No date challenge.

[Knight of Roses]

Im assuming that like me, many of you feel that the most colossal waste of time for us men is a date that doesn't go well. You waste time and money and walk away with nothing. So, here's my idea, inspired by a friend of mine.

My friend, recently broke from his baby momma. He's a chad/tyrone. Good looking, tats, game. When we go out, he definitely gets the pick of the litter. Anyways, we were out gaming the other night at a strip club. We went out both Friday and Saturday to the same club. He spent no money, and gamed this same stripper both nights. At the end of Saturday, he got a call from her at 5:00 AM wanting him to go to her place. So he did, laid it down and here we are.

So I was thinking. It's definitely been done before. How about a 3 month challenge. We invite women on no dates. We just continually game/talk to them until they invite us over to their place or they want to come to ours.

What do yall think? Do you think what my friend did was a rare fluke or have some of you experienced this on a more consistent basis? Worse case scenario, I'll save alot of money over the next three months at least. LoL

 

[pipeman84]

Regarding dating and wasted time/money that's easily solved by screening 1. who you go on a (walking in the park, aka zero cost) date with and 2. who you go on date with that requires money.

Regarding strippers, I'd much rather fvck an escort on my schedule, than waste 2 nights in a row at a strip joint and then wait and hope she'll call me at 5 AM (!!).

 

[Knight of Roses]

Regarding dating and wasted time/money that's easily solved by screening 1. who you go on a (walking in the park, aka zero cost) date with and 2. who you go on date with that requires money.

Regarding strippers, I'd much rather fvck an escort on my schedule, than waste 2 nights in a row at a strip joint and then wait and hope she'll call me at 5 AM (!!).

Yeah but you gotta pay for the escort. And when you pay, the s3x is never as good. Because its not genuine affection. idk, thats my theory on it.

 

[pipeman84]

Yeah but you gotta pay for the escort. And when you pay, the s3x is never as good. Because its not genuine affection. idk, thats my theory on it.

You're paying the stripper with your time. Add up all that time and the inconvenience of her deciding when and if sex happens and unless your time is actually worthless, you'll realise it's more expensive.

Gotta LOL when hearing about genuine affection from either sex workers or hoes from dating apps. You want to see what genuine affection looks like? Go find a couple of teenagers on a park bench who sit there for hours on end. Other than that, barring some exceptions, it's entirely something else, not genuine affection.

 

[Solomon]

It can be done I've had plenty of girls come over for the first meet not all of them where hooks up though.
However this isn't the norm, usually I have to take a woman on a date first and then they may come to the house
Or theirs on the 2nd date.

A couple weeks ago I was supposed to take a chick bowling on a Sunday, I was bored on a Friday night after a date went south that I posted here but she was out and about Friday night and she just ended up coming to my place and we linked.

Your buddy being a Tyrone is a cheat code 1. because the more attractive you are the easier it is to smash right away as they don't have to do what average or below-average guys have to. I have a buddy like this he hasn't taken out a girl on a date since 2019! He has shown me his Tinder and some women are bold and will message him things like "Hey wanna hook up tonight?" I can't recall a girl ever messaging this to me although I have hooked up with girls off tinder the same day that we matched (once again this isn't the norm)

For most men, this isn't going to be realistic however if you're vetting for just smashing then you will save yourself a lot of time but a caveat to that is you will also lose out on a lot of potential girls.

 

[Knight of Roses]

You're paying the stripper with your time. Add up all that time and the inconvenience of her deciding when and if sex happens and unless your time is actually worthless, you'll realise it's more expensive.

Gotta LOL when hearing about genuine affection from either sex workers or hoes from dating apps. You want to see what genuine affection looks like? Go find a couple of teenagers on a park bench who sit there for hours on end. Other than that, barring some exceptions, it's entirely something else, not genuine affection.

Agreed. But we're old bro, we ain't gonna get that pupply love no more.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

We just continually game/talk to them until they invite us over to their place or they want to come to ours.

Where's the challenge? I've been doing that for the last decades. Mostly I meet women around town and exchange IG, then meet for kink / sex. I rarely take women out to dinner and only after we've had sex.

 

[Knight of Roses]

Where's the challenge? I've been doing that for the last decades. Mostly I meet women around town and exchange IG, then meet for kink / sex. I rarely take women out to dinner and only after we've had sex.

What’s your experience in doing that? How long do you typically chat with them until they down to come over?

 

[pipeman84]

Agreed. But we're old bro, we ain't gonna get that pupply love no more.

Puppy love, I like that term. You never know, Charlie Chaplin found it when he was 54.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I did this and it worked pretty well during the pandemic when nothing was open but unless she is drooling over you physically it's unlikely to work.

I mean, sure every now and then it will, but the vast majority won't. Dating doesn't need to be expensive, some guys choose it to be.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

What’s your experience in doing that? How long do you typically chat with them until they down to come over?

I walk around looking attractive, women come over to test if I'm as attractive as I appear to them. I rarely measure the duration of conversations but mostly 10-15 minutes unless they join me for coffee. Often they want to take photos with me and I give them my IG to send me the photos. The ones who are attracted to me respond on IG by opening a conversation. I tell them I enjoyed our (brief) interaction and extend an invitation to join me later.