Harsh Truth: You will never beat women in the dating game

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

With billions of women on the planet, you shouldn't 'court' a woman that isn't interested in you.


I think many people have unrealistic matching goals. Average people should date other average people, because exceptional people don't want to hang around average people. Any relationship that is mismatched is doomed from the start. However, because most people have no idea about how (un)attractive they are, they keep messing up going after unattainable partners.


Realistically, just because you're attracted to someone doesn't mean they reciprocate your feelings. Deal with it. Become as attractive as you can be, expand your social circles, become good company and you will find someone.

B!tching and moaning about how life screwed you over is unattractive.

yup, understatement, never truer words have been said or spoken, this is another reality i like to believe, if your a guy, the world will never come to save you, but it will if your a woman.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Truth. The hottest girl at my work building is a ****ble 32 year old married woman, nose-job, and she is starting to gain weight on her arms but she is still skinny. The gap between her and the second hottest girl is so wide that, all men can be having a conversation, and then she comes in the room, everyone will stop talking and start to try to get her attention. Whether it be by ignoring her, looking at her, trying to talk to her, and some just leave the room. It becomes ackward.

I just want to emphasize that her English is terrible so by default, looks wise, she is the hottest.

**** is so annoying.

The former high school star quarterback, who's now a jowly cashier at Burger King, is similarly seen as sexier by every broad on the pay roll than the pimply faced meth head working the fryer

In a land filled with quadriplegics, Captain Ahab is viewed as a God among "normal" people

 

[BaronOfHair]

...this is another reality i like to believe, if your a guy, the world will never come to save you, but it will if your a woman.

The world may sympathize with you more readily if you're a young, attractive woman.... Anyone of either gender who's relying on somene else to regularly "save" them is in for a rude awakening though

Ex. No one rode to Rachel Bilson's rescue when her limitations as an actress became impossible to ignore, and she reached her late 30s. Had Ol' Rach concocted a fantasy of such a thing happening, then tenaciously clung to that fantasy(Instead of calling upon her ingenuity, starting a new career as a raunchy podcaster), she would've fallen into Dominque Swain-ish obscurity

 

[BaronOfHair]

Your competition isn't women, it's other men, as someone said before the RP is all about brotherhood but put a pretty gal in the room and watch "brotherhood" go out the window. Have seen it to many times not just in BP spaces but also in RP spaces

Eerily similar to

Imagining Malcolm X

prospect.org

"Marable shows that the inner circle of the NOI was an emotional wastelandsuffused with enmity, pettiness, and corruption. He describes NOI officials inflicting beatings on followers as a mode of discipline and demanding increased tithes to pay for expensive automobiles. He establishes that Malcolm X's marriage to Betty Shabazz was a loveless affair, marked by neglect (his) and infidelity (hers). He makes clear beyond any doubt that Elijah Muhammad, while married, seduced young followers, got them pregnant, and then abandoned them and their children, all the while preaching the virtue of chastity and patriarchal duty.

Marable notes how Elijah Muhammad cruelly manipulated those who viewed him as a prophet, insisting, for example, that his ministers desist from buying life insurance so that they would be all the more subject to him out of fear for their families in the event of their incapacitation or death. Marable sets forth in sobering detail the salience of betrayal and revenge in the lives of people who purportedly cherished racial loyalty and unity. Malcolm X served as Muhammad Ali's mentor. But he was summarily ostracized by "The Greatest" when he sought independence from the NOI. Malcolm X offered friendly advice and support to Louis X. But when Malcolm deigned to leave the NOI and publicly expose its leader's messy and multiple sexual dalliances, his former friend targeted him as a man "worthy of death."