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I've just had a chance to read up Swinggcat's Push-Pull theory. It is quite interesting as the underlying basis of Swinggcat's Push-Pull theory is the same as Rio's 101 theory. Basically, both ideas hinge on swinging an emotion negatively to one direction, and finishing up by swinging the emotion back to positive in the opposite direction. The net effect of this is the so called "emotional swing" that so many chicks get excitement from.
As Swinggcat mentioned, this technique is often employed in Soap Operas to give women "emotional rollercoaster" rides. I'm sure that skilled seductionists have used this idea for ages but it's nice that Rio & Swinggcat have broken the structure of it down and have named it with a terminology we can use.
Of interest to note is that some women use this very method to hook a lot of guys:
The 1 or positive swing: She flirts with you and gives you an indication that she may like you
The 0 or negative swing: When you make a move on her, she pushes away with a variation of the "Lets Just Be Friends" line, refuses to give you her telephone number, cancelling a date, etc.
The 1 or positive swing: After giving you the run-around, she flirts with you again.
The above example can also be viewed as a Pull-Push-Pull according to Swinggcat.
Interestingly, a side of effect of many jerks is that they give their women various "emotional swings" ... thus, jerks more frequently 101 their women than your standard nice guy.
Anyways, here is Rio's 101 theory (original source at:http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=10391821896270 ):
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Date Posted: 2002/01/22 10:06:00 AM EST
Author: Neo-Rio <unknown email address>
Subject: The 101 Primer
Here is the 101 Primer document that I promised. Feel free to discuss this, suggest improvements, other examples, make comments, etc.
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The 101 Primer - The Core Framework of Seduction
I was inspired to write this document because of the confusions surrounding the two kinds of SOIs (Statement Of Intent) and because some people out there didn't understand the 101 theory correctly when I originally posted bits and pieces of it on ASF (alt.seduction.fast). It has been because I didn't understand it fully at the time unlike I do now. For that reason, here is a detailed explanation that will do away with the old terminology and replace it with something that can actually be
taught in a logical, thought out process without the confusion.
WHY 101?
I came up with 101 after a burnt-out alcohol filled intensive PU (Pick Up) session at night on a train to Tokyo when my mind got a direct link to my subconscious. It was there that I not only found God, but also how to seduce women should the 101 plan be done correctly and completely. I don't care if you don't believe me on that one and if it wrecks my credibility wih you. After all, I
saw God and you didn't.
Besides, God is the creator of all life. If we want to create life (hint hint!) we have to understand it.
101 can be broken down into the numbers 0 and 1. 0 representing negative. 1 representing positive. I'll represent emotions with their numbers from now on in brackets for the rest of this document.
Similarly, if you think of computers, you will know that the transistors inside their chips only understand light-on (1), or light-off (0). Similarly, if you think of the first chapter of the Bible, you will know that God separated darkness and light. You will also be aware, that if you consider the ancient Chinese Yin-Yang symbol, that it contains a dark side and a white side. Many similar ancient and religious stories and such that speak of creation consume themselves by discussing these opposites as somehow being able to exit together in a kind of ordered chaos (how's that
for a contradiction?). Also, there is the old saying that humans cannot appreciate good feelings, without feeling bad feelings - and similarly cannot revile bad things without good things.
Going back to the Yin-yang symbol, one side is white or good (1) and the other side is dark and evil (0). Together, they make a circle. The circle represents a sense of completeness or enlightenment or infinity. Which, if one applies oneself to the search for enlightenment, is essentially a good thing (1).
Note the seeming contradiction here - that is, good and bad together is actually still good (which begs the question, is bad REALLY bad at all?)
In this way, we have 101. That is to say that in life there is good, there is evil, but all in all life is a positive experience. 101 is the basics of whatever follows in life. (Such as you will notice that the first subject of a university topic is called something-or-other 101). And for some reason, Jewish people really like this number. The Isreali army's top crack commando unit is numbered 101, and unit 101 makes an appearance in "Saving Private Ryan". Maybe that's just chance or coincidence.... or maybe I'm starting to see 101 everywhere anyway.
101 AND SEDUCTION THEORY
Before I lose some of you completely, let's now move away from the spiritual/philosophical aspect and start applying this to seduction theory. Let's not also forget that as students of seduction, we try to use logical structure to create emotion. This too is a contradiction in terms (logic vs. emotion) - but with 101 we have a plan to merge the two together into something workable.
As most students of seduction are aware, the conscious mind can be bypassed through telling stories - because stories are fiction and therefore not limited to reality. Once the listener is placed in this state of "anything goes", the storyteller can insert all kinds of emotion into his/her target audience without resistance. Stories also follow a typical plan. That is, (1) beginning, (0) a middle, and (1) and ending. The beginning is the time in the story where everything is good and normal (1). Slowly as the story progresses, there is a problem that becomes apparent, which results in the climatic point of the story (0). Eventually as the climax subsides, the story winds its way towards conclusion - when things are explained, and the ending is either a happy one, or a good one with a different situation than the story started
out as (1).
Both 1 and 0 create a contradiction - and a MYSTERY. Confusing women like this makes them curious and wanting to know more. When you give them a plan of action (1) to solve the mystery (10) - they are coerced into doing whatever it is you really want them to do. Throughout the period of mystery, however, your intentions are mostly obscure to the female - thus giving her
a task to complete (usually something that you want her to do anyway) to get what she wants, which is what you are offering (which, if you want to leave a bad taste in her mouth, you don't have to give).
101, in this way, is pure manipulation. It works as an effective "double bind" to influence people. Let me point out that I'd rather not have to use mind-control to get women. Instead, I'd rather install good feelings into them, and let them work on it. However, not all women are going to be like this, thus we have a need for 101. 101, however, is only manipulation in so far as it is a contract of conduct between two people ? as I will be showing later on. In this sense, 101 isn't really bad manipulation at all, because people use contracts all the time to do business together. 101 is about gentle persuasion to get women to do
what they really want to do anyway ? in a safe environment.
USING 101 PRACTICALLY
I find that 101 can be used in many different ways during the course of seduction. Three common ones spring to mind (but there are many others)
1. As a general seduction plan (e.g. Takeaways)
2. As a way to set relationship expectations
3. As a way to give a woman controlled emotional swings (flirting, NEGs,
etc)
Depending on how you use a 101 routine, the parts of each component will be
different.
101 AS A CONTRACT
Now I'm going to explain the components (and their many vairations in usage) in detail so that you can use it to pick up women. I'm going to use the analogy of a contract in order to explain 101. 101 IS a sales contract (in an extreme seduction sense: think "marriage"), because it is a logical plan to make two people safe in being able to express their otherwise"illogical"
and uncontrollable feelings (note the contradiction). In each of the parts, you can use NLP or some other kind of languaging skill to speak to her emotionally. Also, I'm sure you will find many other pick-up techniques will fit in nicely into the framework.
Also, pay particular note to the presuppositions that 101 makes. There are very important, and will be explained first, followed by ways each part of 101 can be used
As Swinggcat mentioned, this technique is often employed in Soap Operas to give women "emotional rollercoaster" rides. I'm sure that skilled seductionists have used this idea for ages but it's nice that Rio & Swinggcat have broken the structure of it down and have named it with a terminology we can use.
Of interest to note is that some women use this very method to hook a lot of guys:
The 1 or positive swing: She flirts with you and gives you an indication that she may like you
The 0 or negative swing: When you make a move on her, she pushes away with a variation of the "Lets Just Be Friends" line, refuses to give you her telephone number, cancelling a date, etc.
The 1 or positive swing: After giving you the run-around, she flirts with you again.
The above example can also be viewed as a Pull-Push-Pull according to Swinggcat.
Interestingly, a side of effect of many jerks is that they give their women various "emotional swings" ... thus, jerks more frequently 101 their women than your standard nice guy.
Anyways, here is Rio's 101 theory (original source at:http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=10391821896270 ):
==============================================
Date Posted: 2002/01/22 10:06:00 AM EST
Author: Neo-Rio <unknown email address>
Subject: The 101 Primer
Here is the 101 Primer document that I promised. Feel free to discuss this, suggest improvements, other examples, make comments, etc.
-----------------------------------------------------------
The 101 Primer - The Core Framework of Seduction
I was inspired to write this document because of the confusions surrounding the two kinds of SOIs (Statement Of Intent) and because some people out there didn't understand the 101 theory correctly when I originally posted bits and pieces of it on ASF (alt.seduction.fast). It has been because I didn't understand it fully at the time unlike I do now. For that reason, here is a detailed explanation that will do away with the old terminology and replace it with something that can actually be
taught in a logical, thought out process without the confusion.
WHY 101?
I came up with 101 after a burnt-out alcohol filled intensive PU (Pick Up) session at night on a train to Tokyo when my mind got a direct link to my subconscious. It was there that I not only found God, but also how to seduce women should the 101 plan be done correctly and completely. I don't care if you don't believe me on that one and if it wrecks my credibility wih you. After all, I
saw God and you didn't.
Besides, God is the creator of all life. If we want to create life (hint hint!) we have to understand it.101 can be broken down into the numbers 0 and 1. 0 representing negative. 1 representing positive. I'll represent emotions with their numbers from now on in brackets for the rest of this document.
Similarly, if you think of computers, you will know that the transistors inside their chips only understand light-on (1), or light-off (0). Similarly, if you think of the first chapter of the Bible, you will know that God separated darkness and light. You will also be aware, that if you consider the ancient Chinese Yin-Yang symbol, that it contains a dark side and a white side. Many similar ancient and religious stories and such that speak of creation consume themselves by discussing these opposites as somehow being able to exit together in a kind of ordered chaos (how's that
for a contradiction?). Also, there is the old saying that humans cannot appreciate good feelings, without feeling bad feelings - and similarly cannot revile bad things without good things.
Going back to the Yin-yang symbol, one side is white or good (1) and the other side is dark and evil (0). Together, they make a circle. The circle represents a sense of completeness or enlightenment or infinity. Which, if one applies oneself to the search for enlightenment, is essentially a good thing (1).
Note the seeming contradiction here - that is, good and bad together is actually still good (which begs the question, is bad REALLY bad at all?)
In this way, we have 101. That is to say that in life there is good, there is evil, but all in all life is a positive experience. 101 is the basics of whatever follows in life. (Such as you will notice that the first subject of a university topic is called something-or-other 101). And for some reason, Jewish people really like this number. The Isreali army's top crack commando unit is numbered 101, and unit 101 makes an appearance in "Saving Private Ryan". Maybe that's just chance or coincidence.... or maybe I'm starting to see 101 everywhere anyway.
101 AND SEDUCTION THEORY
Before I lose some of you completely, let's now move away from the spiritual/philosophical aspect and start applying this to seduction theory. Let's not also forget that as students of seduction, we try to use logical structure to create emotion. This too is a contradiction in terms (logic vs. emotion) - but with 101 we have a plan to merge the two together into something workable.
As most students of seduction are aware, the conscious mind can be bypassed through telling stories - because stories are fiction and therefore not limited to reality. Once the listener is placed in this state of "anything goes", the storyteller can insert all kinds of emotion into his/her target audience without resistance. Stories also follow a typical plan. That is, (1) beginning, (0) a middle, and (1) and ending. The beginning is the time in the story where everything is good and normal (1). Slowly as the story progresses, there is a problem that becomes apparent, which results in the climatic point of the story (0). Eventually as the climax subsides, the story winds its way towards conclusion - when things are explained, and the ending is either a happy one, or a good one with a different situation than the story started
out as (1).
Both 1 and 0 create a contradiction - and a MYSTERY. Confusing women like this makes them curious and wanting to know more. When you give them a plan of action (1) to solve the mystery (10) - they are coerced into doing whatever it is you really want them to do. Throughout the period of mystery, however, your intentions are mostly obscure to the female - thus giving her
a task to complete (usually something that you want her to do anyway) to get what she wants, which is what you are offering (which, if you want to leave a bad taste in her mouth, you don't have to give).
101, in this way, is pure manipulation. It works as an effective "double bind" to influence people. Let me point out that I'd rather not have to use mind-control to get women. Instead, I'd rather install good feelings into them, and let them work on it. However, not all women are going to be like this, thus we have a need for 101. 101, however, is only manipulation in so far as it is a contract of conduct between two people ? as I will be showing later on. In this sense, 101 isn't really bad manipulation at all, because people use contracts all the time to do business together. 101 is about gentle persuasion to get women to do
what they really want to do anyway ? in a safe environment.
USING 101 PRACTICALLY
I find that 101 can be used in many different ways during the course of seduction. Three common ones spring to mind (but there are many others)
1. As a general seduction plan (e.g. Takeaways)
2. As a way to set relationship expectations
3. As a way to give a woman controlled emotional swings (flirting, NEGs,
etc)
Depending on how you use a 101 routine, the parts of each component will be
different.
101 AS A CONTRACT
Now I'm going to explain the components (and their many vairations in usage) in detail so that you can use it to pick up women. I'm going to use the analogy of a contract in order to explain 101. 101 IS a sales contract (in an extreme seduction sense: think "marriage"), because it is a logical plan to make two people safe in being able to express their otherwise"illogical"
and uncontrollable feelings (note the contradiction). In each of the parts, you can use NLP or some other kind of languaging skill to speak to her emotionally. Also, I'm sure you will find many other pick-up techniques will fit in nicely into the framework.
Also, pay particular note to the presuppositions that 101 makes. There are very important, and will be explained first, followed by ways each part of 101 can be used
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