SW15
Master Don Juan
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My first date flake rate has been high over time.I rarely get flaked on. Maybe once every 20 first dates.
When I consider my first date flake rate, I consider flakes to be....
1. Women I collect phone numbers from in-person approaching without specifying a date time/place during the in-person approach and the first date doesn't happen.
2. Women I arrange a first date with in-person and then collect her number and the first date doesn't happen.
3. Women from tech-based methods (swipe apps and DMs) who agree to a first date and first date doesn't happen. Since I stopped using these tech-based methods years ago, these aren't relevant today. When I was using tech-based methods, this was happening. I do not consider women who disappeared from the middle of in-app convos and texting to be a part of flaking, though that did happen many times.
Items 1 and 2 still happen to me.