low interest woman

[PlatoPacks23]

in general.. seems to be the norm?

read a lot of things about how " a girl will do anything to be w you" if she's interested or whatever.. well imo it is always an uphill battle.

even w girls ive dated, it's always felt like I'd have to put a front up or have a lot of ideas in my head over what my next thing or thought should be otherwise things would flip back to disinterested quickly.

and then with those I'm trying to get with, again it seems like a LOT of effort to even get a number, then a lot of effort to get them out without screwing up on text.

my point being, in no ways has it ever been "girl who is super interested" at any point off the bat, unless it was just a very very casual thing which is not my vibe.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

You will absolutely meet women with high interest. But it takes time to build value, and even when you have it, it might still take a while to meet them. Some of them might even seem like high interest at first, but it's not sincere. You'll know it when you see it - women who make themselves available, respond quickly to texts, don't play games, offer date suggestions, don't show up late, etc. And btw, noticing the types of women who show high interest is great way to gauge of your SMV.

Even if you're high value, it may take months to find just one high interest women. I truly do not think it's just worth wasting time on low interest women, unless you think you can smash with minimal effort, but even that is a waste.

I'd rather be sexless and dateless for a year until I meet a high interest woman than waste time and energy with women with only lukewarm interest and be disappointed and irritated.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Trouble is most men in 2024 are just seen strangers who want sex

She can get sex any time she likes so theres nothing to be really interested in for her, the talking and "get to know you" stage is just tedious for everyone unless your whipping out A grade text game to keep her engaged which is an art in itself

It's basically marketing at its core

you have to think outside of the box and signal to her that you've got something up your sleeve

Women won't openly admit it but their looking for something they can trade their beauty off against because it's their main source of value

Their favourite trades with men are for social status / money / power

if you aren't openly displaying anything for her to trade against she will just take you at face value looks / height which are very very difficult metrics to compete on and you literally need to be her exact type for it too go anywhere

again its possible but difficult, they just have so many options available at all times

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The alternative route is to engage her in a friendly non romantic manner and build up familarity , I'd only advise pro's to do this as it takes a hell of a lot of self restraint and discipline

But you can be that guy where she doesn't really know what you want until its too late

You slowly dial up the feels until she's sucked in

I did this once back in around 2014 and the chick is still stalking me now even though she's married

 

[Agamemnon43]

Well you probably aren't a super attractive man to begin with.

 

[holidayad_]

The alternative route is to engage her in a friendly non romantic manner and build up familarity , I'd only advise pro's to do this as it takes a hell of a lot of self restraint and discipline

But you can be that guy where she doesn't really know what you want until its too late

You slowly dial up the feels until she's sucked in

I did this once back in around 2014 and the chick is still stalking me now even though she's married

That’s strategy for you, gentlemen.

It’s something that I am trying to do with some chicks: make them fall for you without acting interested.

The biggest challenge is not to fail into the ‘orbiter’ category.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

The world of women you encounter, and how they behave, is primarily based on you.

If you are attractive, have decent social skill, communication skills, don't put up with anything you don't want to, you'll find a lot of women that are interested in you and will make an effort.

If you aren't attractive, don't have strong social skills, put up with a lot of sh*t in hopes of pvssy, you won't find a lot of women that are willing to put in any effort to be with you.

Two different dudes will have two completely different experiences with "women today."

One will love it.

One will hate it.

 

[jhonny9546]

Other than the fact that it is of "high interest," what do you think a woman is searching for in the replica of her father's attachment scheme?

If you can provide that for her, you'll achieve what is known as "high interest."

This may be difficult or easy for someone, but how do you actually understand the type of attachment a woman has with her father and whether you fit into this scheme?

I see many successful relationships where a woman stays with a man who treats her similarly to how her father does. It's not hard. It seems to be in her subconscious to feel safe once she meets this person and to leave her family of origin to build a new one with her new "father."

Also, a very important thing: now that she feels secure and has built a family with him, raising their kids together, why would a woman who has found someone like her father possibly end the relationship? Is it because, through countless challenges, she has changed him so much that he is no longer like "his father"? This is a really hard topic because a child looks at his father with respect and awe. A woman will do the same with you, which indicates "high interest." What happens, and how does she make it happen, that this respect and awe fade away?
How do you spot "SAFE" woman to father relationships and which red flags would you consider to not validate that woman as a possible partner for you?

Citations:
[1] https://illimitablemen.com/2024/05/15/witches-anti-theists-rebelling-against-the-father/

 

[Hamurabimbi]

in general.. seems to be the norm?

read a lot of things about how " a girl will do anything to be w you" if she's interested or whatever.. well imo it is always an uphill battle.

even w girls ive dated, it's always felt like I'd have to put a front up or have a lot of ideas in my head over what my next thing or thought should be otherwise things would flip back to disinterested quickly.

and then with those I'm trying to get with, again it seems like a LOT of effort to even get a number, then a lot of effort to get them out without screwing up on text.

my point being, in no ways has it ever been "girl who is super interested" at any point off the bat, unless it was just a very very casual thing which is not my vibe.

If a girl wants you or is horny. They will do some pretty extreme stuff. More than I would do.

 

[CornbreadFed]

High Interest women are definitely out there and basically will throw you soft ball pitches and miss open catches for you to succeed. If you aren't meeting these women then:

1). You are not attractive enough- You do not need to be a Chad, but you can definitely spruce up your physique, wardrobe, style, and etc.

2). You are approaching the wrong type of women- You are either a non white guy chasing after Taylor Swift white girls or you are a softer guy trying to get women in clubs. There is no magical skeleton key that unlocks every pvssy lock, figure out your target market and target women in that range.

 

[Solomon]

The world of women you encounter, and how they behave, is primarily based on you.

If you are attractive, have decent social skill, communication skills, don't put up with anything you don't want to, you'll find a lot of women that are interested in you and will make an effort.

If you aren't attractive, don't have strong social skills, put up with a lot of sh*t in hopes of pvssy, you won't find a lot of women that are willing to put in any effort to be with you.

Two different dudes will have two completely different experiences with "women today."

One will love it.

One will hate it.

Well you probably aren't a super attractive man to begin with.

If a girl wants you or is horny. They will do some pretty extreme stuff. More than I would do.

Basically nothing left to add, all these are valid points, HI-Women will make easy for you and they do exist. The best way to get those are to level up easier said than done but it is possibile

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

my point being, in no ways has it ever been "girl who is super interested" at any point off the bat, unless it was just a very very casual thing which is not my vibe.

You should date a better class of women.

And to do that, you might have to become a better class of man.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

High Interest women are definitely out there and basically will throw you soft ball pitches and miss open catches for you to succeed. If you aren't meeting these women then:

High interest women may go as far as giving you their number or asking you out on their own initiative.

The trick is to NOT FVCK IT UP. Don't do some autistic game shvt like playing coy or something, this is the one time where being normal as possible is necessary. "If it ain't broke, don't fix it".

 

[devilkingx2]

I would say that it’s important to understand what high interest and realistic success with women looks like.

there’s a tinder experiment with male model pictures asking girls for sex in the first message and only around 40% said yes. So even if you’re a male model 60% of women will expect you to jump through hoops playing the game.

I have a relative who is successful with women because he has money, status, muscles and an interesting life story.

He still gets flaked on, he still has girls that want to give him more drama than pvssy, he still has girls trying to use him for money without giving him anything, he still has to pay money to take girls out that hooked up with other guys on the first night, etc.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

Well you probably aren't a super attractive man to begin with.

yeah no **** that's why im trying to improve lol

 

[The Diver]

I have a relative who is successful with women because he has money, status, muscles and an interesting life story.
He still gets flaked on, he still has girls that want to give him more drama than pvssy, he still has girls trying to use him for money without giving him anything, he still has to pay money to take girls out that hooked up with other guys on the first night, etc.

I just read Alan Corrie's book. I have to say it's a fascinating book to read.
Your friend was described perfectly in the book as the Targeted Male.
From the book:
" Targets men use their accomplishments and material possession as the primary basis for their conversation with women ( and I'll add : to attract women)
Target Males will typically share the company of attractive, desirable women, but not those who have a genuine interest in them.
Target Male usually attract manipulative, materialistic women who are only interested in taking advantage of men's money, materials possession,and social connections ". (Another place in the book mentions: " without achieving his real desire", just like in your friend's case)

 

[jhonny9546]

Converserly to a low interest woman, which are the top 3 signals a woman of high interest ever do for or show to you?

 

[jhonny9546]

I just read Alan Corrie's book. I have to say it's a fascinating book to read.
Your friend was described perfectly in the book as the Targeted Male.
From the book:
" Targets men use their accomplishments and material possession as the primary basis for their conversation with women ( and I'll add : to attract women)
Target Males will typically share the company of attractive, desirable women, but not those who have a genuine interest in them.
Target Male usually attract manipulative, materialistic women who are only interested in taking advantage of men's money, materials possession,and social connections ". (Another place in the book mentions: " without achieving his real desire", just like in your friend's case)

Do you mean that "target" is an "high value man"?

What do you mean by target?

 

[The Diver]

Do you mean that "target" is an "high-value man"?
What do you mean by target?

The targeted males ( called this way because they are the gold diggers target ) are a men who have money, possessions and status, through business, inheritance, or a good career, ( they are not necessarily highly valued men), but kind of a nerd, or geek, who lacks confidence with women but badly wants women's attention, companionship and sex ,and their only way to attract women is using their money as a bait.
These men are not desired by women for who they are as attractive confident men, but rather for what the gold digger women could milk out of them, sometimes with crumbs of sex, and sometimes not even that.
A bit similar to that is the Sugar Daddy, but at least Sugar Daddy established some agreement as " money for sex" . Targeted men have nothing as such.

 

[Lotus Effect]

Is this thread a joke?

Terrible approach to the topic;
With some terrible analysis;
Topped by some of the worst advices ever!

She can get sex any time she likes so theres nothing to be really interested in for her, the talking and "get to know you" stage is just tedious for everyone unless your whipping out A grade text game to keep her engaged which is an art in itself

No offense bro, but:
- if she can get sex anytime, means that someone is fvcking her. Sadly is not you.
- ‘talking and get to know is tedious’…? Are you for real?
- ‘unless you’re whipping out grade A text game?’ Lets get one thing straight: There is no attraction/getting to know on text game

Unless you are using OLD, than you should not be considered a DJ, and just a regular dude.

My main plates are spun with minimum to no text, always responsive, always complying, and definitely very high interested (and kinky)

The second plate straight up asked me for my number in a party. 9 messages later, in an interval of 4 days, she was at my place.

Watch out what you guys are giving as advice out there.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Is this thread a joke?

Terrible approach to the topic;
With some terrible analysis;
Topped by some of the worst advices ever!



No offense bro, but:
- if she can get sex anytime, means that someone is fvcking her. Sadly is not you.
- ‘talking and get to know is tedious’…? Are you for real?
- ‘unless you’re whipping out grade A text game?’ Lets get one thing straight: There is no attraction/getting to know on text game

Unless you are using OLD, than you should not be considered a DJ, and just a regular dude.

My main plates are spun with minimum to no text, always responsive, always complying, and definitely very high interested (and kinky)

The second plate straight up asked me for my number in a party. 9 messages later, in an interval of 4 days, she was at my place.

Watch out what you guys are giving as advice out there.

Maybe you are mentally disabled idk but OP isn't talking about "plates"

He's talking about women he's meeting that are coming off as low interest

A "plate" should be a chick that your actively fvcking so yea I would expect her to be responsive and high interest otherwise she wouldn't be a "plate"

The "get to know phase" is tedious if it was down to men we would all be fvcking first or second date .... not all women are down for that

‘unless you’re whipping out grade A text game?’ Lets get one thing straight: There is no attraction/getting to know on text game

Unless you are using OLD, than you should not be considered a DJ, and just a regular dude.

I can't even answer this because it's so poorly written it doesn't make any sense