RickTheToad
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Birthing kids with da Herp is not fun. The kid can, in theory, catch da Herp and then die since they have little to no immune system when first born. They now ask if the mother has da Herp so they can put her on Valtrex so the virus isn't transmitted to the newborn. It's a horrid little virus. You're lucky you escaped without da Herp. You should get your tested, both HSV-1 and HSV-2 just to be safe. I would consider HSV-1 or HSV-2 worse than HIV. At least one can prevent HIV from becoming AIDS and you can live a normalish life. With da Herp, little chance.I was seeing a girl in 2019 that told me she had herpes (HSV1 - basically mouth herpes on her genitals) after we had been barebacking from the first date, she'd just got the results (so must have suspected something before telling me) I was really sad, she was gorgeous, intelligent, funny, tall (5'10). Sadly I had to next her. It just wasn't worth the stress. I could see myself having kids with her. Since then no girl I've met has come close to captivating me the way she did.
Not a fun read, but here - https://forums.herpesopportunity.com/