Straight from the horse’s mouth

[SargeMaximus]

Think she likes me?

 

[Jaxus]

Big mood. Had several women say the same. Really shows how it’s the natural order of things. Women don’t mind you having multiple women as long as they feel they’re #1.

A woman doesn’t care how many concubines her king has as long as she’s his only queen.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Big mood. Had several women say the same. Really shows how it’s the natural order of things. Women don’t mind you having multiple women as long as they feel they’re #1.

A woman doesn’t care how many concubines her king has as long as she’s his only queen.

So how do you make them all feel like they are #1 without getting the others jealous?

 

[Jaxus]

So how do you make them all feel like they are #1 without getting the others jealous?

Either train her to become a cuckquean over time, or don’t tell them about your whereabouts when you’re with the others (e.g. you tell them you’re at work when you’re at work, but when you’re with the other girls, you just say you’re busy and that work so stressful and that she needs to help you relieve your stress tomorrow night [insert wink emoji here]; something to that effect).

 

[BackInTheGame78]

They love playing the game, but once they see that they are second choice - It’s Over. It takes quite a bit of discipline to spin numerous quality plates.

Either that or they are so below the OP in terms of value they will accept it as part of being with someone clearly better looking.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Either train her to become a cuckquean over time, or don’t tell them about your whereabouts when you’re with the others (e.g. you tell them you’re at work when you’re at work, but when you’re with the other girls, you just say you’re busy and that work so stressful and that she needs to help you relieve your stress tomorrow night [insert wink emoji here]; something to that effect).

I would much rather have a harem of cuckqueens

 

[SargeMaximus]

Did you fvck her?

Many times

 

[Tilex]

This conversation looks like 2 guys texting each other.

 

[SargeMaximus]

This conversation looks like 2 guys texting each other.

Women conform to a man they are into. Maybe one day you’ll experience it too

 

[Jaxus]

This conversation looks like 2 guys texting each other.

That’s actually how women talk when they feel like they can be as degenerate as possible with you and/or when they’re wildly horny to the point of no self-restraint.

 

[CountSuavula]

Think she likes me?

I dunno

honestly I might doubt she likes you

she could be baiting you

it is not an attractive text conversation at all

its more like something she can use to get you fired from jobs

when you text with any females remember they are 100,000 times smarter than you are in the realm of sexual affairs

your text is weak sauce, I know you think it was ballsy but in a women’s world think if she shows it to a few of her females friends, NONE of them like you, none of them approve of you

 

[CountSuavula]

Now if you were cool you would say hey meet me at
XYZ restaurant
123 North street
Anytown, 13579
around 7pm, okay?

 

[SargeMaximus]

I dunno

honestly I might doubt she likes you

she could be baiting you

it is not an attractive text conversation at all

its more like something she can use to get you fired from jobs

when you text with any females remember they are 100,000 times smarter than you are in the realm of sexual affairs

your text is weak sauce, I know you think it was ballsy but in a women’s world think if she shows it to a few of her females friends, NONE of them like you, none of them approve of you

Bro you clearly have no experience. I’ve fvcked this woman multiple times including before the text I posted. KJ spotted

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

So how do you make them all feel like they are #1 without getting the others jealous?

Treating each one like #1 when they are with you.
Don't talk about any other women when you're with one.

In fact, don't ever talk about other people. Gossip is unattractive. If you never talk about other people, she knows you are discreet and knows you won't talk about her to other women either.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Treating each one like #1 when they are with you.
Don't talk about any other women when you're with one.

In fact, don't ever talk about other people. Gossip is unattractive. If you never talk about other people, she knows you are discreet and knows you won't talk about her to other women either.

But they ask me about other girls and stuff and sometimes an ex or a girl I knew is a perfect example for a story I’m trying to illustrate

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

But they ask me about other girls and stuff and sometimes an ex or a girl I knew is a perfect example for a story I’m trying to illustrate

Of course they ask, but you don't have to answer all their questions or satisfy their curiosity. It's enough to know that you have other options and they don't get exclusivity from you.

If you start talking about your other women, you will involuntarily create a sense of hierarchy/competition. Proceed at your own risk.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Of course they ask, but you don't have to answer all their questions or satisfy their curiosity. It's enough to know that you have other options and they don't get exclusivity from you.

If you start talking about your other women, you will involuntarily create a sense of hierarchy/competition. Proceed at your own risk.

I get that so what can I do? When a girl asks me about other girls I mean. I’ve never been good at the agree and amplify technique. People just take it seriously

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I get that so what can I do? When a girl asks me about other girls I mean. I’ve never been good at the agree and amplify technique. People just take it seriously

"We're not going exclusive. I do have other girls, but I'm not going to talk about them with you, just as I'm not talking about you with anybody else. Do not test my discretion."

After that talk, any time she becomes 'curious' "Do your other women also do X?", you just show displeasure and tell her, "are you testing my discretion?" < reinforce that she comes close to your boundary.

"Am I your #1 girl?" > "Where do you get the idea that you're competing with other women?"
"Do you love me as much you love those other women?" > "I have a big heart. You don't need to fight for space in my affections."
"What if I have a headache/period/no desire to be social?" > "That's fine, kitten, get yourself in bed, we'll get together some other time."
"Have you taken your other kittens to this restaurant?" > "Are you testing my discretion again?"

Have integrity, be discreet. Any question is a direct challenge of your integrity and discretion and she should stop that pronto or you will visit her less.

 

[SargeMaximus]

"We're not going exclusive. I do have other girls, but I'm not going to talk about them with you, just as I'm not talking about you with anybody else. Do not test my discretion."

After that talk, any time she becomes 'curious' "Do your other women also do X?", you just show displeasure and tell her, "are you testing my discretion?" < reinforce that she comes close to your boundary.

"Am I your #1 girl?" > "Where do you get the idea that you're competing with other women?"
"Do you love me as much you love those other women?" > "I have a big heart. You don't need to fight for space in my affections."
"What if I have a headache/period/no desire to be social?" > "That's fine, kitten, get yourself in bed, we'll get together some other time."
"Have you taken your other kittens to this restaurant?" > "Are you testing my discretion again?"

Have integrity, be discreet. Any question is a direct challenge of your integrity and discretion and she should stop that pronto or you will visit her less.

Thank you for this

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Women will test you for congruence, so hold the frame. Feel your integrity, feel that you would never talk about other women to the woman you're with. Don't complain about exes, don't rejoice in other people's misery, stay cool and unaffected by other people's opinions. The more you internalise this, you will find that 'dramatic' and 'whiny' women either avoid you or stop that behaviour, because you just don't tolerate it.