Is daygame sort of pointless when you have nightgame available?

[oliver109]

I think daygame needs really good game and charisma, even the best coaches have to approach about 30 girls to get one date and those are people with a bit of swagger and good public speaking skills.

 

[Serenity]

If you hate doing it, yeah. If you enjoy doing it even if you go nowhere, no.

Same applies for all game. If you're not even enjoying it then it's very unlikely she will.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Daygame isn't 'nightgame during the day'.

 

[SW15]

I don't think daygame is pointless. That said, daygame is difficult. A lot of men who practice daygame often will practice nightgame as well because they aren't getting enough first dates from daygame.

 

[Tilex]

WHAT?!?

Daygame is never pointless, but it can be redundant if your city has a bustling nightlife scene.
You'll eventually see a pattern for nightgame or daygame the more often you go out.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Another thing is that night game is best if you're still under thirty, but once you're 30+, going to nightclubs gets kind of cringe.

 

[mikedee]

Nightgame is a waste of time and money. Daygame and cold approach is the way to go.

 

[SW15]

once you're 30+, going to nightclubs gets kind of cringe.

Nightclubs are one category of nightlife venue. There are standard bars too. The difference between a bar and a nightclub from my point of view is the presence of a dance floor and a DJ spinning.

I find all nightlife venues to be better suited for more extroverted people. It can be more difficult to do any form of nightlife game at 30+ with alcohol and late nights. Nightlife venues also require a higher energy vibe, which is not a strong point for more introverted people.

Non-bar approaching is a little bit more peaceful and tranquil. It's generally better suited for the introvert. The introvert must have enough people skills to start an interaction though.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I have conversations with women in the street, in bars, in shops, everywhere, but rarely to seduce them. I have enough kittens as it is.

I'm extravert, but I used to work in the night life and I have no interest in women who go to nightclubs. I prefer tango salons.

 

[NealIRC]

Think about it this way. If a woman saw a 10/10 guy in the day time, it's her loss if she won't approach him because it's not night time or not in a night club.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Another thing is that night game is best if you're still under thirty, but once you're 30+, going to nightclubs gets kind of cringe.

I beg to differ sir. College women with daddy issues love the mid to late 30’s set. At least that’s been my experience.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Nightclubs are one category of nightlife venue. There are standard bars too. The difference between a bar and a nightclub from my point of view is the presence of a dance floor and a DJ spinning.

I find all nightlife venues to be better suited for more extroverted people. It can be more difficult to do any form of nightlife game at 30+ with alcohol and late nights. Nightlife venues also require a higher energy vibe, which is not a strong point for more introverted people.

Non-bar approaching is a little bit more peaceful and tranquil. It's generally better suited for the introvert. The introvert must have enough people skills to start an interaction though.

In my experience, alcohol ruins my game. I am so unbelievably better when I am sober.

 

[SW15]

In my experience, alcohol ruins my game. I am so unbelievably better when I am sober.

Too much alcohol is not good for game. 1-2 drinks is often a good point for game.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I beg to differ sir. College women with daddy issues love the mid to late 30’s set. At least that’s been my experience.

Trust me, in my experience, I don't have to go into the nightlife to find attractive young women with daddy issues.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

In my experience, alcohol ruins my game. I am so unbelievably better when I am sober.

I agree, alcohol can make a fool braver than warranted. When you work in the nightlife, you observe the most idiocy from drunk people, and after that from coked-up roosters.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I agree, alcohol can make a fool braver than warranted. When you work in the nightlife, you observe the most idiocy from drunk people, and after that from coked-up roosters.

It makes me even dumber than I already am

 

[Divorced w 3]

I agree, alcohol can make a fool braver than warranted. When you work in the nightlife, you observe the most idiocy from drunk people, and after that from coked-up roosters.

I had a new 21 y/o college junior from the same school as the one I hooked up with last year come onto me literally a year from the last one. I was ok, but the game was not where it needed to be. Also I am in a relationship so not going to cheat - but if I was sober, that would have been a chip shot. Booze to me is counterproductive socially.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Different types of women and different types of outcomes usually.

Night game should be used for same night lays only and then continuing FWB/plates from there. Any numbers or interest shown in these situations usually evaporates if you don't close the deal that night.

Daygame has a much lower close rate but the interest a woman shows during these if she meets up is genuine most likely and these have a much higher chance to be quality women suited for a LTR than nightclub chicks who are FWBs/plates at best even if you do turn them into relationships past the first night.

 

[Smok1nAce]

Its all Game.

Just different venues and types. Meeting a girl on her lunch break during the day can and might be a different breed then the ones you would meet throwing back shots in the bar at 1am.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Having done thousands of both

Night approaches are high competition , expensive and very energy consuming

Also absolutely no guarantee the chick is gonna remember who you are the next day because a lot of guys are going to try their luck the chances of getting ghosted are high

Day approaches , whilst much much harder too instigate if you get it right they award more a much more focused and interesting interaction

If you can make her laugh or smile in that first phase It will help a lot