What's your experience with Indian and south Asian girls?

[oliver109]

I find girls from south Asia can be really attractive but generally they seem less receptive than girls from the Mediterranean, eastern Europe or even central Europe and the UK.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Good in bed. Attractive when they're still unmarried and under thirty. After that they fill up fast.

 

[CBear]

They come from a more patriarchal society so many can't date outside of their culture unless their family is more progressive.

They will lean much more into LTR rather than ONS or short term.

They become obsessed and very possessive. Which is cute until they become threatened by literally everyone, even your own friends and family. Then it becomes just weird and ugly.

 

[Slowhandluke]

Good in bed. Attractive when they're still unmarried and under thirty. After that they fill up fast.

Almost like latina chicks

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Many years ago I had a gal that was clearly very sheltered that was a Desi from Kerala. She was successful and single and had a nice condo. She was initially a bit aloof but pretty adventurous and I was clearly her secret.

We had a great time in the sack and she tried many new things she’d never in the past including some more esoteric sexual adventures. Everything was going quite well until her parents came to visit from India for two months.

Despite being quite successful and a catch, I was basically erased from her life as a white guy because of their culture, because her parents wanted her to marry a nice Indian boy.

It’s funny how the same Indian parents were OK with her brother seeing white women (the one time he did get a trophy homely white girl), but no their daughter needed to marry another Desi and they were here to make sure she found an acceptable mate because she was turning 30.

Never underestimate the power of culture on a woman. The last time we were together it was clear to me she was saying goodbye, she cried a lot and asked to sleep in my arms. She asked me to “make love” to her and hold her and not let her go. It was a sad day, and although I was not in love with her, I was quite fond of her.

Wow, I’d forgotten about that experience.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Despite being quite successful and a catch, I was basically erased from her life as a white guy because of their culture, because her parents wanted her to marry a nice Indian boy.

I wouldn't consider a traditionally raised Indian girl for an LTR. Would you?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I wouldn't consider a traditionally raised Indian girl for an LTR. Would you?

It depends on the woman, as always. Because of my previous field, I came in contact with many female Desis who were brilliant engineers; some were stunning and sweet.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I came in contact with many female Desis who were brilliant engineers; some were stunning and sweet.

But did you want to go LTR with them?

When I saw their families I wasn't willing to be part of their culture that much and my culture would probably be offensive to a trad Indian wife. I also met Indian and South Asian women here in Amsterdam from more progressive families, but they seem to get 'Westernised' too much and become even more of a handful than local Dutch women.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

But did you want to go LTR with them?

When I saw their families I wasn't willing to be part of their culture that much and my culture would probably be offensive to a trad Indian wife. I also met Indian and South Asian women here in Amsterdam from more progressive families, but they seem to get 'Westernised' too much and become even more of a handful than local Dutch women.

It was possible, depending on the woman. The only women I truly know I’m not culturally compatible with is Israelis (regardless of their faith). IME they act too masculine for my tastes.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The only women I truly know I’m not culturally compatible with is Israelis (regardless of their faith). IME they act too masculine for my tastes.

You can't be compatible with everyone. I'm averse to whiny / nagging / plastic / bimbo women.