If you see her more than twice a week, she will lose attraction

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Cats only hang around you if they like you, dogs are essentially slaves, they don't like you, they don't eat... cats couldn't care less. Cats eat mice, do their own thing and the claws come out if they sense you're a little b1tch.

 

[zekko]

Question. how the fuk do relationships where people live together survive?

Living together is a whole different animal, with different expectations. I would say the key is make sure you each have your own lives, and still set aside time for quality time together.

As for relationships where you don't live together, I think your suggestion of two days a week (or less) sounds very reasonable.

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

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If I get another cat it'll be one of those tiger-sized main coons. I get so tired of people and their bs 'emotional support dogs'.

 

[HaleyBaron]

When you got a good rotation, it's easy to do this. I like trying different flavors so I sometimes won't see a girl for weeks if I am favoring another. Then I redistribute based on my desire. And it keeps them wanting to see me more. Mind you I am not doing this on purpose. It just worked out like this. Ironically this makes them keep wanting me.

 

[The Duke]

Do you really think a woman will leave a guy who is in his best shape, financially well off, fun guy, who other women will die to take her place? Not happening.

Yes it does happen. There are some things you haven't mentioned that keep ltr's lasting. A few more trips around the sun amigo.

Women are very fickle creatures, slaves to their emotions, always chasing something personal that makes them feel secure. There is more to it.

 

[The Duke]

Living together is a whole different animal, with different expectations. I would say the key is make sure you each have your own lives, and still set aside time for quality time together.

As for relationships where you don't live together, I think your suggestion of two days a week (or less) sounds very reasonable.

Not carving out time to spend together has led to the demise of all of my ltr's. Never was it the many things that get rehashed here.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

If I get another cat it'll be one of those tiger-sized main coons. I get so tired of people and their bs 'emotional support dogs'.

Klook is officially a 'therapy cat', so I can take him into restaurants. And he's way easier than a dog, doesn't need to drink water everywhere, signals when he needs to poop (and buries his poo), and if I don't feel like going out he will use the litter box.
And he does the fun things dogs do, like fetching balls I throw around the house.
Plus he's an enormous chick magnet.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Not carving out time to spend together has led to the demise of all of my ltr's. Never was it the many things that get rehashed here.

It's one of the main reasons women cheat, because they need male attention and to feel desired, if only for their self esteem.

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

Klook is officially a 'therapy cat', so I can take him into restaurants. And he's way easier than a dog, doesn't need to drink water everywhere, signals when he needs to poop (and buries his poo), and if I don't feel like going out he will use the litter box.
And he does the fun things dogs do, like fetching balls I throw around the house.
Plus he's an enormous chick magnet.

What therapeutic need is he meeting for you? To be quite honest, that's fkin disgusting dude. I have massive allergies to male cats (where I go to the hospital), they shouldn't be allowed within 10ft of a restaurant. You clearly don't give a sh1t about other people's well-being.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

What therapeutic need is he meeting for you? To be quite honest, that's fkin disgusting dude. I have massive allergies to male cats (where I go to the hospital), they shouldn't be allowed within 10ft of a restaurant. You clearly don't give a sh1t about other people's well-being.

He helps me with PTSD patients.

Maine Coon cats have no 'undercoat' and therefore less chances on allergic reactions.

Except for hysterical wimps like you who go into anaphylactic shock from seeing pvssy - for you I carry an epipen that I will ram in your furry gluteus maximus if you dare to sneeze at Klook.

Better not visit Amsterdam, pretty much every cafe and restaurant has cats to keep down the mouse population. You'll have to find drugs and wh0res somewhere else.

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

He helps me with PTSD patients.

Maine Coon cats have no 'undercoat' and therefore less chances on allergic reactions.

Except for hysterical wimps like you who go into anaphylactic shock from seeing pvssy - for you I carry an epipen that I will ram in your furry gluteus maximus if you dare to sneeze at Klook.

Better not visit Amsterdam, pretty much every cafe and restaurant has cats to keep down the mouse population. You'll have to find drugs and wh0res somewhere else.

No plans until the Russians re-arrange that leftwing sh1thole from orbit.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Ahh yes the internet forum badass. Clearly a distinguished member of the 101st Chairborne, or maybe a Keyborne Ranger? Never defeated in battle (in his own head).

Maybe the 102nd Fobbit Division? Or maybe the 103rd Pogues? Nah that would be giving you too much credit, you’d never have made it through the first week of basic.

In person a completely different persona, who would back down the moment anyone actually stepped their way.

Seriously man were you born a raging arsehole or did you get dropped on your head alot? Jesus.

 

[Learning Curve]

A lot of unhappy men here looking for a bit more piss in their puddle.

I've spent every day with my wife in a pretty small space for the last 15 years or so. All of that 'attraction advice' is for relationships where the people don't really like each other. Find a woman whose politics align with yours and being together feels like family. She must earn your attention? Does her making me breakfast/lunch and dinner count? I don't know how a bunch of guys who have had zero successful relationships give each other advice and are taken seriously. Would you board an airplane with a pilot who never successfully landed a plane? FFS, I think I'm going to start my own relationship site, this one is chalk full of self assured losers.

Do you guys not have dogs and cats? How do you live together with those guys and are still friends after?
When I've got my VR headset on, I'm in another world for a couple of hours, pull it off and my wife is sitting on the bed beside me. Does that qualify as being away?

Sparta, you seem like a super unhappy dude. I hope you're able to meet someone that fits you, same for you soulforge, I think you guys need to drop the ego, get out of the gym and go somewhere that is completely unfamiliar. Too many lonely yes-men in here getting high off their own farts.

If you want to be in a committed relationship, you have to be mature enough not to cheat. If you want a relationship that stands the test of time, you have to pass through some real sh1t together... going on a honeymoon to Cuba really doesn't cut it. I don't think most people are mature enough to make real friends anymore, probably why there are so many lonely dudes out there. Ya'll are hardcore flakes.

How do you keep the attraction balance for the past 15 years?

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

How do you keep the attraction balance for the past 15 years?

How do I keep the attraction going? I suppose by putting her into progressively difficult situations where I narrowly avoid jail. I think attraction has a lot to do with personal politics and life's perspective. If you hate the same things, you're going to derive immense enjoyment from participating in activities where you actively try and stamp them out of existence. My wife and I share this particular bond and hobby. When she thinks of things she hates my evil face pops up on her shoulder encouraging her to do what's 'right'.

For instance, the trucker rallies and pandemic pandemonium gave us more than a few activities to bond over, painted targets on mutual enemies, and created all sorts of conversations and adventures as we fled from literal fascists. Ultimately, it was a great experience in the end because we grew to truly trust and rely on each other and it gave me immense social proof as nearly every un-vaccinated person we met along the way became a friend and ally. It also gave us a common enemy to fight: the WEF.

In essence, I took her through a series of Saturday morning cartoons.