What can I do in this situation?

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The issue with PUA/Red Pill game is that it sells this Disney mentality that every guy is a special snowflake and they just have to act like it. OP, I hate to break it to you, but you aren't Drake, Brad Pitt, Leonardo Dicaprio, and etc. You are a random average guy that came up to a girl and asked for an Instagram. Yes, maybe Drake can get away with asking a random girl to get in his car, but you aren't drake. Building rapport with a girl is not going to kill you or turn you in to a vile beta male simp like the PUA/Fresh & Fraud Gods brainwashed into you.
When DISNEY wants u it GETS U
 

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She is obv worth it for me.
Stop. You dont even know her. Or anything about her. Literally.

You really need to figure out how to get out of this scarcity mindset that you stay in. I know you are approaching women, and that is great. But I promise you that anyone that reads your posts on here can smell the scarcity mindset and that means women probably can see it from a mile away too.

Learn to be outcome independent instead of putting so much effort and time into someone that you really dont even know.

At BEST case, you get a date, put in TONS of effort and she puts in none. How long does that last?
Not very long. And then you feel bad again, wondering what happened, what you could have done differently, etc.

Nothing is worth sacrificing your self worth and dignity.
 

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Stop. You dont even know her. Or anything about her. Literally.

You really need to figure out how to get out of this scarcity mindset that you stay in. I know you are approaching women, and that is great. But I promise you that anyone that reads your posts on here can smell the scarcity mindset and that means women probably can see it from a mile away too.

Learn to be outcome independent instead of putting so much effort and time into someone that you really dont even know.

At BEST case, you get a date, put in TONS of effort and she puts in none. How long does that last?
Not very long. And then you feel bad again, wondering what happened, what you could have done differently, etc.

Nothing is worth sacrificing your self worth and dignity.
I just saw her at the same restaurant lounge I closed her. She passed me and said hiii and smiled I did the same and let her go.
I just react on her story next time on insta and see what she does
 

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I just saw her at the same restaurant lounge I closed her. She passed me and said hiii and smiled I did the same and let her go.
I just react on her story next time on insta and see what she does
For sure a virgin and a church girl spends a lot of time in lounges :)
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Who said she’s virgin. I said she’s Turkish
So just because she's Turkish means she's not a virgin? Where are the woke when you need them?
 

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Who said she’s virgin. I said she’s Turkish
You said she is religious, but you keep bumping into her in lounges

Have no idea how you reached the conclusion that she is religious, most likely projection

I dated 2 morrocan girls and 1 Turkish. Biggest gold diggers I ever met. They play the “traditional” role but in reality they are nothing more than gold diggers and very likely you will bump into them in places that are considered expensive

According to the Muslim law they have almost no inheritance which makes sense on why gold digging is a thing there but at the same time they are a more extreme version of Russians. And they are also very superficial

The discussions I heard from them and their friends is like a big wtf. They actually made me to like more the Western European women

Most likely you were not really a catch physically and “smelled” that you do not have the money or generosity that she is looking for in order to compensate that. No hard feelings, it happens to the best of us
 
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You said she is religious, but you keep bumping into her in lounges

Have no idea how you reached the conclusion that she is religious, most likely projection

I dated 2 morrocan girls and 1 Turkish. Biggest gold diggers I ever met. They play the “traditional” role but in reality they are nothing more than gold diggers and very likely you will bump into them in places that are considered expensive

According to the Muslim law they have almost no inheritance which makes sense on why gold digging is a thing there but at the same time they are a more extreme version of Russians. And they are also very superficial

The discussions I heard from them and their friends is like a big wtf. They actually made me to like more the Western European women

Most likely you were not really a catch physically and “smelled” that you do not have the money or generosity that she is looking for in order to compensate that. No hard feelings, it happens to the best of us
Im a millionaire lol
 

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Im a millionaire lol
So?

You can be the king of Saudi Arabia, if that is not seen from the get go it is irrelevant

You are the same guy who was bragging that drives a new bmw series 3, a car that is like 30k new or like 500-600 euros a month through lease

That even a construction worker can afford if he really wants to drive the new bmw series 3. It is only 25% of
His salary ( in some cases even less )

If you think that women do not know this ( especially gold diggers ) , you are kidding yourself

Also, you said that the company you own ( which sales and buys stuff ) has that turnover not the profit. Stop exaggerating stuff

To reach 1 million in turnover in retail commerce you only need 2-3 stores. Really doubt that owning a small business like that gives you a millionaire status. High turnover extremely small profit industry
 
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So?

You can be the king of Saudi Arabia, if that is not seen from the get go it is irrelevant

You are the same guy who was bragging that drives a new bmw series 3, a car that is like 30k new or like 500-600 euros a month through lease

That even a construction worker can afford if he really wants to drive the new bmw series 3. It is only 25% of
His salary ( in some cases even less )

If you think that women do not know this ( especially gold diggers ) , you are kidding yourself

Also, you said that the company you own ( which sales and buys stuff ) has that turnover not the profit. Stop exaggerating stuff

To reach 1 million in turnover in retail commerce you only need 2-3 stores. Really doubt that owning a small business like that gives you a millionaire status. High turnover extremely small profit industry
Shut your mouth man, hating as pzzy , girls don’t even recogtnize ur Simp no money kid. Only hating
 

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Shut your mouth man, hating as pzzy , girls don’t even recogtnize ur Simp no money kid. Only hating
You are like those guys who think that 100k is a rich man salary in the US, when in reality it is only the average salary of a big city

I can bet that I have more money cash under my name than you have, and I am quite far away at the moment from having a net worth of at least 1 million euros ;)
 
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Im a millionaire lol
I got your back, bro. Fly me to your location for a weekend and lets blow some of your money on expensive stuff to prove to these haters that you are a legit millionaire.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I got your back, bro. Fly me to your location for a weekend and lets blow some of your money on expensive stuff to prove to these haters that you are a legit millionaire.
Sure! Pay for your own ticket I got your dj back here
 
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