AmsterdamAssassin
Master Don Juan
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With billions of women on the planet, you shouldn't 'court' a woman that isn't interested in you.I'd say they are the controller of the dating process. If they don't want anything to do with you, it's over. No matter how you court her.
I think many people have unrealistic matching goals. Average people should date other average people, because exceptional people don't want to hang around average people. Any relationship that is mismatched is doomed from the start. However, because most people have no idea about how (un)attractive they are, they keep messing up going after unattainable partners.This is all an essential component of what it means to be human
Realistically, just because you're attracted to someone doesn't mean they reciprocate your feelings. Deal with it. Become as attractive as you can be, expand your social circles, become good company and you will find someone.yup, and men having to pursue and court or initiate with a woman, has always been and always will be, controller makes sense, since they are normally the ones that decide if or when sex happens at the beginning and if there will be a date or not, since they are always on the position of accepting or declining.
B!tching and moaning about how life screwed you over is unattractive.