escorts vs civvies

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The real question, is how do we differentiate between subscribing to a "civvie"'s OnlyFans page verses an escort's "OnlyFans" page?

However, it seems rather horish still that a civvie is still selling her pictures online for money. How does a civvie then differ from an escort with respect to OnlyFans presentation?

The real question for whom? Subscribers to OF? I can assure you that most normal men do not give a sh!t about these OF girls. To most regular folks, any woman showing off her naked body against payment is a sex worker, whether she fvcks for money also is irrelevant.

I have basically saved like 15 to 20 escorts who have OnlyFans pages.

You shouldn't be frequenting those prostitution porn sites. Try and find an actual normal woman for a change.

 

[corrector]

The real question for whom?

It's relevant for the discussion of the thread because I don't subscribe to "civvies" OF pages but seem to be only looking at escort OF pages, if I go there. A "civvies" OF presumes she does not have sex with guys for money, or may not have sex at all with anyone for that matter and may just be an exhibitionist of sorts. But, yes, it is curious, OF could blur the line between civvies and escorts if both are using them for the same purpose. (ie if you get a d-rating from a "civvie" vs a d-rating from an escort)

I can assure you that most normal men do not give a sh!t about these OF girls. To most regular folks, any woman showing off her naked body against payment is a sex worker, whether she fvcks for money also is irrelevant.

It sounds then like "civvies" who have OF pages are not respected. However, the big difference is there is no guarantee you can meet up with a "civvie" who is doing an OF page. She may be voyeristic about her own life with her own people. I think some of these "civvie' women hook-up with chads they might connect with on OF, just like any online venue. However, with escort pages, you know she's sexing for money so it she may seem more accessible. After all, all you have to do is contact her directly through her ad.

You shouldn't be frequenting those prostitution porn sites.

Of course, agreed on religious grounds. Faith can be weak sometimes. For example, if you are having a bad day at work and nothing is going right and you are working from home, then it can be tempting to go on those sites with the tablet to look at something nice for escape.

However, in terms of matter of taste of porn, I've always gravitated to that type of porn. Sometimes I think this has allot of negative hype that is fueled by religious aspects which I think creates a taboo lust towards this type of thing.

Try and find an actual normal woman for a change.

Of course I've always tried to find an actual normal woman. That has recently and chronicaly failed which is why we are having this discussion in the first place. If actual normal woman liked me then all of this would cease to exist. But this is not the case.

Remember, I visited the first escort in my life after my ex-wife rejected me and divorce papers were mailed out. It has always been the ultimate symbol of rejection from "normal women". Maybe that's how I vent back at God for having such a terrible life in that department.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Remember, I visited the first escort in my life after my ex-wife rejected me and divorce papers were mailed out. It has always been the ultimate symbol of rejection from "normal women".

I remember that, yes.
And I think it's the wrong thing to do. Once you start using sex workers for gratification you are programming yourself that prostitution is an alternative for having relationships.

Maybe that's how I vent back at God for having such a terrible life in that department.

If your faith would be strong enough, you would accept your lot in life. Just like Job.

 

[corrector]

I remember that, yes.
And I think it's the wrong thing to do. Once you start using sex workers for gratification you are programming yourself that prostitution is an alternative for having relationships.

I don't think something I did 9 years ago has any bearing at anything at all in my life right now. Any "programming' that did happen seems to be to create PTSD against using sex workers.

I did open your post despite you are in ignore, however, if you insinuate or suggest that I visited any other escort after Dec 5, 2014 then I'm going to have to ignore your posts again. I can blow up something I did 9 years ago and you can talk about bring the past to life, but that
would be another issue.

Right now we are talking about OnlyFans subscriptions which is a vastly different issue entirely.

If your faith would be strong enough, you would accept your lot in life. Just like Job.

That makes it all the more disingenious to suggest that I look for "normal women" though.

By the way, Job did get a second wife and was never a lifelong incel. He did have a wife and children before his test and therefore he had sex. He also had a second wife again after the test. So, his lot in life was never perfectly without a woman.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

By the way, Job did get a second wife and was never a lifelong incel. He did have a wife and children before his test and therefore he had sex. He also had a second wife again after the test. So, his lot in life was never perfectly without a woman.

Re-read how magnanimous God was towards Job.
God destroyed EVERYTHING Job had, his wife and children as well.
That God gave him another wife as a consolation price is not really comforting.

I did open your post despite you are in ignore,

I don't put anyone on ignore, but if you want to ignore my posts, go ahead. I really don't write here for you.

Right now we are talking about OnlyFans subscriptions which is a vastly different issue entirely.

No, you're still seeking out sex workers and relishing the idea that a meeting might not be impossible. If prostitutes give you PTSD as you claim, you should avoid sex workers in all shapes and sizes and not try to justify viewing OF prostitutes like it's 'something different'.

You're acting like an alcoholic on the wagon loitering before a liquor store window.

 

[corrector]

Re-read how magnanimous God was towards Job.
God destroyed EVERYTHING Job had, his wife and children as well.
That God gave him another wife as a consolation price is not really comforting.

Again, we are just looking at a single issue. However, bringing up Job is inappropriate since celibacy is not necessarily a bad thing in the Bible to equate it as a test. It is even celebrated in some circles. However, I just meant to point out that it's a bit rude, in these types of threads to say "look for a normal woman". While I may have been a bit colourful, I think that is what I was driving at, whether you can get that or not.

I don't put anyone on ignore, but if you want to ignore my posts, go ahead. I really don't write here for you.

The mods told us to do that. You don't listen to the mods? If I know I'm going to get triggered and start posting crazy then I don't want to see threads locked or posters banned on nonsense.

No, you're still seeking out sex workers and relishing the idea that a meeting might not be impossible. If prostitutes give you PTSD as you claim, you should avoid sex workers in all shapes and sizes and not try to justify viewing OF prostitutes like it's 'something different'.

You're acting like an alcoholic on the wagon loitering before a liquor store window.

When I visit an escort in person, actually visit one and pay her money, etc... then I'll believe you. It's fair to assume there are some fixed boundaries, sort of like an invisible wall. 9 years is a long time and it is not normal to NOT visit an escort if there is that much mental activity going on in the background to want to visit one unless there is a mental block towards seeing one. Why would there be a mental block? That sounds like PTSD to me. I may just be doing things I was comfortable with BEFORE I saw the Dec 5, 2014 escort, and those habits were long time there since 1997 (ie looking at escort ads).

The mental block has to be lifted and I would have to visit an escort to believe this. I should visit an escort and kiss ask her to sit on my lap and have a soft-core session (ie okay, no sex, just cuddle up with her) if there is no mental block. I'm touched deprived and should connect with any woman like that. But yet, I'm not doing that. Why am I not doing that? That would have been done yesterday if that was the case.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The mods told us to do that. You don't listen to the mods? If I know I'm going to get triggered and start posting crazy then I don't want to see threads locked or posters banned on nonsense.

I ignore you often, but I don't 'put you on ignore'. I'm not worried about 'getting triggered'.

 

[corrector]

I ignore you often, but I don't 'put you on ignore'. I'm not worried about 'getting triggered'.

Right, okay, well, you didn't make fun of me on this post and you sounded sincere so I think I'll unignore you.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Looks like we have a couple of though guys over here. But at least you have been relatively civil towards each other.

I think at this point we can just lock that thread. It's 19 pages, I think everything there is to say about the topic has been said and these two have gone into a religious discussion as well, which is against forum rules.