Do you agree with this dating article from the atlantic ?:)

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I think the "choose your spouse" meme that was at the heart of the great play/movie "Fiddler on the Roof", was a guiding principle of the Sexual Revolution and the Me Generation, and has found its apotheosis with OLD, is destined for a major reset. The Paradox of Choice is a paradox because rather than liberate, it befuddles.
 

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Many men are quitting dating because they are not seeing results from it.

There's no reason to go on multiple first dates that don't result in either first date sex or eventual sex from a longer term relationships.

Additionally, it is even worse for men that don't get dates from electronic methods or get their in-person approaches ignored.
 

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Would you go on dates for fun with an Attractive fun woman even if you know ya got no shot at getting laid?
Why would you have 'no shot' at getting laid? Because she's in a relationship? Because she's lesbian?

I think the main problem is that people try to 'date', i.e. taking someone out to dinner, trying to impress them, blahblah. I'm all for oldskool but in the current dating scene that is just a way for some women to get free food.

Girl using tinder to have free acco and food.jpeg

If a woman is interested in you, you don't need to impress her with fancy dinners or big events.
 

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Why would you have 'no shot' at getting laid? Because she's in a relationship? Because she's lesbian?

I think the main problem is that people try to 'date', i.e. taking someone out to dinner, trying to impress them, blahblah. I'm all for oldskool but in the current dating scene that is just a way for some women to get free food.

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If a woman is interested in you, you don't need to impress her with fancy dinners or big events.
So true
 

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Why would you have 'no shot' at getting laid? Because she's in a relationship? Because she's lesbian?

I think the main problem is that people try to 'date', i.e. taking someone out to dinner, trying to impress them, blahblah. I'm all for oldskool but in the current dating scene that is just a way for some women to get free food.

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If a woman is interested in you, you don't need to impress her with fancy dinners or big events.
A girl I wound up with, whom I met on Tinder, told me she matched with a guy she didn’t find attractive, but thought his bio was cool. They met & she told him, straight up, ‘no kissing. No sfx.’. He still took her out to a ball game & dinner.
 

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A girl I wound up with, whom I met on Tinder, told me she matched with a guy she didn’t find attractive, but thought his bio was cool. They met & she told him, straight up, ‘no kissing. No sfx.’. He still took her out to a ball game & dinner.
For a lot of women, Tinder is like dinner vouchers.
 

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Dating is fine as long as you realise it’s a value exchange.
It’s fun in the beginning but at some point women always want more than you are willing to give (money, energy, attention, time, validation etc.) and/or the quality/quantity of bedroom action or whatever else you want from the relationship declines or has increasingly more and more conditions placed on it (choreplay, giftplay, romance play, moving in or marriage demands etc.).
What was relatively low investment for you in the beginning increases over time and the satisfaction you experience declines. Probably the same experience for her as well, just different things.
It’s then a slow death spiral to the inevitable break up, dead bedroom, affair/cheating, increasing feelings of unhappiness/dissatisfaction/boredom; just the length of time this takes to happen can vary. There are exceptions of course but everyone thinks they will be the exception.
 

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A girl I wound up with, whom I met on Tinder, told me she matched with a guy she didn’t find attractive, but thought his bio was cool. They met & she told him, straight up, ‘no kissing. No sfx.’. He still took her out to a ball game & dinner.
It's OVER for NoSfxCels.

Really, this is one of the reasons I don't have a problem with EscortMaxxing. If I drop the same amount for a session as I would taking a chick of her calibre out and not get action, why is that not the sensible thing to do?
 

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It's OVER for NoSfxCels.

Really, this is one of the reasons I don't have a problem with EscortMaxxing. If I drop the same amount for a session as I would taking a chick of her calibre out and not get action, why is that not the sensible thing to do?
what site do you use?
 

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