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Master Don Juan
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So....she works at a salon....money isnt stable like a 9-5.
But im basically living off my investments so im fine.
She is 8 out of 10 in my book...is what im attracted to. Little belly chub..little...
And we have known each other 2 years off and on...i traveled...came back.
She wants traditional roles. I provide and she takes care of home and kids
Have discussed kids cuz i want one. She jokes that its 9 months of her body going through a lot...but im firm if no kid then...just have the door open for both of us...
She doesnt ask for jewelry or fancy dates...just like a little help with groceries when her work is slow.
( which i cant be sure...but if im not paying for dinners at all and she would rather spend on important things i think thats a plus).
She takes a bus to come see me...always looks like a cookie...not too showy...and i voiced my opinion on toning down the sexy...so she did...still looks attractive.
Doesnt nag...but states her needs...
I dont have a 9 -5 and all the time in the world and doesnt pressure me...
Once i told her i couldnt give her $20 and she said no worries ill figure it out...
Shes latina.
I have known her before when she had a very demanding job and it wasnt worth it...amazon....
She tried waitressing...thats how she got her little belly by eating there...but she likes to do salon stuff.
In the streets shes demure and not overly showing affection...indoors we have fun...
Im a pretty decent dude not to brag...good genetics...and discipline in my upkeep...with gods help im living on easy street but not lavish...
I get attention from girls when im out with her which is not that big of a deal for me...but im sure she notices and when im dumb and joke about it...she doesnt make an issue out of it.
She gets attention to but she just grabs my arm or shows that shes with me...(because i let her be...i let her walk away a little bit and she pulls me in)
Shes been very patient with me...i stumbled on some things that are important to her.
But lately...i dont want to approach other girls and want to get back to her.
I dont go out with my phone.
I called her and said...my bad i havent treated you that well...and she said im sorry too i havent been that nice to you either.
Little ticks that we both have and dont like about each other were discussed and rectified. No yelling or arguing. Just stopped.
Im 40 shes 26...but we both look young so i like that.
I have been pressing on the breaks cuz im not sure if its just the money...but i mean...im obviously good looking to her...im nice to her...
We laugh and poke fun...
She seems to be bending over backwards in some ways...or like submissive we call it here.
And i do try to learn her some things.
Like nutrional stuff and fitness ...shes sweet about it.
She listens...knows when i need a little more love and she makes room....which is all i want really is to see theres effort.
She lives a little far away and her place is not as nice as mine...lets be real i have more room. And i think im ready to committ...the tides might switch but if shes down to have my kid then its want i would want is to live together.
The other way my life can go is...cut it off and be single like i have been.
It may look like im being wishy washy too because im obviously smitten kitten and pull away when i dont feel good...doesnt phase her...i come back to her and its all love.
I mean...i think having my life in order...thank god...is a real plus for her....for anyone...the economy sucks and im chillen...
She could be playing it super cool...but then she'd be a super bad person to flip the script.
And the last two weeks we both stated that we want to go for it...i always pull back.
Im sure that can be annoying but she wont make a thing about it.
Reminds me of a really cool girl that wanted to marry me when i was 21.
My lawyer said protect your assets and have a kid if you want...worst case you pay child support but dont sign a marriage contract.
I used to drink and that bothered her a lot and thats why she ended things before.
I havent drank in 2 years...for myself...and dont want to...over it.
Im more conscious of my world and im redesigning my body...really chippi g away at it with a chisel. Its fun.
She doesnt drink or smoke...her family is more about church...shes the little rebel. Her sisters are church goers. This girl has a body and plays it up. She has sexy energy.
Damn i wrote a lot.
I dont want to date anyone else...
Basically....it comes down to being pregnant and dealing with that whole new wide ocean...i dont know how to do it.
But im basically living off my investments so im fine.
She is 8 out of 10 in my book...is what im attracted to. Little belly chub..little...
And we have known each other 2 years off and on...i traveled...came back.
She wants traditional roles. I provide and she takes care of home and kids
Have discussed kids cuz i want one. She jokes that its 9 months of her body going through a lot...but im firm if no kid then...just have the door open for both of us...
She doesnt ask for jewelry or fancy dates...just like a little help with groceries when her work is slow.
( which i cant be sure...but if im not paying for dinners at all and she would rather spend on important things i think thats a plus).
She takes a bus to come see me...always looks like a cookie...not too showy...and i voiced my opinion on toning down the sexy...so she did...still looks attractive.
Doesnt nag...but states her needs...
I dont have a 9 -5 and all the time in the world and doesnt pressure me...
Once i told her i couldnt give her $20 and she said no worries ill figure it out...
Shes latina.
I have known her before when she had a very demanding job and it wasnt worth it...amazon....
She tried waitressing...thats how she got her little belly by eating there...but she likes to do salon stuff.
In the streets shes demure and not overly showing affection...indoors we have fun...
Im a pretty decent dude not to brag...good genetics...and discipline in my upkeep...with gods help im living on easy street but not lavish...
I get attention from girls when im out with her which is not that big of a deal for me...but im sure she notices and when im dumb and joke about it...she doesnt make an issue out of it.
She gets attention to but she just grabs my arm or shows that shes with me...(because i let her be...i let her walk away a little bit and she pulls me in)
Shes been very patient with me...i stumbled on some things that are important to her.
But lately...i dont want to approach other girls and want to get back to her.
I dont go out with my phone.
I called her and said...my bad i havent treated you that well...and she said im sorry too i havent been that nice to you either.
Little ticks that we both have and dont like about each other were discussed and rectified. No yelling or arguing. Just stopped.
Im 40 shes 26...but we both look young so i like that.
I have been pressing on the breaks cuz im not sure if its just the money...but i mean...im obviously good looking to her...im nice to her...
We laugh and poke fun...
She seems to be bending over backwards in some ways...or like submissive we call it here.
And i do try to learn her some things.
Like nutrional stuff and fitness ...shes sweet about it.
She listens...knows when i need a little more love and she makes room....which is all i want really is to see theres effort.
She lives a little far away and her place is not as nice as mine...lets be real i have more room. And i think im ready to committ...the tides might switch but if shes down to have my kid then its want i would want is to live together.
The other way my life can go is...cut it off and be single like i have been.
It may look like im being wishy washy too because im obviously smitten kitten and pull away when i dont feel good...doesnt phase her...i come back to her and its all love.
I mean...i think having my life in order...thank god...is a real plus for her....for anyone...the economy sucks and im chillen...
She could be playing it super cool...but then she'd be a super bad person to flip the script.
And the last two weeks we both stated that we want to go for it...i always pull back.
Im sure that can be annoying but she wont make a thing about it.
Reminds me of a really cool girl that wanted to marry me when i was 21.
My lawyer said protect your assets and have a kid if you want...worst case you pay child support but dont sign a marriage contract.
I used to drink and that bothered her a lot and thats why she ended things before.
I havent drank in 2 years...for myself...and dont want to...over it.
Im more conscious of my world and im redesigning my body...really chippi g away at it with a chisel. Its fun.
She doesnt drink or smoke...her family is more about church...shes the little rebel. Her sisters are church goers. This girl has a body and plays it up. She has sexy energy.
Damn i wrote a lot.
I dont want to date anyone else...
Basically....it comes down to being pregnant and dealing with that whole new wide ocean...i dont know how to do it.
