Vagina odours

[Murk]

I've been seeing this girl the past 3 weekends. We had sex the first weekend June 1st (2 weeks ago), last weekend I took her out we went back to our own houses. This weekend (today) we had sex. The first time there was a slight smell, today it was worse to the point I couldn’t cvm and we just stopped (she already orgasmed so didn’t seem to care that much).

Here is the issue, I was seeing her last year through to February 2024 (4 months ago) and there was 0 smell. So being kind of experienced I know when a girl has sex with multiple men it fvcks up the ph balance of the vag and can cause BV. Today there was some discharge, like, noticeable on my d!ck not the usual creaminess level I’ve seen with her before. Could it just be she hasn’t had D for a while?

She claims to have not slept with anyone, I take it with a pinch of salt anyway as we know women will not admit these things.

Can someone with some experience or knowledge on this explain this new smell? It’s kind of sour bordering fishy (I can only assume BV). I came inside her 2 weeks ago when the smell was minimal, and now it’s much worse. This leads me to believe my d!ck/semen have caused a reaction. We were having regular/semi-regular sex before with no issues. Could it simply be because we hadn’t had sex for like 4 months? Is that enough time for her vagina/ph level to re-acclimatise to its natural state? Or is it more likely she’s had some other d!ck messing with the fauna and flora of the vaginal ecosystem (I’m aware I’m talking sh*t here lol).

Any advice welcome, I side with caution and scepticism in these cases as I know female nature.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I've been seeing this girl the past 3 weekends. We had sex the first weekend June 1st (2 weeks ago), last weekend I took her out we went back to our own houses. This weekend (today) we had sex. The first time there was a slight smell, today it was worse to the point I couldn’t cvm and we just stopped (she already orgasmed so didn’t seem to care that much).

Here is the issue, I was seeing her last year through to February 2024 (4 months ago) and there was 0 smell. So being kind of experienced I know when a girl has sex with multiple men it fvcks up the ph balance of the vag and can cause BV. Today there was some discharge, like, noticeable on my d!ck not the usual creaminess level I’ve seen with her before. Could it just be she hasn’t had D for a while?

She claims to have not slept with anyone, I take it with a pinch of salt anyway as we know women will not admit these things.

Can someone with some experience or knowledge on this explain this new smell? It’s kind of sour bordering fishy (I can only assume BV). I came inside her 2 weeks ago when the smell was minimal, and now it’s much worse. This leads me to believe my d!ck/semen have caused a reaction. We were having regular/semi-regular sex before with no issues. Could it simply be because we hadn’t had sex for like 4 months? Is that enough time for her vagina/ph level to re-acclimatise to its natural state? Or is it more likely she’s had some other d!ck messing with the fauna and flora of the vaginal ecosystem (I’m aware I’m talking sh*t here lol).

Any advice welcome, I side with caution and scepticism in these cases as I know female nature.

Chicks can be/frequently are just as gross as we are. She just may not be freshening up down there as frequently as is recommended

 

[BackInTheGame78]

A saying I have heard often...

"If it smells like cologne, leave it alone...
If it smells like fish, it's a dish..."

 

[BaronOfHair]

If it smells like fish, it's a dish..."

A fella is wise to have tartar sauce in his nightstand drawer, next to The Trojans and his Sig 1911, in case the broad's husband or father walks in. If you're living in or around Appalachia, probabilities are high that those two are one in the same

 

[Hamurabimbi]

My pen!s has no nostrils.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Goddamnit.

I clicked on this thread thinking it said "vagina outdoors" thinking I'd see some pics.

 

[BeExcellent]

Hi Murk. Ok. This is a quick lesson about flora of the naughty bits. You are correct about BV.

So certainly another car may be parking in your garage; she's unlikely to admit or disclose that.

Here's something you may not know. If you are sleeping with multiple women, you can actually cross pollenate the vaginal canal of the girls you are having sex with, no matter how you scrub up after.

Why/how is this possible? During the thrusting of penetration some of her vaginal flora gets into your urethra. Yes you pass urine & semen through there but there can be a residue of yeast & bacterial flora that you are actually cross contaminating between your lovers if sex is unprotected. That cross contamination can cause BV.

If a girl is adverse to spermicide or latex, that can upset the vaginal balance too.

If she has a yeast infection it can be odorous.

My sister used to develop urinary tract infections often. She is in a monogamous marriage now 25 years. Early on in the marriage she saw correlation between sex and these UTIs and found that something about her husband's personal chemistry was causing these UTIs to happen. She keeps unsweet 100% cranberry juice on hand at all times. The bacteria can't stick as much to her tissue because of phyto compounds in the unsweet cranberry juice and the issue has gone away unless she gets lax about consuming cranberry juice after sex (it's bitter but she's gotten used to that).

Obviously you've talked to her. Have her see a doctor in case it's BV or a yeast infection. Normal smell is mildly briny, a strong fish odor is out of whack in some way.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Hi Murk. Ok. This is a quick lesson about flora of the naughty bits. You are correct about BV.

So certainly another car may be parking in your garage; she's unlikely to admit or disclose that.

Here's something you may not know. If you are sleeping with multiple women, you can actually cross pollenate the vaginal canal of the girls you are having sex with, no matter how you scrub up after.

Why/how is this possible? During the thrusting of penetration some of her vaginal flora gets into your urethra. Yes you pass urine & semen through there but there can be a residue of yeast & bacterial flora that you are actually cross contaminating between your lovers if sex is unprotected. That cross contamination can cause BV.

If a girl is adverse to spermicide or latex, that can upset the vaginal balance too.

If she has a yeast infection it can be odorous.

My sister used to develop urinary tract infections often. She is in a monogamous marriage now 25 years. Early on in the marriage she saw correlation between sex and these UTIs and found that something about her husband's personal chemistry was causing these UTIs to happen. She keeps unsweet 100% cranberry juice on hand at all times. The bacteria can't stick as much to her tissue because of phyto compounds in the unsweet cranberry juice and the issue has gone away unless she gets lax about consuming cranberry juice after sex (it's bitter but she's gotten used to that).

Obviously you've talked to her. Have her see a doctor in case it's BV or a yeast infection. Normal smell is mildly briny, a strong fish odor is out of whack in some way.

I've also had women tell me they go urinate immediately after sex to prevent It is...is that supposed to be a thing to help also?

 

[BeExcellent]

I've also had women tell me they go urinate immediately after sex to prevent It is...is that supposed to be a thing to help also?

Yes. My sister does that too.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

As a guy, if you’re having unprotected sex, make sure to urinate after sex as well…

 

[Murk]

Hi Murk. Ok. This is a quick lesson about flora of the naughty bits. You are correct about BV.

So certainly another car may be parking in your garage; she's unlikely to admit or disclose that.

Here's something you may not know. If you are sleeping with multiple women, you can actually cross pollenate the vaginal canal of the girls you are having sex with, no matter how you scrub up after.

Why/how is this possible? During the thrusting of penetration some of her vaginal flora gets into your urethra. Yes you pass urine & semen through there but there can be a residue of yeast & bacterial flora that you are actually cross contaminating between your lovers if sex is unprotected. That cross contamination can cause BV.

If a girl is adverse to spermicide or latex, that can upset the vaginal balance too.

If she has a yeast infection it can be odorous.

My sister used to develop urinary tract infections often. She is in a monogamous marriage now 25 years. Early on in the marriage she saw correlation between sex and these UTIs and found that something about her husband's personal chemistry was causing these UTIs to happen. She keeps unsweet 100% cranberry juice on hand at all times. The bacteria can't stick as much to her tissue because of phyto compounds in the unsweet cranberry juice and the issue has gone away unless she gets lax about consuming cranberry juice after sex (it's bitter but she's gotten used to that).

Obviously you've talked to her. Have her see a doctor in case it's BV or a yeast infection. Normal smell is mildly briny, a strong fish odor is out of whack in some way.

When posting this I did hope you or another female would post!

My issue is there was already a slight smell of it the first time we had sex 2 weeks ago so it was nothing to do with me. It was just much stronger this weekend (after I'd cvm side her 2 weeks ago). Could that be it? It seems off because I've cvm inside her previously many times and this smell was not there early this year or last year.

I have not mentioned this to her yet, she left soon after. I wanted to compose myself and think about how to bring this up. It was also an issue when we very first met a long time ago and then it stopped. This leads me to belive it's the result of another man. Is it just semen that causes it or general penetration?

How/what am I supposed to say to her? Thanks in advance!

Chicks can be/frequently are just as gross as we are. She just may not be freshening up down there as frequently as is recommended

Yeah could be that, but also it was stronger the next time we had sex leading me to believe the ph imbalance is the issue. Which means someone else has been altering it as there was no smell previously.

And wash your trouser snake.

I'm OCD with hygiene, you can eat your dinner off my penis.

 

[Divorced w 3]

It took 25 years but I finally now know why my mothers friends daughter smelled so incredibly putrid.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Gross. Wrap it up mane

 

[Fruitbat]

One very insightful woman online once posted:

“Men say they don’t like fishy Fanny, but they often sniff knickers, so it doesn’t make sense”

 

[Murk]

@logicallefty actually made a thread 10 years ago about this https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/v-smell-to-detect-cheating-woman.217034/

There was a greyish white discharge on my wang so I’m 90% sure it’s BV and given she never had it before and I smelled it the first time we banged I’m smelling foul play. I will bring this up with her as I can’t physically have sex with someone that has BV I’m not doing that to myself.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Why you raw dogging this 304?

 

[Murk]

Why you raw dogging this 304?

I been raw dogging her with no issues lol (you're right though). We had a break of 4 months and this happens. I'm disgusted with myself again and I've been doing so well.

 

[BeExcellent]

If I'm a betting person it's either candida (yeast) infection or BV. She needs to see a doctor. There can also be an adjustment period with a new partner even if monogamous.

Why? Because the vagina is a self cleaning organ. Women do not need to douche or do other things to actively clean the canal. The outer anatomy? Sure. Regular soap & water is best.

Douching can actually get the vaginal flora very out of whack and is not a good regular practice. It causes more problems than it solves.

Now. When semen is introduced, that's not something that would otherwise be in there in a non sexually active vagina. So when male fluids are introduced, it can take the vagina a little time to reset to the new normal (presence of male fluids), even if you are her only partner.

Multiple partners (yours or hers or both) can further complicate things as noted in my first post.

If it continues, conversate & she needs a check up. A doctor can give her a script to reset the flora once an exam shows what is overgrowing in there.

Cheers

 

[Murk]

If I'm a betting person it's either candida (yeast) infection or BV. She needs to see a doctor. There can also be an adjustment period with a new partner even if monogamous.

Why? Because the vagina is a self cleaning organ. Women do not need to douche or do other things to actively clean the canal. The outer anatomy? Sure. Regular soap & water is best.

Douching can actually get the vaginal flora very out of whack and is not a good regular practice. It causes more problems than it solves.

Now. When semen is introduced, that's not something that would otherwise be in there in a non sexually active vagina. So when male fluids are introduced, it can take the vagina a little time to reset to the new normal (presence of male fluids), even if you are her only partner.

Multiple partners (yours or hers or both) can further complicate things as noted in my first post.

If it continues, conversate & she needs a check up. A doctor can give her a script to reset the flora once an exam shows what is overgrowing in there.

Cheers

Ok that was also my thoughts, a reset mode of sorts. But how would that explain the smell (pretty much the same but less) when we first had sex. There would have been no prior contagion up until that point. That's why I'm sceptical.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

OP: you're not going to be able to reason or sleuth your way around this one.

The vag is a mysterious and wonderful thing. Her smelling different is simply the outcome of a change in body chemistry - why the chemistry changed could be due to many things - and you'll never know what caused it. If you are so worried about her being plundered by someone else, you should walk away. Being suspicious will make you lose frame, be passive-aggressive, and generally feel bad. Why bother? After reading your posts, you're already borderline obsessed with this.

You guys were broken up - maybe she bonked someone else, perhaps she didn't, it's NUNYA.

Again, if you're sweating this (so long as she takes care of it), you should move on.