What Are The Green Flags You Look For In A Keeper?

[soulforge]

So moving forward, what qualifications should a guy look out for, in order to elevate her from sex only, to LTR Material.

What top six qualities would you look for in order to take her seriously for LTR.

 

[soulforge]

fapping ofcourse. You catch her fapping ahe is a keeper!!

Too much fapping has damaged your brain dude.

Imagine the man you have become, that you cannot survive/go without playing with your winee for more than one day.

Do you have the strength/conviction to go without pulling your peniz for 6 weeks?

Do you think the great warriors of history, where sat around eating crap and jerking off to cave paintings of boobs? Haha

 

[CornbreadFed]

Review your post history and AVOID any women that can relate to any of them within a syllable for starts lol.

And also be her FIRST option, not second, not third!!

 

[alvinkels]

My LTR and I have been together for almost 7 years she has been loyal all these years but I can't say about me.. lol

The only green flag you should look for unwavering loyalty. If a woman has that for you everything else will follow suite. Because she will do anything to keep you and make you happy even if she has to change certain about herself like religion, get into shape, eat healthy... because you are the leader and she dedicating her life to you.

If you haven't this form respect and love from a woman you will always be asking these questions and be wondering WTH is wrong with women. The truth is: nothing is wrong with women! You are just dealing with someone who is not serious with you. I don't who said this probably Rollo or Cooper "if a woman likes she will make it easier for you" ... keep that in mind and don't waste your time and energy. I have said no girls and they made counter offer for FWB no strings attached just s3x but I still said NO. If you are not dealing with girls that have high interest in you, you will always be dealing with dramas.

 

[Baibars]

My LTR and I have been together for almost 7 years she has been loyal all these but I can't say about me.. lol

The only green flag you should look for unwavering loyalty. If a woman has that for you everything else will follow suite. Because she will do anything to keep you and make you happy even if she has to change certain about herself like religion, get into shape, eat healthy... because you are the leader and she dedicating her life to you.

If you haven't this form respect and love from a woman you will always be asking these questions and be wondering WTH is wrong with women. The truth is: nothing is wrong with women! You are just dealing with someone who is not serious with you. I don't who said this probably Rollo or Cooper "if a woman likes she will make it easier for you" ... keep that in mind and don't waste your time and energy. I have said no girls and they made counter offer for FWB no strings attached just s3x but I still said NO. If you are not dealing with girls that have high interest in you, you will always be dealing with dramas.

I experienced that with women but I don’t think that only is the biggest green flag.
yes, if she wants you she’ll adapt but it doesn’t mean I should wife any girl that adapts in order to keep me.

 

[alvinkels]

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I experienced that with women but I don’t think that only is the biggest green flag.
yes, if she wants you she’ll adapt but it doesn’t mean I should wife any girl that adapts in order to keep me.

My LTR was when we met and she holds up family very dearly. She is very generous.

My point on a woman willingly doing anything to keep you is that she has recognized a value in you that she doesn't want to loose so if you tell this is how you want to raise your kids she will comply because that's what her a man wants. The question here is does she sees you as "her man" if not nothing will cut it.

I have had girls change their standards and lifestyle by just being around for less than a week even though I didn't take them seriously it has been years they are still following my teachings some have given birth and following the way I want to raise my kids.

If a woman is really into she will do anything and above different men bring out different sides of a woman so if you are experiencing certain side of her apart from psycho or sociopath, even with them, you are the one brought out the b*tchy side. Because some women around are submissive and humble with me but b*tchy with other men. If a woman decides to be b*tchy with me I just walk away without looking back because I know I some how failed at getting her submissive side they is no point in crying over spilt milk. Just respect yourself and walk away and they will notice it. Women always have these senses.

So again unwavering loyalty is key.

 

[soulforge]

Dude. Listen. Why would you ask me advice on relationships if in your words I am an idiot.
Your a hero in your own mind. Good for you if it was a problem.
The issue here is addiction. Any addiction can kill s man. Most humans have porn in their head. They don't even need the screen.
I used to think like this until some personal revelations happened in my world.
You do realize that millions of couples watch porn in their relationships without any issues.
A coworker of mine here has a wife that initiates porn watching.
Several other men wish the same.

So whats the point? If 1 guys dumbass cant stop hours of beating it and another it adds to his love life. Whats the problem?
Why the heck are you so triggered over this?
I just disagree with you. I lived long enough to know what is garbage to 1 man is another mans treasure. Applies to multitude of things.

Maybe at 90 days of no nutting you can tractor beam the ladies to your bed. Lmao

What does P0rn in your head have to do with anything? Haha This is just mental Gymnastics right now on your part.

Let's step of away from the child like thinking here and talk about actual facts.

Is porn a problem/addiction for most men?

Hell yes it is. Would most men benefit from quitting P0rn and going out to meet actual girl's instead. Yes they would

Do men feel good about themselves, after they jacked of to some porn, then go back to playing videos games? I'm fvking certain they do not.

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY THIS..

Who the hell suggested you ALL should try out what I am doing right now?

I simply stated the benefits NO FAP that I am experiencing right now & then you came back with some shyte about

"oh yeh I Fap off on her face" like a 12 year old child response.

I am simply stating my experience and some of the benefits I have experienced

Where as your getting triggered between, jacking off sessions & coming back to argue with me for no reason lol.. Clown world..

 

[soulforge]

My LTR and I have been together for almost 7 years she has been loyal all these years but I can't say about me.. lol

The only green flag you should look for unwavering loyalty. If a woman has that for you everything else will follow suite. Because she will do anything to keep you and make you happy even if she has to change certain about herself like religion, get into shape, eat healthy... because you are the leader and she dedicating her life to you.

If you haven't this form respect and love from a woman you will always be asking these questions and be wondering WTH is wrong with women. The truth is: nothing is wrong with women! You are just dealing with someone who is not serious with you. I don't who said this probably Rollo or Cooper "if a woman likes she will make it easier for you" ... keep that in mind and don't waste your time and energy. I have said no girls and they made counter offer for FWB no strings attached just s3x but I still said NO. If you are not dealing with girls that have high interest in you, you will always be dealing with dramas.

Yeh this is sound advice, I think her interest level needs to be really high in you, in order for the relationship to do well and thrive.

That being said, it's about us guys also picking a healthy woman from the offset to enter into relationships with.

If we select low hanging fruit or girls with really bad habits, then the foundation of the relationship is rotten from the offset.

 

[soulforge]

My LTR and I have been together for almost 7 years she has been loyal all these years but I can't say about me.. lol

The only green flag you should look for unwavering loyalty. If a woman has that for you everything else will follow suite. Because she will do anything to keep you and make you happy even if she has to change certain about herself like religion, get into shape, eat healthy... because you are the leader and she dedicating her life to you.

If you haven't this form respect and love from a woman you will always be asking these questions and be wondering WTH is wrong with women. The truth is: nothing is wrong with women! You are just dealing with someone who is not serious with you. I don't who said this probably Rollo or Cooper "if a woman likes she will make it easier for you" ... keep that in mind and don't waste your time and energy. I have said no girls and they made counter offer for FWB no strings attached just s3x but I still said NO. If you are not dealing with girls that have high interest in you, you will always be dealing with dramas.

I think most men, and I am guilty of this too, would choose really hot chick with medium interest, over an average girl who has very high interest in you.

We make the mistake of making a women's beauty a priority over that girls character.

 

[Baibars]

Yeh this is sound advice, I think her interest level needs to be really high in you, in order for the relationship to do well and thrive.

That being said, it's about us guys also picking a healthy woman from the offset to enter into relationships with.

If we select low hanging fruit or girls with really bad habits, then the foundation of the relationship is rotten from the offset.

yeah but the thing is low hanging fruit is way more likely to have high interest or not?

that’s why I was saying that high interest shouldn’t be the only thing we should look for.

 

[alvinkels]

Yeh this is sound advice, I think her interest level needs to be really high in you, in order for the relationship to do well and thrive.

That being said, it's about us guys also picking a healthy woman from the offset to enter into relationships with.

If we select low hanging fruit or girls with really bad habits, then the foundation of the relationship is rotten from the offset.

That's it once you set standards for yourself and the type of woman you want you won't waste your time. My LTR is a way for awhile some girls have come but I didn't eat not because I wasn't hungry but because they are troubles and they are just not worth it. Not everything in skirt needs your D! In experience women I have said no to and not taken them serious respected me the more and are always ready when I call.

Respect yourself men please I beg you respect yourself as a man you are the the Price!

 

[soulforge]

Review your post history and AVOID any women that can relate to any of them within a syllable for starts lol.

And also be her FIRST option, not second, not third!!

Haha you speak facts man.

 

[Plinco]

So moving forward, what qualifications should a guy look out for, in order to elevate her from sex only, to LTR Material.

What top six qualities would you look for in order to take her seriously for LTR.

That depends on who you are. Everyone has a different set of values, because we are all a little bit different.

For me:

1. Honest and willing to improve herself
2. Ease of communication
3. Appreciates my ambitions and what I have to offer
4. Is fun and supportive
5. Cool and laid back. Non combative.
6. Artisitic

 

[soulforge]

yeah but the thing is low hanging fruit is way more likely to have high interest or not?

that’s why I was saying that high interest shouldn’t be the only thing we should look for.

The low hanging fruit, or the damaged girls will actually show SUPER interest level in you.. I mean they will make you feel like a king initially, but later screw you right over lol.

I think it's about excepting high interest, from a girl who also has healthy characteristics & a good background and upbringing.

Even a broken girl can be super high interested in you, and will try Change for you, but it's likely to go wrong or toxic if her character isn't right.

 

[soulforge]

Your beating a dead horse bro. Not nutting is not going to make you superman.
You will figure it out eventually. What will really help you and this addiction you have is doing something. Do something with your life and will.
Be busy. Go outside. Accomplish goals and do some work and you will find you won't have time to play with your weewee as much.

As you stated with your chest puffing. Historical great men where too busy building shyt to get caught up in these dumb mental masterbating excercises yall love so much.

Dude why the F are you going on about Jerking off in this thread.. This thread is about green flags.

Take your fapping related conversation to the damn appropriate thread. Clown World

 

[soulforge]

That depends on who you are. Everyone has a different set of values, because we are all a little bit different.

For me:

1. Honest and willing to improve herself
2. Ease of communication
3. Appreciates my ambitions and what I have to offer
4. Is fun and supportive
5. Cool and laid back. Non combative.
6. Artisitic

This is a good list man.

2. Ease of communication is a BIG one, honestly without this, the relationship is doomed.

 

[SW15]

Not nutting is not going to make you superman.

This is true. No porn and no masturbation is a good life practice and I recommend it. It will have some positive effects but it doesn't make a man extremely irresistible to women and a master seducer.

 

[alvinkels]

I think most men, and I am guilty of this too, would choose really hot chick with medium interest, over an average girl who has very high interest in you.

We make the mistake of making a women's beauty a priority over that girls character.

I always ask my females friends if they have met my class mates who are girls or my other female friends or my sisters and cousins? Why? you may ask. Because they are f**king gorgeous and I am not exaggerating. I have been around beautiful women for too long that a women's beauty has no effect on me unless I decide to fantasize about her. These women are not b*tchy to me though so when a girl thinks she is pretty so she can act how she likes... I am like get TF outta here! I was your typical nice calm kid when I was a teen and early 20s, I started learning game about 4 years ago otherwise my body count would have been 50+. All these while I was the guy who always wanted to work on things and make things work and it never worked out but after listening to Rollo and Cooper, reading their books and putting myself first I realized it is our own imagination that makes women special and without it they are **nothing**

 

[Glassguy]

It's all about character. They either have string character or they dont.
1. Loyalty
2. Appreciativeness
3. Supportive
4. Feminine
5. Trusting/Trustworthy
6. Empathetic
7. Fun outgoing personality
8. Able to communicate in a healthy way

I think if a woman can check these boxes, and continue to do it over time, she's definitely worthy of a chance of LTR.

 

[soulforge]

It's all about character. They either have string character or they dont.
1. Loyalty
2. Appreciativeness
3. Supportive
4. Feminine
5. Trusting/Trustworthy
6. Empathetic
7. Fun outgoing personality
8. Able to communicate in a healthy way

I think if a woman can check these boxes, and continue to do it over time, she's definitely worthy of a chance of LTR.

This is a good list man.. We should hold these chicks to a high standard..

The novelty of beauty wears off quickly. I have had some chicks who had beautiful bodies, solid 8-9 bodies, however after some months, even those girls I got sexualy bored with.

I would struggle to *** on some occasions, because if she is all beauty & no other great qualities of her character, then it gets boring real quick and literally you don't have a long term Healthy future, where you can build a solid relationship.