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[Bingo-Player]

My city runs singles events on Thursdays usually once a fortnight

I tend to go every 4-6 weeks , the last one I went too was about 5 weeks ago and I ended up fvcking an asian chick after it

Last nights was at a different venue it was absolutely fvcking rammed I think like 150 -200 people equal numbers of male and females if anything probably 60-% female

I go alone because you can run through sets faster but women tend to go in groups or at least pairs which I find baffling because you end up having to open and entertain up to 4 women at once even if you aren't interested in most of them

But that's women being typical women

These events massively depend on the crowd and last nights wasn't great ....a lot of women with bad attitudes and " impress me " vibes

None the less I did what I could and started approaching

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Random got talking to this 40 something blonde chick 10-15 years ago she may have had something about her but age hadn't been kind and she told me she was divorced with 4 kids

I flirted with her a bit to warm up and she was receptive telling me she's slept with younger guys in the past ....I wasn't that interested though and thinking about the state of her box after 4 children going through it wasn't doing much for me I made my excuses and left

next up meet 2 chicks in their 30's one was Indian / asian and not my type at all , but her friend was ok and seemed to take a shine to me we were flirting a bit
again I moved on after about 15mins

I got outside for a vape and start talking to another 2 chicks who seemed very " corporate " a 3rd shortly joined us and the interaction quickly became me basically being interrogated by 3 women I wasn't even fussed about ....I made my excuses and left

On my way in I spotted 2 chicks on a table went to chat to them one was Irish and Ratchety but the other was South African and very pleasant we shared some common intrestes and I wanted to try and isolate her but the Irish was blocking me

I go up to get a drink theres a very sassy looking HB7 red head at the bar with her t1ts on full display ....I already knew how this was going to go

the second I opened my mouth she started trying to sh1t test me ....I played them off and held my frame once she realised she wasn't going to shake me she loosened up with me ....we went and sat down to talk she started telling me about her dad and childhood I knew then I would probably be able to get the number

we chatted for about 20 mins she actually ended up asking for my details ......I probably will follow this one up

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as I go back in another girl I had been talking to earlier approached me she was pretty drunk and flirting with me telling me I was her favourtie

we had some light touching and she rubbed her a$$ against my c0ck but again there was a friend there like a 3rd fvcking wheel ....I had to go and drag some guy over to wing me and entertain the other one

at that point I thought there was a chance I would be getting laid but the vibe started getting a bit stale and my chick was just constantly trying to sh1t test me and saying she wasn't coming home with me

My patience wore out and I just walked off as I am leaving the venue the 40year old blonde chick and her sister were also leaving

We went to get some food and at one stage her 38 year old sister was coming on to me ....but again I wasn't fussed and eventually just left them

 

[Bingo-Player]

Overall not a brilliant night selection of women was generally poor and probably the average types of women you would get if you were paying for a premium subscription on a swipe app

I've highlighted a few sets above but I actually did a lot more ..... problem is the women were so boring they weren't even worth mentioning

I do come across some women at these things that I assess and think to myself "wtf are you here for"

there was one or two moments where I connected with 1 or 2 women but probably not enough for what I am looking for

One benefit of doing these things is that my initial approach anxiety when going up to women has almost completely vanished now

I'm fairly confident in the right environment I could cold approach any woman without breaking a sweat

I'm also getting good at noticing what sort of tones and energies I like from women I can tell quickly now wether the interaction is going to go anywhere or not

if it's not I'm moving on within 10 mins fvck wasting time

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The number of kids you have has no bearing on their pvssy. Another nonsensical thing most guys come up with that has almost no basis in reality.

I've fvcked quite a few chicks with multiple kids that were tighter than women with no kids. It's genetics.

 

[Clockwerk50]

@BackInTheGame78 Just to add, some women also have c-sections so they do not have vaginal labour.

@Bingo-Player What happened to the Asian chick?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

@BackInTheGame78 Just to add, some women also have c-sections so they do not have vaginal labour.

@Bingo-Player What happened to the Asian chick?

Exactly...and once you have one C-section, you almost always are forced to deliver any others after it by C-section due to weakening of the muscles from cutting them and then not wanting to take a chance of hernias or other complications.

 

[Bingo-Player]

The number of kids you have has no bearing on their pvssy. Another nonsensical thing most guys come up with that has almost no basis in reality.

I've fvcked quite a few chicks with multiple kids that were tighter than women with no kids. It's genetics.

Regardless childbirth takes a serious toll on a woman's body and like I said the though of X4 of another mans children coming out of there wasn't doing much for me

This woman was 10 years too old for me anyway I just referenced her because she was the first and last woman I spoke to there

 

[Bingo-Player]

@BackInTheGame78 Just to add, some women also have c-sections so they do not have vaginal labour.

@Bingo-Player What happened to the Asian chick?

I went over her house about 3 weeks ago and we had a bottle of wine and sex again

The sex was ok but both times we had sex she was wearing very unnapealing underwear it took me about 15 mins to get hard for her

To me a woman that can't really be bothered to be sexy in them early stages certainly isn't going to be later down the line

it turned me off

After that I realised I wasn't really bothered about her and was just entertaining her because she was low hanging fruit

I cut her loose

 

[BillyPilgrim]

OP's encounters with Irishwomen and Redheads are by no means isolated incidents. Both problem demos.

Also, beware older women telling you "they've slept with younger men in the past", it's an attempt to gain equal footing where it doesn't exist. Tell them you're very experienced but not with older women although you are curious. This will imply that *they* need to convince *you*, not the other way around.

 

[characternote]

stick to the hot 18 year olds!

edit: you're in the UK. Go for 16-18! lol

 

[Bingo-Player]

stick to the hot 18 year olds!

edit: you're in the UK. Go for 16-18! lol

I'm in Australia now

I do tend to mix better with women under 25 my personality is quite carefree and IDGAF which younger women seem to resonate better with

I find women in their 30's s to start getting way too corporate, boring and serious

18-20 is too young really though they are still kids

The redheads number I got she was 22

 

[characternote]

I'm in Australia now

I do tend to mix better with women under 25 my personality is quite carefree and IDGAF which younger women seem to resonate better with

I find women in their 30's s to start getting way too corporate, boring and serious

18-20 is too young really though they are still kids

The redheads number I got she was 22

I hear ya.
I find it way easier to bang women in their late 20's and 30's+, but the ones who always catch my eye who, when I look at them I think 'Damn!! I want her!!' are always basically the 18 year old girls in the bars lol.
But them girls tend to be extremely superficial in my experience, so you kind of need a bit of a lottery win in terms of them thinking you are hot, too! (sometimes it feels like you can literally laugh an older woman into bed, but with the young ones it's more about raw physical attraction and personality is a distant 2nd place)
But like you, I do tend to at least vibe well with the young ones (and bang 'some' of them) - i think because i'm also very carefree and, tbh, immature! lol. So if physical attraction is also there (not that often i'm afraid!) then it's a bit of a lay-up!