Why do non-white guys chase after meh/10 white women

[Jesse Pinkman]

Yes blonde women have attitudes more so than other women plus blonde women are not that hot

Objectively, they are the most desired, especially by wealthier and well off man. I just never got why ethnic dudes, especially Middle Eastern, South American, and darker Mediterranean guys are super obsessed with them.

However, if you are a minority with a thing for white women, just game brunettes. You can get a good big for your buck often. I swear, brunettes just have lower standards overall.

 

[forcerecon01]

Objectively, they are the most desired, especially by wealthier and well off man. I just never got why ethnic dudes, especially Middle Eastern, South American, and darker Mediterranean guys are super obsessed with them.

However, if you are a minority with a thing for white women, just game brunettes. You can get a good big for your buck often. I swear, brunettes just have lower standards overall.

True

 

[CornbreadFed]

I am not sure if I am the only one that notices this but it seems like of the white women that look good and go interracial, a good chunk of them tend to be more brunettes than anything. Everyone will refute it by saying "well that's because brunettes are the most common". I get that but I have been in environments that had a lot of "blondes" too (whether natural or not). Outside of dating some top tier black or ethnic dude, I don't see the typical hot blonde go interracial that much. Again, this is in environments where you have both blonde and brunette white girls present in around the same quantity.

I have mostly dated blondes, but I prefer brunettes or red heads. It just seemed like all of my friends growing up were obsessed with the country blonde or sorority blonde girl type and they just gave me the ick.

 

[MatureDJ]

Today at the gym, there's this gorgeous Indian or Pakistani girl working out and she decides to do the bend over exercises in front of me while I work out. I automatically assume she has a boyfriend and what the guy looks like. Drum Roll, I was correct because her boyfriend was just at the other corner of the gym. He was a tall, but lanky looking Indian or Pakistani guy that was definitely pulling above his league. Now, if this guy would've gone for a white woman, there's no way in fvcking hell he would pull a similar caliber woman to his current gf.

As I drive home, I am listening to some dating red pill video, and it is obviously a brown guy complaining about struggling with women and you can tell he is only shooting for white females. I feel like this is the majority of non incel guys struggling with women at the end of the day. They have a decent job, they workout, and have the looks to attract a woman, but they over here chasing after Beckies lol. I can understand African American guys doing this, but for the other brown guys including African men, why? Where I am at, I see a lot of beta/fat Indian and Hispanic men with hot women, so why are you choosing to chase after meh/10 Becky's over them?

As an African American male, myself, I was born in a 99% white environment where I basically had no choice, but to pursue white women. After I left my hometown to a major city, I outright refuse to date one unless they are Non-American because Latinas, Indians, and Asians are so much better.

White folks are considered the most attractive of humans, hence JBW is a meme. Similarly, Nordic Whites are considered the most attractive of Whites, hence blond hair and blue eyes are a meme, the latter for quite some time.

https://edition.cnn.com/2014/01/27/world/europe/mesolithic-man/index.html

As a White man myself, I don't find women of other races to be attractive, although an Asian-ish chick would be OK. But for someone who finds women of color attractive - regardless of his own color - it would makes sense to go for an otherwise higher-tier woman of color.

Something to think about - the women of color that are considered attractive tend to have a decent admixture of White.

 

[MatureDJ]

To Asian men, white women are attractive and exotic, the additional factor contributing to that is they are exposed to them less and their own cultures promote the physical features that white women possess.

There is also the Anime meme that makes Whitish Asian chicks more desirable.

 

[MatureDJ]

Here in Cyprus Pakistanish guys are considered incels and a Cypriot woman would never date any Pakistanish males.

Most Pakistans are working for delivery services all over Cyprus there is this mentality that if you as a Cypriot woman date a Pakistanish Male you are placed in the lowest bracket you could possibly be.

This is racism yes in essence but this is the world we live in now.

If that dude was tall, six pack and looked like Brad-Pitt Pakistan version i tell you now that most majority of women even white would date or at least bang that guy.

Is the perception developed in our century and there is nothing we can do about it.

It's OVER for CyprusPakistaniCels.

 

[MatureDJ]

Colored dudes just love them white pinky pvssies you know, it's a fact.

There is also the idiom:

The darker the cherry, the sweeter the wine.

 

[MatureDJ]

Secondly, these cultures, specifically Pakistani and Indian, which you mention in your post have a culture that worships fair skin even within their country. They have ads for fairness creams on TV over there advertised by biggest Bollywood stars.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Looks more like the pallor of a corpse than healthy 'white' skin.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Side note here:

I do not consider women who are not naturally blonde, that dye their hair blonde to be a blonde.

Likewise with a redhead.

If described by hair color "I date blondes" the grille needs to match.

It's like saying I wear a Rolex, no you don't it's a chinese knock-off. (provided you care about her actually being a blonde or not).

Thoughts?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I do not consider women who are not naturally blonde, that dye their hair blonde to be a blonde.

Peroxide Blondes are not to be counted among the blonde population.

Pretty sure she shaved her rug because they won't fit with the curtains.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

And while I prefer brunettes, if she’s a natural blonde a nicely maintained blonde cooch can be a crazy turn on, same with fire crotches…

 

[Fruitbat]

I will say that white guys who fetishize latinas, asians, etc. are pretty fvcking weird. And I say that as a white guy myself. That's not to say that a white guy being attracted to a latina or asian girl is automatically weird...but "fetishizing" other races most certainly is.

not sure what fetishise means.

I like Asian and White women equally in looks, but….

more white women are….

fat
Entitled
Disloyal
Drinkers and drug takers
Amped up on feminism to create pointless belligerent arguments

Asian women in my experience are less easygoing, probably more materialist, not very fun.

On balance I prefer Asian women for a partner.

Hispanic - virtually never meet any of them but the American ones seem like white women but if anything more ghetto and more aggressive.

I’ve met a lot of lovely black women, sadly I just don’t find them attractive in any way. I also don’t like the big framed blonde type women, the playboy bunny look either. Usually I find they kind of look boring and bland.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

And while I prefer brunettes, if she’s a natural blonde a nicely maintained blonde cooch can be a crazy turn on, same with fire crotches…

Did I ever tell you about that pyromaniac redhead I used to date?

 

[Fruitbat]

And while I prefer brunettes, if she’s a natural blonde a nicely maintained blonde cooch can be a crazy turn on, same with fire crotches…

That’s the downside with Asian women. They all hide a very bushy secret. And it’s the cultural norm not to trim it. Which is gross and something which needed negotiation

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

it’s the cultural norm not to trim it. Which is gross and something which needed negotiation

That's where you need the fire crotch. Just take your Creme Brûlée flame and scorch that bush.

 

[MatureDJ]

Side note here:

I do not consider women who are not naturally blonde, that dye their hair blonde to be a blonde.

Likewise with a redhead.

If described by hair color "I date blondes" the grille needs to match.

It's like saying I wear a Rolex, no you don't it's a chinese knock-off. (provided you care about her actually being a blonde or not).

Thoughts?

My understanding is that anyone that dyes her hair is more pliable since she has the insecurity in dying the hair in the first place.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

The Asians I’ve been with all were bare. Except the Japanese one who had the lightest, softest, daintiest little fuzz - omg it was so sexy. She said she’d never shaved, just trimmed a little when it got past her lips, but like every 6 months.

One time we met and she was bare and I was heartbroken. I asked her why she did it and she said she wanted to see what it felt like unfortunately, it grew back a little coarser as one would expect, but she never did it again and things pretty much return back to the way that they were.

That’s the downside with Asian women. They all hide a very bushy secret. And it’s the cultural norm not to trim it. Which is gross and something which needed negotiation

 

[MatureDJ]

That’s the downside with Asian women. They all hide a very bushy secret. And it’s the cultural norm not to trim it. Which is gross and something which needed negotiation

What about the Anime style in which the crack is covered up by a bandaid?

 

[CornbreadFed]

The Asians I’ve been with all were bare. Except the Japanese one who had the lightest, softest, daintiest little fuzz - omg it was so sexy. She said she’d never shaved, just trimmed a little when it got past her lips, but like every 6 months.

One time we met and she was bare and I was heartbroken. I asked her why she did it and she said she wanted to see what it felt like unfortunately, it grew back a little coarser as one would expect, but she never did it again and things pretty much return back to the way that they were.

My Asian GF's pubic hair grows straight, and I finally caught a glimpse of it one time after I had gotten back from a work trip.