise from worries, performance anxiety.

As mentioned in the other thread, avoid masturbating.

Too much pornography leads to a distortion of reality.

Start to get it into your head that the more you worry about a bad sexual performance, the more likely it is that it will end like this.

Do you even like this girl? It's important that you like it, I also have difficulty having sex with girls I don't like. It's normal.
 

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Oh man I'm going to gym for 1 months. I haven't missed any yet. I also have a diet. Even though I haven't lost weight, my belly has gotten smaller.
Also man I do 5 times mast today. I really have problem about that.. When I see that girls body I masturbated. and again...
That's a good start, now you need to start dropping pounds.

Instead of worrying about your lack of performance, start thinking of how you are going to manhandle this woman in the bedroom and how she is going to have to tap out from you fvcking her so hard. That's what you should be thinking about.
 

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@nelysses here, read this shi*: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-to-really-get-girls.282763/

Then stop posting and start doing things.
I can't explain myself properly, maybe because of the translation?
I say I already do these things. I do sports, I get fit, I met a girl, and that wasn't enough, I convinced her to have sex. But last time I had trouble with erection, I asked what I could do. You're telling me to start doing things.

The question is not I'm going to masturbate but I can't get an erection, I'm going to have sex with a girl but I can't get an erection.
That's a good start, now you need to start dropping pounds.

Instead of worrying about your lack of performance, start thinking of how you are going to manhandle this woman in the bedroom and how she is going to have to tap out from you fvcking her so hard. That's what you should be thinking about.
In fact, I don't know how to abuse a woman when I can't even penetrate her.

You worry too much, erection problems in most cases arise from worries, performance anxiety.

As mentioned in the other thread, avoid masturbating.

Too much pornography leads to a distortion of reality.

Start to get it into your head that the more you worry about a bad sexual performance, the more likely it is that it will end like this.

Do you even like this girl? It's important that you like it, I also have difficulty having sex with girls I don't like. It's normal.
Only her body is beautiful. Thats it. Also I have a little question from last time. My penis is not thick, not long but the condom was too tight. Why could this be? I couldn't put it on comfortably. Instead I opened its mouth and put it in at once. This time it was too tight. Then I tried again, same thing. It was too tight in short. That's why my erection ended. It was already very little because of masturbation, it ended completely.
 

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Instead I opened its mouth and put it in at once. This time it was too tight. Then I tried again, same thing. It was too tight in short. That's why my erection ended. It
Ive only ever had this problem when i was about 18 (almost 10 years ago) and that was the last time id ever used a condom, ive always gone raw since then.

I dont have advice, other than i dont think its too wildly uncommon for it to kill your erection.
 

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Oh man I'm going to gym for 1 months. I haven't missed any yet. I also have a diet. Even though I haven't lost weight, my belly has gotten smaller.
Also man I do 5 times mast today. I really have problem about that.. When I see that girls body I masturbated. and again...
There is your problem.

Masturbating 5 times a day will destroy any sense of sexual interaction with a woman.

Stop doing that, if you can't discpline urself then find a way to do it and stop posting in this forums your excuses.

You are acting like a little kid and you have your hand all day on your d1ick complaining that you can't get erection yet you masturbate 5 times a day.

Go find an experienced escort to get some performance anxiety off and stop watching porn or masturbating.
 
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