She wants me to date her sis

[jiggolo71]

Hey guys I‘ll keep it short maybe you can help me. Im working in a good position as a coach and there is one trainee working in the office. We had a couple of good talks and i catched her checking herself in the mirror many times after I talked with her. Also she said I look like the ex of her sis. Once she texted me smth like get my sister and I texted I prefer you, she just acted like it would suprise her. Today she showed me 100s of pics of her older sis and I just mhm everytime. I said show me your pics but she didnt want to. I always ask her to make me a tea or smth and she always does it and the other guys say she wouldnt even stand up for me.
I always see her one time a week.
So i dont really know. What would you guys advice me to do? I need to play with her somehow but idk how.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Low interest. Next her. Spin more plates.

 

[Michael Chief]

Don't sh!t where you eat

 

[Dr.Suave]

Its like a slap in the face when you show interest in a girl and she´s like "I only like you as a friend, but you should totally date my older, less attractive, single mom sister" or some variant of that, basically trying to set you up with someone who is lower SMV than you or her.

 

[jiggolo71]

Its like a slap in the face when you show interest in a girl and she´s like "I only like you as a friend, but you should totally date my older, less attractive, single mom sister" or some variant of that, basically trying to set you up with someone who is lower SMV than you or her.

so what should I do now? I hate my position

 

[BackInTheGame78]

so what should I do now? I hate my position

Get a new position then.

 

[Dr.Suave]

so what should I do now? I hate my position

Go no contact. Get over her. Keep improving yourself. Pull a younger, hotter, and better girl.

 

[The Duke]

The solution is almost always...FIND NEW GIRLS. If you had others you wouldn't be so worried about this deal.

Find girls with higher interest levels. They won't play games.

 

[self_is_an_illusion]

Hey guys I‘ll keep it short maybe you can help me. Im working in a good position as a coach and there is one trainee working in the office. We had a couple of good talks and i catched her checking herself in the mirror many times after I talked with her. Also she said I look like the ex of her sis. Once she texted me smth like get my sister and I texted I prefer you, she just acted like it would suprise her. Today she showed me 100s of pics of her older sis and I just mhm everytime. I said show me your pics but she didnt want to. I always ask her to make me a tea or smth and she always does it and the other guys say she wouldnt even stand up for me.
I always see her one time a week.
So i dont really know. What would you guys advice me to do? I need to play with her somehow but idk how.

Enforce some boundaries before you get into a scandal and ruin your reputation in the organization. Put you sexual energy into bars, clubs, tinder, etc

 

[MatureDJ]

Hey guys I‘ll keep it short maybe you can help me. Im working in a good position as a coach and there is one trainee working in the office. We had a couple of good talks and i catched her checking herself in the mirror many times after I talked with her. Also she said I look like the ex of her sis. Once she texted me smth like get my sister and I texted I prefer you ...

Had you actually asked for her digits to get together? It's pretty obvious that she doesn't care for you, so you made yourself be a weenie by saying that.

Is her sister fat? A harridan? A bagger? If she passes the "she looks like she might be decent" test, then tell her to pass on your phone number to her sis, and let her sis contact you.

 

[Masculinity]

Hey guys I‘ll keep it short maybe you can help me. Im working in a good position as a coach and there is one trainee working in the office...

This situation is a problem just waiting to happen. Abort the "mission!"

 

[self_is_an_illusion]

A report by the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) suggests that anywhere from 25% to 85% of women report having experienced sexual harassment in the workplace. The wide range is due to differences in how surveys ask about the issue and how respondents interpret the questions.

Select Task Force on the Study of Harassment in the Workplace

Select Task Force on the Study of Harassment in the Workplace: Report of Co-Chairs Chai R. Feldblum & Victoria A. Lipnic

www.eeoc.gov

 

[zekko]

The solution is almost always...FIND NEW GIRLS. If you had others you wouldn't be so worried about this deal.
Find girls with higher interest levels. They won't play games.

Agreed, but really, this girl isn't even playing games. She seems pretty upfront about not being interested in him, she just thinks maybe her sister might like him. If the OP doesn't find the sister appealing, I would just move on. I wouldn't necessarily go no contact, but I would turn the interactions way, way down.

 

[Tilex]

so what should I do now? I hate my position

Go out and meet women outside of your job or at least outside of your office.
Many women don't like the idea of getting intimate with their coworkers or coworkers they just met.

Your story also smells like Oneitis. You need to find different ways to meet women besides where you work.

 

[BeExcellent]

The solution is almost always...FIND NEW GIRLS. If you had others you wouldn't be so worried about this deal.

Find girls with higher interest levels. They won't play games.

See how all us old farts are on the same page here? The above advice is worth its weight in gold.