You decried that a dude was hitting on a woman in the elevator only to be MOG'd by the dude outside who was "taller and better looking." My comment highlights your mostly negative tone, which pervades many of your posts.
Like I said, I'm an observer, probably the creepzone with her (ie
she's not getting free attention from me without putting something back in return), but my mind is on full blast to look at ALL social dynamics in the environment. I have so much knowledge that I can't help but being an oberver if not a participant. I don't know nothing about that guy. He could be gay for all I know and he might be her gay friend for all I know. He sounds a bit wierd in his tone of voice (ie you know how gay guys have this weird feminine pitch of voice). He may have been MOGed, may be in her friendzone (ie he's orbiting her but she's into the other guy), maybe he's gay. There is no way to know these things.
All I know is one thing, things like that make me not mind not having any interactions with her. You know what type of guy she is into. You don't waste your time thinking too much about it. All I know is it's not good advice to be in any lady's friendzone. That's the idea of this thread.
Talking is not a good idea if its a friendzone situation. This guy did allot of talk with her, while the curry-chad had to just wait for her to win her full and undivided enthusiastic attention. You can see which guy is a placeholder and which guy really means something to her.
It's better to mean nothing than be a placeholder so both me and chad are the winners!