The Holy Grail Of Red Flags!

soulforge

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Pretty much ALL red flags, stem from a girl growing up without a masculine father figure in the house hold.

BPD, NPD all these cluster B conditions are linked with single mom upbringing.

Single moms produce a generation of ****ery boys & girls. Always ask these hoes about their relationship with the father lol

 

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I've always attracted a lot of daddy's girls that had solid fathers and looked up to their dad's. These same girls had cluster b issues that developed from a strained relationship with their mother. It doesn't matter. Both parents need to be supportive in a loving/healthy manner to keep these issues from developing.

Bipolar can be genetic.
 

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I've always attracted a lot of daddy's girls that had solid fathers and looked up to their dad's. These same girls had cluster b issues that developed from a strained relationship with their mother. It doesn't matter. Both parents need to be supportive in a loving/healthy manner to keep these issues from developing.
Mommy issues/Daddy Issue's.. Both result in a women with issues/and trauma.
 

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And dudes. There are a few on this forum that have cluster b issues.
The difference is this.. Us men have this inait ability to reflect, hold ourselves accountable, improve & do better with the next girl.

The vast majority of girls will never self improve, never look within themselves & figure out what they need to do better, because after they are finished with Chad, they will Immediately move onto Tyrone.

No time for self improvement.
 

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I don’t know. I think the biggest red flag should be some sort of trauma that causes PTSD, OCD, or anxiety. Some people have issues coping with general tasks or the daily grind that, when bonding with someone else, they become co-dependent. They essentially look for a caregiver.
 

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I don’t know. I think the biggest red flag should be some sort of trauma that causes PTSD, OCD, or anxiety. Some people have issues coping with general tasks or the daily grind that, when bonding with someone else, they become co-dependent. They essentially look for a caregiver.
Nah that's not the biggest red flag when it comes to chicks.

A girl that grows up without a masculine father figure, will more often look for that Masculinity in dudes. This means she will start fvcking early. High Body Count.

That high body count will leave her in the situation where she is unable to pair bond with a good dude.

its all downhill after that.
 
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The first part of the video should be posted in the "dangers of women having male friends" thread, it's so appropriate!

Discussing the male/female dynamic, I called it 'polarity' in response to @BeExcellent , but it's so true, not sure how anyone can deny that, essentially denying nature.

But anyway.... I don't normally watch videos posted but I watched this one and most of it I agreed with.

Re daddy issues, agree that it could be mommy issues too. An adversarial relationship with her mother can be just as traumatic and result in the same disorders imo (Cluster B) personality disorders.

@The Duke is correct Bipolar is a mental illness and genetic.
 

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The first part of the video should be posted in the "dangers of women having male friends" thread, it's so appropriate!

Discussing the male/female dynamic, I called it 'polarity' in response to @BeExcellent , but it's so true, not sure how anyone can deny that, essentially denying nature.

But anyway.... I don't normally watch videos posted but I watched this one and most of it I agreed with.

Re daddy issues, agree that it could be mommy issues too. An adversarial relationship with her mother can be just as traumatic and result in the same disorders imo (Cluster B) personality disorders.

@The Duke is correct Bipolar is a mental illness and genetic.
Your a fvking G
 

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I said it before when there was a daddy issues thread a couple months ago lol…the 2 most extreme cases of cluster b run-ins I had were girls whose mothers did the abandoning in childhood. And both of their fathers were Peter-pan like narcissists - but still in their life.
 

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Feminism has made most western women a red flag. And social media/ internet only exasperated that cause it broadcast feminist ideas to non western women who are becoming more corrupted. Sometimes, China has it right for censoring their internet.
 

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The difference is this.. Us men have this inait ability to reflect, hold ourselves accountable, improve & do better with the next girl.

The vast majority of girls
will never self improve, never look within themselves & figure out what they need to do better, because after they are finished with Chad, they will Immediately move onto Tyrone.

No time for self improvement.
Most (not all) girls ride the c0ck caroussel for years and then try to explain away why they should be considered a "High Value Quality Woman" or some variant of that.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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