i got to know an irianian women on tinder a few weeks ago who lives in germany since a few months. i'm not into muslims but luckily she isn't one and she doesn't like islam. her parents are though, but they accept her lifestyle. she left her country recently since the mullah regime got very restrictive and doesn't let women walk around without hijabs anymore etc. also she is pretty smart, a scientist who just finished her phd.
what surprised me is that she doesn't come across as super nerdy or stiff like many scientists. when i talk to her about her science topics she is very passionate about it but for everyday topics she immediately switches to sweet normal girl mode. she has a very happy personality, childish playful despite being in her mid 30s. already on the first date the vibe was very flirty without her appearing slutty, there just seems to be some natural attraction. also she likes sex a lot. she is very tight and i'm big so she can't take it very long and hard. but we just do it quite short and often then, i finish pretty fast anyway because she is so tight.
since she comes from such a conservative environment, there are lots of things she hasn't tried yet, so it's fun to watch her discover. i.e. she never smoked weed, i tried with her but it doesn't have any effect on her, seems to be immune
. she had never been swimming in public with a bikini, so we did that too. and yesterday was the highlight, we found a hidden spot between the plants at a lake shore and had sex there. meanwhile behind the plants muslims were having barbecue and children playing.
what's also relaxed is that she doesn't want to have children. i was going through hell in the past with other girls when their period was delayed and they started blabbering about how it wouldn't be too bad if they were pregnant and how i wouldn't have to worry because they would take care of the child work. luckily it never got that far.
currently you can consider it FWB and i'm pretty happy with it, but she actually aims for a relationship. she dated one tinder guy before already who said he just wants to have sex, so she dropped him at some point. the last time the topic came up i dogded it by saying i was just in a long relationship for years, so i'm fed up with it currently but in the long run i'm looking for relationship too. not sure how long this will hold up but i couldn't come up with a better idea yet.
anyway, i appreciate any reactions to my story.
what surprised me is that she doesn't come across as super nerdy or stiff like many scientists. when i talk to her about her science topics she is very passionate about it but for everyday topics she immediately switches to sweet normal girl mode. she has a very happy personality, childish playful despite being in her mid 30s. already on the first date the vibe was very flirty without her appearing slutty, there just seems to be some natural attraction. also she likes sex a lot. she is very tight and i'm big so she can't take it very long and hard. but we just do it quite short and often then, i finish pretty fast anyway because she is so tight.
since she comes from such a conservative environment, there are lots of things she hasn't tried yet, so it's fun to watch her discover. i.e. she never smoked weed, i tried with her but it doesn't have any effect on her, seems to be immune
. she had never been swimming in public with a bikini, so we did that too. and yesterday was the highlight, we found a hidden spot between the plants at a lake shore and had sex there. meanwhile behind the plants muslims were having barbecue and children playing. what's also relaxed is that she doesn't want to have children. i was going through hell in the past with other girls when their period was delayed and they started blabbering about how it wouldn't be too bad if they were pregnant and how i wouldn't have to worry because they would take care of the child work. luckily it never got that far.
currently you can consider it FWB and i'm pretty happy with it, but she actually aims for a relationship. she dated one tinder guy before already who said he just wants to have sex, so she dropped him at some point. the last time the topic came up i dogded it by saying i was just in a long relationship for years, so i'm fed up with it currently but in the long run i'm looking for relationship too. not sure how long this will hold up but i couldn't come up with a better idea yet.
anyway, i appreciate any reactions to my story.
