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So, this Tyrone looking dude struggled on Tinder and hired a professional cuddler?

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“The Matrix is a computer-generated dream world, built to keep us under control in order to change a human being into this.” (shows a battery) In this case we're just a revenue stream, turned into a consumer who pays for comfort and convenience. Everything that is wrong with the world comes from comfort and convenience.
 

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“The Matrix is a computer-generated dream world, built to keep us under control in order to change a human being into this.” (shows a battery) In this case we're just a revenue stream, turned into a consumer who pays for comfort and convenience. Everything that is wrong with the world comes from comfort and convenience.
What "we" are you referring to? The vast majority of members on here, are great with women and won't have to go to these depths of desperation. Even most people who are struggling on here don't go that far as to pay for anything. Just a very small minority on here that might go that far.
 

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we as in humanity. I was not referring just to social dynamics between men and women.
 
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we as in humanity. I was not referring just to social dynamics between men and women.
Okay, then that sounds like a different issue outside of the intent of the thread and what @AmsterdamAssassin had posted prior to your post (ie which would have sounded like an extension of what he was saying in terms of normalizing paying for things...which is 100% social dynamics between men and women).

What is your opinion on what @AmsterdamAssassin is saying? Do you think there is a conspiracy out there, from the powers that be, to undermine normal social dynmamics between men and women by normalizing paying for sex and intimacy or do you think that's a half-baked idea?
 

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(Anything Else given the subject matter / intended as a fun Locker Room type thread)


How could guy who looks like that have struggled to find any woman on a dating app?

Is this video for real? Comments?

I see a price point of $ 500 on the video. When I did check online locally (ie for kicks), I see that it's actually like $ 80/hour. What he may have claimed it costs on the video sounds too excessive and makes me wonder if it was a totally staged thing to get clicks. But why would someone do that for such a subject if that was the case? It doesn't sound like a conquest for someone to brag about on youtube.
I don't see him as even having that good of a face - and he is moderately crippled. He has come to the realization that it is OVER for him. What I don't understand is paying that much cash for a cuddle - I mean I get cuddling as part of the complete professional package. :rolleyes:
 

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Why do you think I recognise this behaviour? The thing is, that didn't work with the Dutch themselves, just foreigners. Most of the prostitutes in the Red Light District are foreigners, most of their clients are tourists. The Dutch just take their profits and tax them.
The ones that are in the circle around the church aren't even European.
 

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Most of the black men I know that have “dated out” actually have women that neither black nor white; they are with Asians (usually Filipino) or mixed race Latinas. Black men with white women usually comes from running in predominantly white spaces. Either they grew up in almost all white areas, or they are extremely “mainstream” some examples being Michael Strahan, Tiger Woods, PK Subban, TJ Holmes, Byron Allen, and Daymond John.
Don't forget OJ. :rolleyes:
 

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I don't see him as even having that good of a face - and he is moderately crippled. He has come to the realization that it is OVER for him. What I don't understand is paying that much cash for a cuddle - I mean I get cuddling as part of the complete professional package. :rolleyes:
It could cost that much if it's an overnight session, however, the video is portraying like it's some short session. The going rate is more like
$ 80-$120 rather than $ 500 and she doesn't look that hot enough for a white woman to command that type of money either.

I would guess that some people like to know that other guys are not paying to run a train on her, with yourself counted among them, and would feel better if she's just strictly cuddling with other guys as opposed to doing something more nastier. Not everyone likes dealing with a woman who lets other guys, from the street, sleep with her after forking cash.
 

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Everything that is wrong with the world comes from comfort and convenience.
Hi Behimo,
There is a great deal of truth in what you say,Mary Beard the greatest living Expert on The Roman Empire,opined that its collapse was mainly due to shrinking borders creating a dire shortage of Slaves.In the past DeToqueville your Revolutionary hero speculated that your Nations coming downfall,would come from a similar source...Who Knows?
 

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It could cost that much if it's an overnight session, however, the video is portraying like it's some short session. The going rate is more like
$ 80-$120 rather than $ 500 and she doesn't look that hot enough for a white woman to command that type of money either.

I would guess that some people like to know that other guys are not paying to run a train on her, with yourself counted among them, and would feel better if she's just strictly cuddling with other guys as opposed to doing something more nastier. Not everyone likes dealing with a woman who lets other guys, from the street, sleep with her after forking cash.
So you are trying to say that men place a value on a cuddler being virginal - and thus like the idea of hiring a cuddler because they can be assured that she's not slutting it up with other men? What about rub & tug chicks?
 

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I don't see how that's possible considering that both black men and women come from the same socio-cultural environment. And it doesn't explain why most black women also prefer dating outside their race when given the choice. Anecdotally speaking, half the likes I get on Hinge are from black girls even though I look like a garden variety white guy (i.e. I don't dress like Eminem or have a picture of a Range Rover on chrome rims in my profile).
Here's my theory. Black women are like any other women in that they are instinctually hypergamous. And since the average black man is considered on the bottom tier - i.e., the "incels" of races - due to racism, history, current economics, or whatever; thus, black women look at the average black man as any woman, even a fatty, would look at dating an incel - and for a lot them, they feel this rage at being stuck with men at such a tier, which is why black women have such bad attitudes, and are so proud to be "sassy", etc. This is also explains why a Normie like Bokanovsky gets so many likes from black girls on Hinge - and why a lot of times, black girls at the local Popeye's like to flirt with me. :eek:
 

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Here's my theory. Black women are like any other women in that they are instinctually hypergamous. And since the average black man is considered on the bottom tier - i.e., the "incels" of races - due to racism, history, current economics, or whatever; thus, black women look at the average black man as any woman, even a fatty, would look at dating an incel - and for a lot them, they feel this rage at being stuck with men at such a tier, which is why black women have such bad attitudes, and are so proud to be "sassy", etc. This is also explains why a Normie like Bokanovsky gets so many likes from black girls on Hinge - and why a lot of times, black girls at the local Popeye's like to flirt with me. :eek:

Exactly. If you also have to worry about (some) escorts rejecting you (ie no blacks), then it's really bad.

You got rejected by an escort before who misidentified you as being middle-eastern. You remember how that felt?
I don't know how you had enough pride to visit her a second time despite the fact she serviced you that second time.

However, I've seen a number of other videos of cuddling, but are mainly involving Black guys:




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SyjGMiw_fxg&t=553s


I guess there are not many issues with Cuddlers and Blacks, lol!
 
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