Giovanni SouthSide
Master Don Juan
Respect is the bedrock of a healthy fruitful relationship with your woman. Why? Because respect and reverence keeps strange c@ck out of your woman.
What makes a woman respect her man?
Being consistent in words and actions. You have to be credible at all times. Being with a woman is like working as a guard in a Super Max prison. Keep your head on a swivel, maintain frame, never be a punk, and at all times be aware that you can get shanked if you get caught slipping. Another important one is being able to say “no” every once in a while. Not all the time, just once in a while.
From my very extended social/family circle of people talking, I hear all these collection of stories these days a woman can't just respect you for the long haul. She needs to see you as a super star and adore you off the bat with little active game. Almost be infatuated with your presence.
This is why I see the happiest couples where the girl is near-obsessed with the guy. The type of girl where if even if you are good friends with the couple and you try to neg the guy in front of the girl she will defend him immediately and maybe even fire back at you even if it is a joke.
You can't be in some even relationship where you need constant A game. It will fall apart. You need a girl where you can cruise on B- game and she still thinks you're a that same wild catch she got by an act of divine intervention and the planets aligning to her favor.
Otherwise it really is a lost fight. You need a handicap, it's tough to go undefeated for an entire season. Add a lot points to your score before every game, well it makes this much easier.
This is why working on self game is so important and trying to make your B- game pretty damn good.
If a woman doesn't respect you she's a complete and utter waste of your time. Drop her immediately. If you have ever been with a woman who truly respects you, you know exactly what I'm talking about.
So what are the basic tenets of respect in a relationship?
1. Women who respect their men never sell them out to their family or friends. Period.
They may complain about how you never do X, Y, or Z. They may even harbor ill will toward you at times... but they never share their most private feelings and inner thoughts to their friends and loved ones, much less publicly to a group of people (or worse, strangers). I've had women who swore their friends and family would sell them out if they knew certain details about me and still stuck around.
2. Women who respect their men listen to them.
This is an easy thing to simply say, but in reality women are often more concerned with thinking about what they have to say next than listening to you. Listening is not hearing. Woman who listen to you get it. They resonate with and complement you. They want to know what's going on in your life and believe you add value to their own.
3. Women who respect their men focus on the positive aspects of the relationship.
Too many women dwell on what they think their man isn't doing (taking her out to a nice restaurant, trip, or buying her flowers, whatever), or what is going on in someone else's relationship. Good women tune out all that background noise and just savor your company even if it’s just a late walk on the pier.
I want a girl who wants to have a good time with me. Not to make people think she is having a good time.
4. Women who respect their men always have their back.
She'll take a bullet for you... pick a fight with someone who disrespected you... or in my case threaten to "cut a b!tch." Now this is where there is a fine line between respect and crazy 5150. Fellas, as a matter of preference I leave it up to you to decide where you draw that line.
5. Women who respect their men always keep them satisfied in the sack.
This should be common sense (sense is not so common anymore), but what many guys have never had is a woman who truly puts her man's animalistic sexual needs before her own. The key here is that this isn't short term behavior. There are so many women out there who will put on a mask/front and give you what you think is the best sex of your life until she thinks she has you by the balls. And then my brothers, your sex life evaporates into thin air. Those are absolutely the types of women you want to weed out, avoid like the plague, and once identified... drop at all costs quicker than a bad habit. A good marker of how healthy a relationship is how many times she initiates any sexual advances on you. If it turns out that you're doing all the work, she doesn't genuinely desire you and the relationship is based on something other than her feral, primal sexual needs.
So what do you do when you find a woman who you're attracted to, isn't crazy, satisfies you in the sack, complements your life, and genuinely respects you? Hold on to her till you don’t have a reason to.
Does what she thinks about you really matter ?
G
What makes a woman respect her man?
Being consistent in words and actions. You have to be credible at all times. Being with a woman is like working as a guard in a Super Max prison. Keep your head on a swivel, maintain frame, never be a punk, and at all times be aware that you can get shanked if you get caught slipping. Another important one is being able to say “no” every once in a while. Not all the time, just once in a while.
From my very extended social/family circle of people talking, I hear all these collection of stories these days a woman can't just respect you for the long haul. She needs to see you as a super star and adore you off the bat with little active game. Almost be infatuated with your presence.
This is why I see the happiest couples where the girl is near-obsessed with the guy. The type of girl where if even if you are good friends with the couple and you try to neg the guy in front of the girl she will defend him immediately and maybe even fire back at you even if it is a joke.
You can't be in some even relationship where you need constant A game. It will fall apart. You need a girl where you can cruise on B- game and she still thinks you're a that same wild catch she got by an act of divine intervention and the planets aligning to her favor.
Otherwise it really is a lost fight. You need a handicap, it's tough to go undefeated for an entire season. Add a lot points to your score before every game, well it makes this much easier.
This is why working on self game is so important and trying to make your B- game pretty damn good.
If a woman doesn't respect you she's a complete and utter waste of your time. Drop her immediately. If you have ever been with a woman who truly respects you, you know exactly what I'm talking about.
So what are the basic tenets of respect in a relationship?
1. Women who respect their men never sell them out to their family or friends. Period.
They may complain about how you never do X, Y, or Z. They may even harbor ill will toward you at times... but they never share their most private feelings and inner thoughts to their friends and loved ones, much less publicly to a group of people (or worse, strangers). I've had women who swore their friends and family would sell them out if they knew certain details about me and still stuck around.
2. Women who respect their men listen to them.
This is an easy thing to simply say, but in reality women are often more concerned with thinking about what they have to say next than listening to you. Listening is not hearing. Woman who listen to you get it. They resonate with and complement you. They want to know what's going on in your life and believe you add value to their own.
3. Women who respect their men focus on the positive aspects of the relationship.
Too many women dwell on what they think their man isn't doing (taking her out to a nice restaurant, trip, or buying her flowers, whatever), or what is going on in someone else's relationship. Good women tune out all that background noise and just savor your company even if it’s just a late walk on the pier.
I want a girl who wants to have a good time with me. Not to make people think she is having a good time.
4. Women who respect their men always have their back.
She'll take a bullet for you... pick a fight with someone who disrespected you... or in my case threaten to "cut a b!tch." Now this is where there is a fine line between respect and crazy 5150. Fellas, as a matter of preference I leave it up to you to decide where you draw that line.
5. Women who respect their men always keep them satisfied in the sack.
This should be common sense (sense is not so common anymore), but what many guys have never had is a woman who truly puts her man's animalistic sexual needs before her own. The key here is that this isn't short term behavior. There are so many women out there who will put on a mask/front and give you what you think is the best sex of your life until she thinks she has you by the balls. And then my brothers, your sex life evaporates into thin air. Those are absolutely the types of women you want to weed out, avoid like the plague, and once identified... drop at all costs quicker than a bad habit. A good marker of how healthy a relationship is how many times she initiates any sexual advances on you. If it turns out that you're doing all the work, she doesn't genuinely desire you and the relationship is based on something other than her feral, primal sexual needs.
So what do you do when you find a woman who you're attracted to, isn't crazy, satisfies you in the sack, complements your life, and genuinely respects you? Hold on to her till you don’t have a reason to.
Does what she thinks about you really matter ?
G
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