paradox of being mysterious vs. wanting to get to know you

[PlatoPacks23]

find a lot of my issues are comfort based, where girl just doesn't trust me enough

HOWEVER the idea of keeping cards close to chest/being mysterious seems like the antithesis of "wanting to get to know you" on dates where the more she gets to know you, the less surprise and mystery there is

how do you counter-act and balance the two?

 

[Bingo-Player]

By not giving straight answers and humouring her

Women actually want to be treated like children

 

[Mertz09]

A woman never wants full disclosure.

 

[Mertz09]

A woman never wants full disclosure.

Translation: Keep your mouth shut!

 

[Millard Fillmore]

It is a paradox. Look no further than James Bond, the world famous secret agent.