Has a man and woman ever 1st-dated where they bought thought the man was the prize?

NealIRC

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To clear/continue a topic from another thread.

But whether this means the woman will initiate contact after the 1st state? May not necessarily be the case.
 

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I've been in that situation a few times before. I usually had sex with them and never had a desire to see them again. Their looks werent good enough or something with their personality was a turn off. They were good enough for sex one time if it was convenient but that was it.
 

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Yes, I have been there.
I can think of three ex gf’s that chased and pursued me. They initiated conversation in person. They reached out texted/called to see me. They wanted to go out to some event with me. These women did absolutely everything and I’m no Chad.
 

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Yes, I have been there.
I can think of three ex gf’s that chased and pursued me. They initiated conversation in person. They reached out texted/called to see me. They wanted to go out to some event with me. These women did absolutely everything and I’m no Chad.
Let me guessed. You were introduced to them by their friends? They most likely did not see you just walking down the street?
 

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I've had this many times when I was younger. The girl would have crawled through a minefield to talk to me or hang out with me.

Girls do these things all of the time but only with men they really like. A woman's behavior tells you everything about how much she likes you.
 

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I rarely pursue, I leave that up to the kittens.
 

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I think I can say that for about all the "successful" relationships, there was strong interest shown by the chick - perhaps not the initial show-of-interest, but it was strong enough to not simply say, "eh", and move on to the next plate.
 
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