Hopeless Romanticism is the same for guys and girls

[CornbreadFed]

I have a female friend that "struggles" with finding a man and based off my perception, she is no different than your typical frustrated male.

1). They are both lazy AF and apply little effort to meeting a partner.

Just like the men that want to respond with bullshvt excuses when you tell them to improve their OLD profile, she does the same stuff. I told her that her profile is lazy and that she is only going to get matches with low quality men or guys just swiping right to fvck anything with a vagina. Outside the apps, she refuses to leave her comfort zone or suburban vicinity just like the guy that just wants to go to the bars or keyboard jockey on his free time.

2). They are both hopeless romantics trying to chase a dream.

Your typical frustrated male thinks he deserves this hot submissive female through real life or passport bro or he tries to play captain save-a-304 to make up the smv gap. This girl thinks she deserves a 10/10 super star anomaly male or tries to fix broken hot men into Golden Retriever boyfriends.... They both end up failing miserably BTW.

3). They are both obsessed with the gym and have a defeatist mindset. This girl goes to the gym religiously everyday just like your typical gymcel and has all sorts of toxic sources to give her cope.

4). They both can get sex, but it is from people they don't want.

Unless you are hideous and deformed, you can get sex easily. Would it be from a female that you are attracted to though? Absolutely not, but I am sick of this sex depraved frustrated male nonsense. Just like women, an average run to the mill man can get sex, but it might not just be with the person he wants. The only difference is that a femcel woman can get unwanted sex faster and more frequent than an incel guy.

 

[Mike32ct]

Looks stuff aside, hopeless romantics are very envious of other peoples’ relationships/connections/chemistry that seemingly just fell into their laps.

So they continue to wait around for their rightful “turn” which is never going to come. Life isn’t fair.

 

[SW15]

Interesting observation and I wouldn't not have thought it was the same for men and women.

@CornbreadFed -- is this woman a bougie White female (bachelor's or advanced degree & white collar job) or some non-White female.

I'm thinking it is a bougie White female based on her gym obsessed. That sounds more like a White woman to me.

4). They both can get sex, but it is from people they don't want.

Unless you are hideous and deformed, you can get sex easily. Would it be from a female that you are attracted to though? Absolutely not, but I am sick of this sex depraved frustrated male nonsense. Just like women, an average run to the mill man can get sex, but it might not just be with the person he wants. The only difference is that a femcel woman can get unwanted sex faster and more frequent than an incel guy.

You use the term 'femcel' and that's a term that I have never liked as it is inaccurate. Heartiste used to label those women as 'insols' (short for involuntary solitude). An insol female can usually get sex more easily but can't get the longer term commitment that she likely desires.

Men can't get sex as easily from women. It is even an effort for a man to get sex if he's willing to drop his standards far enough but he can get it. A man is who a normie to upper level normie would likely to be able to get sex with some effort from a below average looking woman.

 

[CornbreadFed]

@CornbreadFed -- is this woman a bougie White female (bachelor's or advanced degree & white collar job) or some non-White female.

I'm thinking it is a bougie White female based on her gym obsessed. That sounds more like a White woman to me.

She is an Asian American girl lol.

You use the term 'femcel' and that's a term that I have never liked as it is inaccurate. Heartiste used to label those women as 'insols' (short for involuntary solitude). An insol female can usually get sex more easily but can't get the longer term commitment that she likely desires.

Men can't get sex as easily from women. It is even an effort for a man to get sex if he's willing to drop his standards far enough but he can get it. A man is who a normie to upper level normie would likely to be able to get sex with some effort from a below average looking woman.

If we base sex as the end all be all then femcel is an inaccurate term. Yes, a femcel can get sex much easier than a guy and even a Chad too. However, this sex is with men that she gives zero shvts about. Us men might see these men as normal, but also remember that we do not date other men so what do we know lol? She probably thinks the same thing for the women that choose to reject and turn down.

 

[SW15]

She is an Asian American girl lol.

I did not expect this response as most Asian American women with East Asian heritage are not known for being fitness enthusiasts.

Most female fitness enthusiasts are White women. There are a few Hispanic women who are fit but Hispanic women are less known for their exercise routines than White women.

 

[Gamisch]

The major difference between male and female romanticism is that romance is a rather female trait.

That's why sex without romance is pointless to women. Yes,the feckboy is actually a romantic endeavor to her..and on the other hand: romance without sex is pointless to a man..while the latter it's far from a necessity to a man.

No man should be tingly and wait for love. Heck, we know female nature. We've seen countless clips of women actually spitting their delusions on tape. Weve learned the game through music and movies. We see the highest profilers struggle with their women. Yet we still use the demographic of a high end restaurant to determine that " there were nun but happy couples there"

Its like someone telling you that cocaine isn't " as dangerous " as people say it is. Very few people are able to get through it unscathed. Most end up in the gutter.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The major difference between male and female romanticism is that romance is a rather female trait.

This, far many more female hopeless romantics than male.