If you dont want to spend money and dont want sex

[_sideways_]

General question....if someone doesnt want to go out to spend money and doesnt want sex from the other person, whats the reason for letting the person come to your place?

 

[Divorced w 3]

I’m assuming the person in this situation is you, and that a woman is summoning you, and if that’s the situation she wants emotional support. Can you elaborate?

 

[_sideways_]

Its my little brother.
Hes in a situation...i sort of just outlined the situation.
Didnt know how to answer.
Last weekend his girl went to his place.
Hes not a horn dog so sex is like whatevs for him.
I dont know...
I dont want to say...just fvck her until she leaves.

 

[Mike32ct]

Just to have some company. Watch some TV; eat some food; and talk.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Its my little brother.
Hes in a situation...i sort of just outlined the situation.
Didnt know how to answer.
Last weekend his girl went to his place.
Hes not a horn dog so sex is like whatevs for him.
I dont know...
I dont want to say...just fvck her until she leaves.

So basically you are saying he likely has low T like many young people these days.

 

[The Duke]

More comfortable feel. More relaxing. Less noise.

Some venues can be over stimulating for some.

 

[NealIRC]

My kittens prefer coming to my house. We talk and have fun while getting groceries and making dinner; we shower together, massage each other, have sex, cuddle, do shibari or other kink. For entertainment we play board games, listen to music, have interesting discussions on a wide variety of topics, read to each other, play with animals.

During the day, when the weather is nice, we go for a walk around the city center, window-shopping and watching the crowds while having coffee at a cafe.
And once in a blue moon we go out for dinner or drinks when we're too lazy to make dinner.

Imo a lot of guys do this with their female cousins lol.

 

[_sideways_]

So basically you are saying he likely has low T like many young people these days.

I wouldnt know without a blood test.
Its not a comment on society.
Hes just not as horny as i am is what i meant.

 

[_sideways_]

My kittens prefer coming to my house. We talk and have fun while getting groceries and making dinner; we shower together, massage each other, have sex, cuddle, do shibari or other kink. For entertainment we play board games, listen to music, have interesting discussions on a wide variety of topics, read to each other, play with animals.

During the day, when the weather is nice, we go for a walk around the city center, window-shopping and watching the crowds while having coffee at a cafe.
And once in a blue moon we go out for dinner or drinks when we're too lazy to make dinner.

No offense but that sounds something akin to hanging out with my grandma.
Except the showering together.

 

[SargeMaximus]

My kittens prefer coming to my house. We talk and have fun while getting groceries and making dinner; we shower together, massage each other, have sex, cuddle, do shibari or other kink. For entertainment we play board games, listen to music, have interesting discussions on a wide variety of topics, read to each other, play with animals.

During the day, when the weather is nice, we go for a walk around the city center, window-shopping and watching the crowds while having coffee at a cafe.
And once in a blue moon we go out for dinner or drinks when we're too lazy to make dinner.

Simple to my vibe as well. Friends with benefits. Benefits first but maintaining the friend vibe. Literally had one of my girls tell me I’m such a good friend in text and still fvcking her. Is that a friend zone? Lol

 

[Divorced w 3]

So basically you are saying he likely has low T like many young people these days.

I was going to say this, or its between his ears. The adage that if you need a friend get a dog applies here. I understand too well the between the ears, when I separated from my ex my libido went into the toilet. I had a woman from tinder in 10 days but out of the 9x we hooked up over 3 days it was a massive struggle. That’s out of character for me, even in the last couple days of my marriage I boned my wife without a problem 48 hours before leaving (ha). OP’s brother should get his numbers checked but he should also look at whether he has any issues with his emotional position. The stress I had in my life at that time was insane, I didn’t even realize it, and it took like 9 months to figure it out. Nonetheless it does feel good to have that behind me.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That sounds like the FWB zone. And unless you want her exclusive devotion, FWB is excellent.

Totally agree with you. Fwb is the best

 

[BackInTheGame78]

That sounds like the FWB zone. And unless you want her exclusive devotion, FWB is excellent.

Up to a point. Likely when you are 70 and in failing health you might wish you made another decision.

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

Play Nintendo and watch TV? Board Games, collect cards, comic books, sports, martial arts, work on a car, go dancing, workout, shoot guns, scuba diving. Y'all are boring asf seriously.

go discover the secret to Atlantis?

I honestly wonder whether guys are as boring up there as they are down here.

 

[NealIRC]

Is there a lot of inbreeding where you live?

No, but this stuff (marrying 1st cousin) is common in France, and prolly a few other places.

 

[The Duke]

My kittens prefer coming to my house. We talk and have fun while getting groceries and making dinner; we shower together, massage each other, have sex, cuddle, do shibari or other kink. For entertainment we play board games, listen to music, have interesting discussions on a wide variety of topics, read to each other, play with animals.

During the day, when the weather is nice, we go for a walk around the city center, window-shopping and watching the crowds while having coffee at a cafe.
And once in a blue moon we go out for dinner or drinks when we're too lazy to make dinner.

How often do you empty their litter box? Maybe I need to get me a kitten or two. :

 

[_sideways_]

What's wrong with you? You massage your grandma? You have sex with grandma? Do shibari with grandma?
Or is your reading comprehension defective and do you just skip words?

Except for all the sexual stuff is what i implied.
Should have just said its boring.
My bad

 

[Divorced w 3]

Amsterdam is low key turning into one of my favorite posters here

 

[_sideways_]

Sometimes you shouldn't 'imply', but state outright that 'without the sex, massages, shibari/kink, cuddling' my list of things why you might have a woman over to the house sounds rather boring to you. That way, people don't think you have sex with blood relatives.

But even that would still be an ignorant remark, because there's a reason I included 'sex, massages, shibari/kink, cuddling' in the list. Without the sex, massages, shibari/kink, and cuddling the rest of the activities could be boring, but that depends on the company. I tend to date intelligent and creative women, so we rarely run out of things to do or converse about. If you're with the right people, you could be locked up in a dungeon and still have a great time.

No doubt spending a day with you, @_sideways_ , would be one of the longest and dreariest days of my life. Even if I got to do shibari on you.

You dont have to defend your stance to me.
My bad.

 

[_sideways_]

I didnt know somebody else thought it was boring also.
What a coincidence.
I apologize for my fellow mental toddler.
Your good.
Oops...you're