Opinions on hitting on girls who are in LTR

[holidayad_]

I recently moved to Europe to complete my master's degree. I'm having to start my game from scratch now. No plates to spin.

However, I've noticed that a lot of the approachable girls are in long-term relationships. And since options are scarce, I'm considering being the "devil" and risking something to take the edge off my long dry spell.

What's your opinion on hitting on girls who are in LTR?

 

[mikedee]

I do it all the time. But I don't expect anything, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't.

 

[Supreme Solar Wolf]

Do it. They r all just looking for the best option. U might as well strike while the iron's hot

 

[saige]

If they respond positively they’re not loyal… that’s not a good character trait, unless you just want something casual with them.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Unless, you have status or comfort attraction(you work with her, ex boyfriend), it is pointless.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I'm a backdoor man and I really don't care about their husbands/boyfriends. I don't take anything that isn't given freely, and I don't steal women away from their 'significant others'. I'm not relationship material and they know that.
No harm, no foul.

 

[holidayad_]

I don't take anything that isn't given freely, and I don't steal women away from their 'significant others'.

That's a good way to think about it. If I do not smash, someone else will.

unless you just want something casual with them.

That's my goal. I don't give an F to get in a relationship right now, so yeah, she will have to fix it with herself.