when you're sad about a chick what do you do?

[PlatoPacks23]

I've kept myself busy going gym, socializing, focusing on work, my hobbies.... but every time I wake up or about to sleep I just start having all these regrets, and negativity and anger and low confidence about myself given a current situation I'm dealing with. Feels very traumatic. Especially because it feels and appears like a slow ghost.


Am I just supposed to drink every night and drug myself to numb how I'm feeling? My view on woman is getting reallllly sour after this current thing (when I haven't been that kind of guy before)

Just wanted peoples prior experiences on what worked for them

 

[BackInTheGame78]

"Everybody go: Hotel, motel, whatcha gonna do today (Say what?)
'Cause I'ma get a fly girl, gonna get some spank and drive off in a def OJ
Everybody go: Hotel, motel, Holiday Inn
You see, if your girl starts acting up, then you take her friend

I say skip, jive, what can I say?
I can't fit 'em all inside my OJ
So I just take half and bust them out..."

 

[PlatoPacks23]

"Everybody go: Hotel, motel, whatcha gonna do today (Say what?)
'Cause I'ma get a fly girl, gonna get some spank and drive off in a def OJ
Everybody go: Hotel, motel, Holiday Inn
You see, if your girl starts acting up, then you take her friend

I say skip, jive, what can I say?
I can't fit 'em all inside my OJ
So I just take half and bust them out..."

lol yeah im going to go out this weekend

 

[Dr.Suave]

When you're sad about a chick what do you do?

That´s easy, bro. You go out there and find a younger, hotter, better girl and take her to pound town. Its the best revenge imho.

 

[The Duke]

For me finding a solid friend you can talk to that is a good listener and understands has always been beneficial.

The other thing is time. Time heals all things. The scars might be there, but the wound heals.

Keep yourself busy, and don't let yourself fall into a hole.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

For me finding a solid friend you can talk to that is a good listener and understands has always been beneficial.

The other thing is time. Time heals all things. The scars might be there, but the wound heals.

Keep yourself busy, and don't let yourself fall into a hole.

yeah looking into therapy,

it just happened and super abruptly, and honestly not even sure if it's fully over or not or she just needs time too

but yeah trying my best

 

[PlatoPacks23]

When you're sad about a chick what do you do?

That´s easy, bro. You go out there and find a younger, hotter, better girl and take her to pound town. Its the best revenge imho.

lol yeah, yes will try this route thanks

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

yeah looking into therapy,

no friends to talk to?

 

[soulforge]

I believe gym is essential for getting over heartbreak.

Those endorphins/dopamine will balance things out in your brain.

The other thing that really works, is NEW PUZZY

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Tinder.

 

[Michael Chief]

Therapy is a good choice. Gym is a good choice. Meeting new women is a good choice. Letting time heal you is alright as long as you're not wasting it just being depressed for too long. Pretty much agreeing with all the answers in this thread so far. Meditation is good, too.

You will already know this if you go to therapy, but also make sure you allow yourself to feel what you feel without trying to bottle sh!t up inside. Emotional resistance makes that thing you're trying to resist stronger.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

no friends to talk to?

not close ones

 

[PlatoPacks23]

ne

Tinder.

never had any luck on tinder, only cold approach and mild social circle

 

[Mertz09]

My buds and I used to say "The cure for one woman is..... Another."
You said you are not sure if it's over? I would give her space and go No Contact.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

My buds and I used to say "The cure for one woman is..... Another."
You said you are not sure if it's over? I would give her space and go No Contact.

Yup I texted her after she asked me question and no response.. so going at least 2 weeks no texting

 

[PlatoPacks23]

An excellent thing to do is listen to music especially positive songs or ones that make you feel good. Music is excellent therapy. You will feel good. I promise you

Thanks, problem is all our love songs I like lol. Any specifics or genres you recommend?

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

I'm gona go darkside here.
Learn to find some ashes of happiness while you are alone. If a breakup or oneitis
is painful after weeks, it is a sign that you are too heavily invested in a b1tch. Your happiness should not be primarily derived from the existence of another person.

Get a hair cut, get some new clothes and a new cologne. Always look good in public. Cold approach if you feel confident enough. Practice some semen retention and eradicate any porn.

Your practical goal is get laid or workout while burying your hurt and anger. You're building armor.
Get to a place mentally where you see these chicks for who they truly are. Never again will you be fooled.

The fact that there's a bit of cruelty behind your motives will only make your game tighter and make you stand up straighter.

Embrace the darkness, the sadness, the pain, the tears and just don’t give a fvck.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

I'm gona go darkside here.
Learn to find some ashes of happiness while you are alone. If a breakup or oneitis
is painful after weeks, it is a sign that you are too heavily invested in a b1tch. Your happiness should not be primarily derived from the existence of another person.

Get a hair cut, get some new clothes and a new cologne. Always look good in public. Cold approach if you feel confident enough. Practice some semen retention and eradicate any porn.

Your practical goal is get laid or workout while burying your hurt and anger. You're building armor.
Get to a place mentally where you see these chicks for who they truly are. Never again will you be fooled.

The fact that there's a bit of cruelty behind your motives will only make your game tighter and make you stand up straighter.

Embrace the darkness, the sadness, the pain, the tears and just don’t give a fvck.

love it man

 

[Desdinova]

when you're sad about a chick what do you do?

I don't have to worry about that. I know that while I was with her, I gave her emotions a run through the hot and cold cycle in the washing machine. Then the spin dry made that fvcker shake half way across the room. She can't help but keep me on her mind. When I'm no longer in her vicinity, I'm still occupying space in her brain for a VERY long time afterwards, torturing her without even trying anymore. THAT is what brings me peace.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

I don't have to worry about that. I know that while I was with her, I gave her emotions a run through the hot and cold cycle in the washing machine. Then the spin dry made that fvcker shake half way across the room. She can't help but keep me on her mind. When I'm no longer in her vicinity, I'm still occupying space in her brain for a VERY long time afterwards, torturing her without even trying anymore. THAT is what brings me peace.

lol nice mindset! but I need to get better at sex lol