How does a mature man text a younger woman?

EyeBRollin

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if you find it hard to come up with words, use MEMES. you want to text enough to alleviate their anxieties.
Why would you do that? Anxiety = attraction. Her anxiety towards you is good.

Very bad advice, if you only text for logistics you're actually asking for a flake.
So what? If she flakes, she is not interested.
 

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Short and sweet, mostly logistical, keep it ****y funny, don’t text daily until you’re well established, remember you’re the old dude with the experience she will dig you for that, so take advantage of the preconceptions. Honestly the best text game is mode one. I am serious. She’s young you’re old, nobody is guessing what’s going on, everyone knows it’s one thing and one thing only, so just shoot straight. I’m 39, I had a 23 year old throw herself at me on Friday night, made sure I got her number, it’s not hard.
 

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Why would you do that? Anxiety = attraction. Her anxiety towards you is good.



So what? If she flakes, she is not interested.
while I agree, there's also anxiety that cause her to feel that she's not good enough for you aka low self-esteem/holds you in high regard or she wants to know it's more than a one night stand/hit it and quit it situation.

All depends on the OP's filter level or desire to connect. If you're just basing it on her doing most if not all the chasing yes, you can just arrange dates and hope she comes through.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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Most of the time I'm too busy to text (and I make it clear I dislike 'chatting'), but I always respond to 'good morning Sir/Kandur/my Lord & Master', because I know kittens appreciate these little social cues.
It doesn't count because here you responded to her initiated texts - not vice versa (and I was talking vice versa instances).
 

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It doesn't count because here you responded to her initiated texts - not vice versa (and I was talking vice versa instances).
Yes, exactly. If she needs a little attention in the morning, who am I to deny her that. But if she doesn't greet me, she doesn't hear anything from my side.
 

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Very bad advice. Especially with the young one 18-23
Totally agree younger women text a lot, I mean a whole lot especially if they are interested.
The key to texting younger women IMO is to text them interesting stuff, if the conversation comes dull or predictable they are more likely to flake

Younger women IMO are fun to text though, I got a 23 year old right now snapping me gym selfies, it's easy to get lost in the sauce though and be thirsty I find it best to end the convo's on a high note leave them wanting more
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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If you watch women texting they type super-fast. Their fingers are nibble on smartphone keyboards. They will text like 6 people in the same time I text 1.
 
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