My thoughts on the contributing factors toward's the death of the men's dating scene

Isildur1

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https://mindful-masculinity.org/202...-self-development-scene-has-declined-so-much/

Wrote a blog post on my thoughts on the decline of men's dating/pua scene and t he contributing factors towards this

Mainly :

Death and Retirement of Key Coaches

The rise in online dating/ making people lazy and devaluing sex and relationships

the unfair pursuit of certain dating coaches by the media most notably Tom Torero

The risks attached to being a dating coach and the media crusade that can potentially ensue and ruin lives and careers like Tom Torero's

Dishonesty of PUA coaches/ an exaggeration not really being honest with the amount of work required.

Undercover dating documentaries putting off others from taking up coaching roles and making communities

the death of PUA forums
 

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The onward march of women's entitlement certainly has nothing to do with it.
 

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It's a cycle...it's "out" right now. It will be in again at some point in the future.
 

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It's a cycle...it's "out" right now. It will be in again at some point in the future.
Pua searches topped in 2016 , i started daygaming actively 2018 even at that point the forums were pretty empty in comparison to what they were before hand . I know people who did daygame between 2012-2016 they said it was a lot easier to find likeminded individuals than it is now
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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That's your blog? salute to you bro it was a dope read very well researched

I would also add that Covid19 basically killed nightlife and nightgame in a lot of small/mid size cities. Some larger ones too also add the fact that Gen-Z is scared and socially awkward and welcome to 2024. If your dating life sucks now or you think the state of dating is really bad in 2024, come back in 2034 and you will call this the golden era of dating, things are going to get far worse in the future.
There is a small group of men that dating has never been easier I've noticed in that group it's not that their the best looking (They are not) its guys who have their lives togther and have fun time and women pick up on that
 
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