Double digit notch count too high or what do you think?

[Baibars]

Girl suddenly changed after 1.5 years

I'm in a bit ****ed up situation right now emotionally and i need your advice. I've been on this forum for some times after my kids mother left me back then. I had a pretty good recovery and made progress careerwise. I drive a brand new car now and i'd say i have my **** together more than i...

www.sosuave.net

A few weeks ago i posted this thread.
I went through a lot of bad days. Met 2 girls and I’m going to meet another cute one this Sunday.
I banged one girl but the attachment to my ex didn’t go away. I was thinking about my ex during the whole time with that girl and I treated her like **** so she just left my place while I was sleeping lol.

In my old post I told you that my ex admitted that she lied about her body count and now I found out it’s at least 10 could be even 20. this girl is 22, a single mom and ****ed so many guys because she felt alone.
She said I cant imagine how she felt back then bla bla. But in my head something changed when I heard about the double digits.

I’m also disgusted now because she banged all those guys that didn’t care about her but now she’s withdrawing sex from me because of her emotions. I mean yeah I pushed her away and treated her bad often but it still ****s with my head when she’s not pulling out while having a double digit body count.

Now I wonder do you guys think that’s insecure? Because on the other side I’m thinking that all girls lie about their body counts and as long as they treat you well it doesn’t matter.
But it does matter for me when I want to make that woman my girlfriend or wife.

 

[pipeman84]

Now I wonder do you guys think that’s insecure? Because on the other side I’m thinking that all girls lie about their body counts and as long as they treat you well it doesn’t matter.
But it does matter for me when I want to make that woman my girlfriend or wife.

On an intellectual level it matters because all those exes means she's saddled with baggage and red flags.
On a primal, masculine level it matters because men value freedom, independence in general and purity as it pertains to a woman they want to invest resources in.
All those other guys fvcked her and then carried on with their life while you're stuck with her as your girlfirend or worse wife. Her purity is long gone and your freedom as a man is now severly curtailed and for what?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Is this not a question of her having more experience than you?

 

[soulforge]

Girl suddenly changed after 1.5 years

I'm in a bit ****ed up situation right now emotionally and i need your advice. I've been on this forum for some times after my kids mother left me back then. I had a pretty good recovery and made progress careerwise. I drive a brand new car now and i'd say i have my **** together more than i...

www.sosuave.net

A few weeks ago i posted this thread.
I went through a lot of bad days. Met 2 girls and I’m going to meet another cute one this Sunday.
I banged one girl but the attachment to my ex didn’t go away. I was thinking about my ex during the whole time with that girl and I treated her like **** so she just left my place while I was sleeping lol.

In my old post I told you that my ex admitted that she lied about her body count and now I found out it’s at least 10 could be even 20. this girl is 22, a single mom and ****ed so many guys because she felt alone.
She said I cant imagine how she felt back then bla bla. But in my head something changed when I heard about the double digits.

I’m also disgusted now because she banged all those guys that didn’t care about her but now she’s withdrawing sex from me because of her emotions. I mean yeah I pushed her away and treated her bad often but it still ****s with my head when she’s not pulling out while having a double digit body count.

Now I wonder do you guys think that’s insecure? Because on the other side I’m thinking that all girls lie about their body counts and as long as they treat you well it doesn’t matter.
But it does matter for me when I want to make that woman my girlfriend or wife.

I think pair bonding is a real thing. I don't care about a girls body count, in the sense that I never ask her what it is.. However if she is in double digits & she is young, it's unlikely that she will be able to meaningfully pair bond with another man, for a long lasting relationship.

She's more likely to give up on a relationship, or Monkey Branch to someone else, she's had the practice of multiple diks.