1. You slay the women YOU want. Its oke to be you. End of thread
2. You don't slay(or not the women you want) . You must adopt a new identity and /or mindset.
The great thing is you don't have to reinvent the wheel. If you are ,lets say a white male, you can mimic Tyler from Fightclub, or that dude who died from the Fast furious movies. James bond, Thor ect. Black dude (little different)can mimic prime tyrese or another smooth r/b type singer.
There are actually entire studies online on how these men move ,talk walk look ect.
Regardless ,if you are NOt satisfied with the current situation, you better get some good money, health, crib/house environment and ofcourse...a GREAT body. These basic principles will INCREASE your chances.