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Smoke from California coming out to my office next week. I had called her because I had not spoken in a month and I was in the wrong not following up. She told me that I was on her list that day to call and it was at the top of the list to call today. I said she let me off gracefully and she laughed. We are zooming tomorrow. She asked me the other day to find time to see her when she comes next week. Is it professional as a client prospect or is it more? She is married. Has cartilage piercing.
 

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Smoke from California coming out to my office next week. I had called her because I had not spoken in a month and I was in the wrong not following up. She told me that I was on her list that day to call and it was at the top of the list to call today. I said she let me off gracefully and she laughed. We are zooming tomorrow. She asked me the other day to find time to see her when she comes next week. Is it professional as a client prospect or is it more? She is married. Has cartilage piercing.
Married women don't care to cheat.

This is the 21st century.

Go for it, and you will find out in-person through her body-language and eye-contact.
 

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Smoke from California coming out to my office next week. I had called her because I had not spoken in a month and I was in the wrong not following up. She told me that I was on her list that day to call and it was at the top of the list to call today. I said she let me off gracefully and she laughed. We are zooming tomorrow. She asked me the other day to find time to see her when she comes next week. Is it professional as a client prospect or is it more? She is married. Has cartilage piercing.
There is no IOI as of yet. Better to gauge in the moment, than to predict.
 

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She asked me the other day to find time to see her when she comes next week. Is it professional as a client prospect or is it more?
What is she coming to your office for and how much time would that need?

If she wants you to take her out for dinner under the guise as a 'business meeting', she's probably up for grabs, but you'd have to see her in person to see if there are IOIs.
 

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Married women don't care to cheat.

This is the 21st century.

Go for it, and you will find out in-person through her body-language and eye-contact.
Honestly might make them more likely to cheat...she is in a place far away where her husband would never find out. Exciting, low risk, high reward play for her.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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So she just canceled the zoom that would have been including her husband due to scheduling and she and I are simply meeting in person next week. He will jump on a call when she is back in California with him. Her response when she confirmed my reading that back to her “yes please!” I’m puffing my feathers a little too much I think but you never know.
 

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Does she stand to gain anything business wise?

Maybe consider also that she’s running girl game on you…

Plenty of women in business would never admit to it, but use the subtle appearance of sexual access to clinch deals, just like handsome men. Women run game naturally they don’t even have to think about it, it’s in their nature.
 

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Does she stand to gain anything business wise?

Maybe consider also that she’s running girl game on you…

Plenty of women in business would never admit to it, but use the subtle appearance of sexual access to clinch deals, just like handsome men. Women run game naturally they don’t even have to think about it, it’s in their nature.
I’m the salesman.
 

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Smoke from California coming out to my office next week. I had called her because I had not spoken in a month and I was in the wrong not following up. She told me that I was on her list that day to call and it was at the top of the list to call today. I said she let me off gracefully and she laughed. We are zooming tomorrow. She asked me the other day to find time to see her when she comes next week. Is it professional as a client prospect or is it more? She is married. Has cartilage piercing.
"Has cartilage piercing"

Until she gets a cl--oris piercing, avoid getting too enthusiastic
 

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I’m the salesman.
This is it, she's inviting you to "make a pitch" outside of the biz parameters, maybe just for sh1ts and giggles since she's a Cali girl.

Lol for the call make a joke about the "hubby joining in" and see how she responds
 

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Smoke from California coming out to my office next week. I had called her because I had not spoken in a month and I was in the wrong not following up. She told me that I was on her list that day to call and it was at the top of the list to call today. I said she let me off gracefully and she laughed. We are zooming tomorrow. She asked me the other day to find time to see her when she comes next week. Is it professional as a client prospect or is it more? She is married. Has cartilage piercing.
Married women should be off limits IMHO.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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But fat 70 year olds are in limits? :lol:
Yeah, especially if she is fat with big ass titties.

No, if her chest is as flat as your sense of humor.

Now hehe-haha to that.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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