I never fully understood the advice occasionally given here of imagining your ex being pounded by other men in order to help you accept a breakup and move on, especially when describing in vivid language what kind of sex the ex may be having...
I can actually understand it, but I do not agree with it. The intention is to emphasize that she was always a slut or a bad woman, so there's no reason to want her back, it's a way to force psychological distance. What feels wrong about it to you and me is that it's tainted with bitterness and contempt towards women, stemming from a perceived feeling of injustice after negative personal experiences with women.
It's understandable to me, but it's not a productive or healthy way to handle it. It misplaces focus outside of oneself, it blinds a man from realizing his own flaws as he's blaming it on her flaws. Maybe she was flawed, maybe she wasn't, but it doesn't matter in terms of improving oneself in order to have the best chance of success in the future.
It's a victim mentality. There's nothing more than a very thin veneer of personal responsibility "move the fvck on", no further understanding of what actually drives a man to commit these mistakes, possibly over and over. There's no depth, no understanding of what to actually do differently, how to do it or why.
To revive a word I haven't seen used on this forum for a while now, to imagine your ex getting her organs rearranged by Tyrone or Chad is just a
crutch. It's a weak attempt at solving a symptom rather than addressing and fixing the cause of the problem. It's a diversion from where the real problem lies,
oneself!