Best response to "You never text me first". We are not dating yet.

sangheilios

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Yeah you are right about that. I think a lot of them won't even come to your house and will instead insist on a hotel room for safety reasons, especially their own.

At least for the first few times...if you become a regular then maybe they will bend the rules a little.
A few years ago I contacted a higher tier/business level one and honestly had a good experience but it's only something I've done once and I had/have no desire to try it out again. I had reached out to a lot of other "providers" and even just through text messaging I picked up on a very bad vibe with many of them, I can't really explain it but I think you understand what I'm talking about. Most of these women have issues with drugs and are involved with a lot of shady stuff that I'd not want to associate with. Even the higher tier ones I'm sure are like this as well, though with the added caveat of using their services to climb the social ladder, travel, etc.
 

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A few years ago I contacted a higher tier/business level one and honestly had a good experience but it's only something I've done once and I had/have no desire to try it out again. I had reached out to a lot of other "providers" and even just through text messaging I picked up on a very bad vibe with many of them, I can't really explain it but I think you understand what I'm talking about. Most of these women have issues with drugs and are involved with a lot of shady stuff that I'd not want to associate with. Even the higher tier ones I'm sure are like this as well, though with the added caveat of using their services to climb the social ladder, travel, etc.
My only experience with one was in Vegas several years ago when I was there for a conference for work and I was coming back to my room from a club and was walking thru the hotel in a big open area and a woman who was just kinda hanging out by herself swooped in to ask me if I "needed any company tonight". She looked good but I told her no thanks...

I kinda was insulted...I was like damn...do I not look like I could go get laid if I really wanted to? Hahaha
 

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My only experience with one was in Vegas several years ago when I was there for a conference for work and I was coming back to my room from a club and was walking thru the hotel in a big open area and a woman who was just kinda hanging out by herself swooped in to ask me if I "needed any company tonight". She looked good but I told her no thanks...

I kinda was insulted...I was like damn...do I not look like I could go get laid if I really wanted to? Hahaha
There are plenty of men that hire these women that aren't necessarily having issues with getting women. Think about it this way, if you are incredibly busy with work and hyper focused on that you aren't going to have much free time available to chase women. If your goal is to just have sex and you have the money this is the best way to go about doing it, far more efficient than going through the entire dating process. There are tons of very successful men that are into this, tons of rappers, NFL players, etc. Lisa Ann and Nikki Benz, both porn stars, have talked about sleeping with celebrities, pro athletes, etc. Now, they sure as hell weren't doing it for free lol.
 

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There are plenty of men that hire these women that aren't necessarily having issues with getting women. Think about it this way, if you are incredibly busy with work and hyper focused on that you aren't going to have much free time available to chase women. If your goal is to just have sex and you have the money this is the best way to go about doing it, far more efficient than going through the entire dating process. There are tons of very successful men that are into this, tons of rappers, NFL players, etc. Lisa Ann and Nikki Benz, both porn stars, have talked about sleeping with celebrities, pro athletes, etc. Now, they sure as hell weren't doing it for free lol.
They might be for clout or 'bragging rights'
 

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They might be for clout or 'bragging rights'
The point is that even celebrities and pro athletes engage in this. There was an NFL player who talked about spending tens of thousands on escorts in a given year during his career, it was an interview I watched a while ago. Someone like this could easily have found a gold digger wife or some sugar baby, etc.
 

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Charlie Sheen rented escorts because 'they leave when you tell them to'.
 

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"I'm not living up to your ideal statistics. Maybe we should break up."

Either she'll understand that you're too busy to comply with her texting desires, or she'll stop texting.
Dont do this, texting women like youre emailing her from HR.
 

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Brother she LITERALLY TOLD YOU word for word what she wants. 'i want to hang out first.'

Make a move before it fizzles out
 
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