This is really wise content! However, what happened today at work wasn't very wise. To make light of the situation, a colleague created a Tinder profile for a female coworker who is a single mother. You wouldn't believe how many likes and matches she received in just two hours.
Later, I went back on Sosuave and read these wise words. They’re meaningful, but it seems like the current world is really cursed.
I also don’t want to blame myself for this because I believe I will find people who appreciate me for who I am. However, due to my very short height (not just short, but very, very short—like 163 cm), you can imagine I’ve been negatively preselected by many women.
The peaks of this experience were twofold, occurring when the pool of choices was very high:
1. During college
2. After 25+ (Dating App Scenario)
You can imagine that during those times, I've suffered so much and I didn't gather to much experiene, which luckly I've got from my own social circle, instead! (emotive connection and being positive with women there).
So, I’ve talked to myself and insisted that I will not follow the "mainstream" way. Instead, I will focus on my goals and values and strive to be a mature man, even without a woman by my side.
On my journey I'm finding some women to give me IOI but they're not really what I've considered as a partner. I can't help with this, but I'm working on it. (usually women that are on the 6 range).
You can be a very mature man with high confidence, but listening to the mainstream biases that portray "short" guys negatively—calling them dwarves, for instance—can still be a discomfort that you confront every day!
I'm working on it guys.. and also I do ask myself if this thing can go out with time, or it will be even harder to do so.