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The concept of showing masculine power

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The concept of "power" discussed here

"What they look for, instead, are signs of male POWER"
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"By learning to adopt the actions and attitudes of the dominant male, it is possible to create these sort of emotional disturbances in women at will."
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What are we talking about? What is really power here?
 

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The article says a whole bunch of nothingness, a huge nothing burger.

Male power =female excitement. We know that. But as usual, no mention HOW average Joe is able to display or even feign such power.

So a woman can wear a short dress and some slutty make up and voila, temptation. A man must " display power".

In my culture displaying power is the norm. That's why now the new trend for women is to rahter date " jailbirds" over a hardworking career-oriented man. Because if I'm willing to shoot your brains out somehow I'm more exiting than when I can offer her peace and tranquility.

I am telling you OP stay the feck AWAY from this. It's a lose -lose strategy. Yeah you'll get laid here and there. But at what price?

If you wish to display power do so by being the best version of yourself and by dgaf about what people think about you.
 
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Have the biggest set of shoulders in the room and you already have the masculine power without opening your mouth and saying a word or doing anything.

All of that other stuff doesn't matter.

That's why you train like a beast.
 

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And look like an animal.

I'm big, but most of my fellow bouncers were huge. Still, everybody listened when I opened my mouth. It's not always in your size, but in the way you carry yourself that shows your authority.
Ofcourse you are right. But let's just say that for most men this could/ should be a fundamental practice.

Not everyone is as comfortable in his own skin as you ( that is a compliment). So those men will benefit from being noticed from across the room by looking as good as possible

. It will give a man plenty of unexpected opportunities.
 

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I'm saying everyone should do whatever they want to in order to feel comfortable in their skin, but I don't support using steroids and going to the gym. Working on your attitude works better.
Looking like Arnie the Barbarian but behaving like a little b!tch will not give you what you're looking for.
I always assume that most men including lurkers are (logically) part of the infamous 63% who doesn't date. Those men are headcases and thus have to work on all facets of the game;

Spiritual
Financial
Emotional
And yes, physical ( which includes the wardrobe and the crib)
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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By learning to adopt the actions and attitudes of the dominant male, it is possible to create these sort of emotional disturbances in women at will.
Put this nonsense in another context:

By learning to adopt the thought processes and attitudes of a world class mathematician, it is possible to solve complex equations at will.

By learning to adopt the finger movements and attitudes of a world class guitar player, you can shred up on stage at will.

By learning to adopt the leg movements and attitudes of a world class marathoner, you can run sub 3 hour marathons at will.
 

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Smoke the fattest cigars and blow the most smoke! :)
 

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Quote the article linked in The OP: "
Contrary to what you see every week on ‘Sex and the City’, women are the complete opposite of men in that, the more *anonymous* the sexual encounter, the LESS gratifying they find it to be. Unlike the fictional uber-slut Miranda, satisfying sex does not begin and end with the quest to find someone new to have an orgasm with. For the vast majority of women, the MORE connected they feel to their partner, the more overwhelming the total sexual experience is for them.

Just the reverse of typical male thinking, right? Men are intensely turned on by the thought of having sex with a woman for that very FIRST time, or by scoring a one-night stand with a perfect stranger, or perhaps fantasizing about being in a porno movie and having wanton sex with dozens of hot women he hardly knows. The common link between all these scenarios is that there is NO emotional bonding involved. Hell, there’s hardly even an exchange of names! For the man, the more anonymous the sex the more *exciting* the idea of the conquest.

How the two genders make use of (and even exploit) this knowledge of each other’s romantic weakness, however, is an entirely DIFFERENT story.

Women know exactly how to turn men on by manipulating this hardwired ‘quirk’ in their character that absolves them of the need to actually know anything about a woman who has triggered his desire to mate. How? Simply by pushing this uniquely male “anonymous sex” button
long and often… by acting sexy AND remaining emotionally aloof at the same time. The stripper, the table dancer, the *****. The molten hot stranger. Any persona will do — and all are quite useful when their design is seduction!"

Note the dateline on that article: 2003!!! That we keep pretending any of this so-called Red Pill Knowledge is anything original remains mind-boggling. Not to mention sad... In the not too distant past, we were having honest, jargon-free conversations about these subjects
 

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And I think women appreciate candour. You just have to know what to be candid about and what you keep private.
Brings us back around to a conversation we had elsewhere recently

It's prudent to select women who appreciate men who go out of their way to learn what it takes to succeed, with both them and life more generally. I'm not even kidding, when I recommend playing the words spoken between 14:10-14:40

https://www.kqed.org/forum/201011011000/the-business-of-power to any woman you're contemplating bringing into your bed and your life, then ask: "What are you're thoughts on this? Not your FEELINGS, but your thoughts?"

Gals who simply reply "I couldn't agree more", "It's true", or the like are worthy investments. Those who duck and dive, lapse into yapping about their feelings anyway, or give an answer similar to the disjointed rambling heard between 28:36-30:15 of the above interview, are ones to cease all contact with immediately
 

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I think if your playing the short game, sure, but this isn't a sustainable mindset for the long game and is inherently dysfunctional, this isn't the world of 30 years ago as much as some of you like to think; like this idea comes into full conflict with the idea of having a purpose and you can see the dysfunctional people who entertain this type of energy all the time never get very far.

Money talks, but wealth whispers
 

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Hi Jhonny,
I feel inspired by these responses...I will be Master in my own home,
I shall not come from under the bed!
 

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6:00-6:50

Optics change. The fundamentals remain constant and timeless
If everyone has these strategies they aren't timeless, infact they wouldn't even be competitive at that point but would be a point of origin for new strategies.
 

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.. the essence is mostly 'emotional self control' and 'capable of independent thought and action'. In short, 'maturity'.

As most males show mostly immaturity these days, showing maturity immediately marks you as a dominant male.
I do think so!
But, aren't women searching for a "clown" that can evoke their emotions? Women would get bored by the same "high value" and "mature" men they will chose?

And look like an animal.

I'm big, but most of my fellow bouncers were huge. Still, everybody listened when I opened my mouth. It's not always in your size, but in the way you carry yourself that shows your authority.
Sure! Something you can feel in the air. I felt this so many times about short people over taller ones.
And mostly on high BMI people.



ps: @AmsterdamAssassin What are "mature" things a man do in his daily life, alone, then with his friends, then with his women?
 
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Have the biggest set of shoulders in the room and you already have the masculine power without opening your mouth and saying a word or doing anything.

All of that other stuff doesn't matter.

That's why you train like a beast.
My friends grandfather is always the toughest guy in the room and he’s usually the shortest with the warmest smile.
 

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My friends grandfather is always the toughest guy in the room and he’s usually the shortest with the warmest smile.
Having wide shoulders doesn't have to do with being tough. It has to do with being something visual that does the talking for you without you having to say a word or even be paying attention. It's a sign of masculinity and women like it even if they don't know exactly why.

But I agree, in general the people you need to watch out for are the quiet ones who don't say much. I'm not much of a fighter, nor do I go looking for trouble when I go out.

I'm usually the guy people want to come chat with for whatever reason about random stuff.
 

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Having wide shoulders doesn't have to do with being tough. It has to do with being something visual that does the talking for you without you having to say a word or even be paying attention. It's a sign of masculinity and women like it even if they don't know exactly why.

But I agree, in general the people you need to watch out for are the quiet ones who don't say much. I'm not much of a fighter, nor do I go looking for trouble when I go out.

I'm usually the guy people want to come chat with for whatever reason about random stuff.
I agree with you. At my friends lunch on Saturday I had three kids in tow and a girlfriend and I caught every attractive woman in the room making eyes with me, irregardless of age. I’m pretty well built and my friend is JSOC so I guess the social proof was a little better that afternoon. As for gramps, just proof in both instances perception is not always reality. I’m a pretty nice guy, gramps is absolutely cunning. There won’t be another one like him.
 

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Sidebar: You keep mentioning your "JSOC friend." JSOC folks do not talk about JSOC; retired or former ones may, but not active operators.

Usually, it's the REMFs that talk a lot.

Jus'sayin'

I agree with you. At my friends lunch on Saturday I had three kids in tow and a girlfriend and I caught every attractive woman in the room making eyes with me, irregardless of age. I’m pretty well built and my friend is JSOC so I guess the social proof was a little better that afternoon. As for gramps, just proof in both instances perception is not always reality. I’m a pretty nice guy, gramps is absolutely cunning. There won’t be another one like him.
 

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