Why do non-white guys chase after meh/10 white women

[CornbreadFed]

Today at the gym, there's this gorgeous Indian or Pakistani girl working out and she decides to do the bend over exercises in front of me while I work out. I automatically assume she has a boyfriend and what the guy looks like. Drum Roll, I was correct because her boyfriend was just at the other corner of the gym. He was a tall, but lanky looking Indian or Pakistani guy that was definitely pulling above his league. Now, if this guy would've gone for a white woman, there's no way in fvcking hell he would pull a similar caliber woman to his current gf.

As I drive home, I am listening to some dating red pill video, and it is obviously a brown guy complaining about struggling with women and you can tell he is only shooting for white females. I feel like this is the majority of non incel guys struggling with women at the end of the day. They have a decent job, they workout, and have the looks to attract a woman, but they over here chasing after Beckies lol. I can understand African American guys doing this, but for the other brown guys including African men, why? Where I am at, I see a lot of beta/fat Indian and Hispanic men with hot women, so why are you choosing to chase after meh/10 Becky's over them?

As an African American male, myself, I was born in a 99% white environment where I basically had no choice, but to pursue white women. After I left my hometown to a major city, I outright refuse to date one unless they are Non-American because Latinas, Indians, and Asians are so much better.

 

[Stanley]

People have preferences

 

[DoofusDonutDude]

I don't know why all the male competitive areas such as dating or martial arts attract the most unsympathetic or unintelligent men, perhaps they are only the loudest.

As a brown guy who has often thought about it, let me explain it --

First of all people in the west do not understand most of the brown countries are homogeneous in terms of ethnicities, unlike USA, Britain or Europe.

That means, even in the top cities, say somewhere like Bombay or Karachi, 99.99% folks would be of the same country -- the only white, black, middle eastern folks they would see is probably the few tourists. Compare that to New York or Atlanta.

These countries have a lot of variance in terms of how local people may look because they are very heterogeneous in terms of their local population. Someone in one corner of the country may look very different than someone on the other side of the country and have completely different cultures, languages, social groups etc but the difference is not as stark. as say , a black guy in Tokyo and they are used to it.

Secondly, these cultures, specifically Pakistani and Indian, which you mention in your post have a culture that worships fair skin even within their country. They have ads for fairness creams on TV over there advertised by biggest Bollywood stars.

I think this fair skin obsession is infact much more with Arabic and middle eastern folks. Why this is there, there are several theories depending on region, such as leftover colonialism mindset of superior white race for South East Asian folks or the capture and slave trade from Arabic tribes raiding in the borders of European countries. Perhaps its a lingering effect of inferiority complex from how the white people over took the Asians economically and technologically (Asians were ahead prior to 15th century ..i guess) and a lot is that western media dominates the world.

No one knows exactly why, but a deep love of fair skin is promoted culturally....and surprise surprise, who has the fairest skin in the world, so much that they look pale skinned? White women.

Another thing to mention is skin show is generally frowned upon in such countries, Korea and Japan are far ahead but in the countries you listed, Shorts, tights are still the exception outside the most rich and liberal city areas. Western women, who are predominantly white, dress a lot more freely which is , in a weird way , both found attractive by men when "other women" do it (in this context, western or white women) and frowned upon when "your women" do it ( mostly because of society but also because local men take it as an invite for staring and sexual harassment) . Something to point out is that most well educated and liberal men do not have this issue for most part but still have some of it.

Not to mention, and this is not a racist slight, a lot of porn which is watched globally and in Asian countries, is sold with the stereotype of the white blued eyed blonde as the epitome of desire.

So, yeah, combine all these 4 factors and you can see why white women is desirable to men from those countries.

Honestly, Hot women are the most desired. Not white women but yeah, if these guys are picking beckies over bombshells just because of skin color, they need to do some inner work.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Becky's

Men who keep rating women are self-defeating. Colour is unimportant. Attraction is.

 

[manfrombelow]

Colored dudes just love them white pinky pvssies you know, it's a fact.

 

[Learning Curve]

Here in Cyprus Pakistanish guys are considered incels and a Cypriot woman would never date any Pakistanish males.

Most Pakistans are working for delivery services all over Cyprus there is this mentality that if you as a Cypriot woman date a Pakistanish Male you are placed in the lowest bracket you could possibly be.

This is racism yes in essence but this is the world we live in now.

If that dude was tall, six pack and looked like Brad-Pitt Pakistan version i tell you now that most majority of women even white would date or at least bang that guy.

Is the perception developed in our century and there is nothing we can do about it.

 

[obelisk]

DDD, that's really interesting analysis. I never quite considered it from that angle fully.

There are some beautiful Arabic and Indian/Pakistani women floating around. Something utterly sensual about arabic women with the right look in my eyes.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Low/no standards.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Why is it that when white guys fetishize Latin, Asian, and ethnic women, the response is always positive such as "yeah more feminine women bro, screw the feminists" or "yeah bro passportbro!"?

Yet, when guys who are not white love white women, the response is always hostile and everyone gets their panties in a bunch.

I just never got it.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Why is it that when white guys fetishize Latin, Asian, and ethnic women, the response is always positive such as "yeah more feminine women bro, screw the feminists" or "yeah bro passportbro!"?

Yet, when guys who are not white love white women, the response is always hostile and everyone gets their panties in a bunch.

I just never got it.

If you can pull the hot white women that aren't the Kim Kardashian/cleat chasers that white men don't pursue then be my guest. I am just confused on why men are downgrading/putting their dating life on hard mode to get with meh/10 white women at best. African American men I get it because our women aren't that great, and it is easier for us to jump from a toxic black female to a white version of the same girl. Now for Asians, Indians, Middle Easterners, Hispanic, I need some explaining from y'all because y'all have women that destroy white women. Hispanic men tend to stick with Hispanic women though, so I will give them that as well.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I just never got it.

I don't get why men don't just divide women in attractive to me and not attractive to me.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I don't know why all the male competitive areas such as dating or martial arts attract the most unsympathetic or unintelligent men, perhaps they are only the loudest.

As a brown guy who has often thought about it, let me explain it --

First of all people in the west do not understand most of the brown countries are homogeneous in terms of ethnicities, unlike USA, Britain or Europe.

That means, even in the top cities, say somewhere like Bombay or Karachi, 99.99% folks would be of the same country -- the only white, black, middle eastern folks they would see is probably the few tourists. Compare that to New York or Atlanta.

These countries have a lot of variance in terms of how local people may look because they are very heterogeneous in terms of their local population. Someone in one corner of the country may look very different than someone on the other side of the country and have completely different cultures, languages, social groups etc but the difference is not as stark. as say , a black guy in Tokyo and they are used to it.

Secondly, these cultures, specifically Pakistani and Indian, which you mention in your post have a culture that worships fair skin even within their country. They have ads for fairness creams on TV over there advertised by biggest Bollywood stars.

I think this fair skin obsession is infact much more with Arabic and middle eastern folks. Why this is there, there are several theories depending on region, such as leftover colonialism mindset of superior white race for South East Asian folks or the capture and slave trade from Arabic tribes raiding in the borders of European countries. Perhaps its a lingering effect of inferiority complex from how the white people over took the Asians economically and technologically (Asians were ahead prior to 15th century ..i guess) and a lot is that western media dominates the world.

No one knows exactly why, but a deep love of fair skin is promoted culturally....and surprise surprise, who has the fairest skin in the world, so much that they look pale skinned? White women.

Another thing to mention is skin show is generally frowned upon in such countries, Korea and Japan are far ahead but in the countries you listed, Shorts, tights are still the exception outside the most rich and liberal city areas. Western women, who are predominantly white, dress a lot more freely which is , in a weird way , both found attractive by men when "other women" do it (in this context, western or white women) and frowned upon when "your women" do it ( mostly because of society but also because local men take it as an invite for staring and sexual harassment) . Something to point out is that most well educated and liberal men do not have this issue for most part but still have some of it.

Not to mention, and this is not a racist slight, a lot of porn which is watched globally and in Asian countries, is sold with the stereotype of the white blued eyed blonde as the epitome of desire.

So, yeah, combine all these 4 factors and you can see why white women is desirable to men from those countries.

Honestly, Hot women are the most desired. Not white women but yeah, if these guys are picking beckies over bombshells just because of skin color, they need to do some inner work.

Great post

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Here in Cyprus Pakistanish guys are considered incels and a Cypriot woman would never date any Pakistanish males.

Most Pakistans are working for delivery services all over Cyprus there is this mentality that if you as a Cypriot woman date a Pakistanish Male you are placed in the lowest bracket you could possibly be.

This is racism yes in essence but this is the world we live in now.

If that dude was tall, six pack and looked like Brad-Pitt Pakistan version i tell you now that most majority of women even white would date or at least bang that guy.

Is the perception developed in our century and there is nothing we can do about it.

That is truly messed up

 

[Smok1nAce]

I think its just a perception.

Most women are average, a few stand out as very attractive and very ugly.

When you in that "gene pool" and I use that term only for sake of simplicity. You probably notice more distinct features within in that group more then an outsider. The features you deem as unattractive in that group are probably looked passed by others not in the group as just a minor flaws if that.

With this an average white women is bumped up a few points just because she is in a different gene pool. Its probably a basic human instinct at some level.

I see the same thing when white men date other ethnicitys. Look at mia khalifa, white men worship her and to any other ethnicity she very plain if not ugly.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

If you can pull the hot white women that aren't the Kim Kardashian/cleat chasers that white men don't pursue then be my guest. I am just confused on why men are downgrading/putting their dating life on hard mode to get with meh/10 white women at best. African American men I get it because our women aren't that great, and it is easier for us to jump from a toxic black female to a white version of the same girl. Now for Asians, Indians, Middle Easterners, Hispanic, I need some explaining from y'all because y'all have women that destroy white women. Hispanic men tend to stick with Hispanic women though, so I will give them that as well.

I mean...Welcome to 2023 dude. People date all kinds of people that they like lol. FFS, everyone up in here hyping up ethnic women, have you dealt with the stereotypical Korean American chick? Most of them just try desperately hard to be white, screw that. As for Latinas, lol, again, just the same toxic stuff.

You are making it about race when really, guys just find a certain woman they click with and fulfills them, not our business to really judge. Sure, you can have the flashy and beautiful Persian wife with an erotic body but then you have to deal with her princess attitude, entitlement, and a host of other setbacks that most men do not bother.

It's America, women of all races have their serious setbacks thanks to the culture. Men just happen to chase white women because in most places, especially wealthier and well off places, they are the majority.

 

[Gamisch]

And meanwhile (men like) you Op are the biggest racists around.

If i see a black dude with a qhite woman you know what i think?

WHO CARES?

She probably treats him right. Besides that;

You are walking around constantly judging other people and comparing yourself to others. Gotta be extremely...fecked up to be you..

But to give your apparently peanut sized brain some food for thought: in a predominantly white country....you can geuss the rest right?? There are only like 40 million afro Americans , vs 200 million whites. I am from Europe and i understand this

Let me keep it civilized : you have an idiotic way of thinking and its people like YOU who feed this race -on race hate.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

And meanwhile (men like) you Op are the biggest racists around.

If i see a black dude with a qhite woman you know what i think?

WHO CARES?

She probably treats him right. Besides that;

You are walking around constantly judging other people and comparing yourself to others. Gotta be extremely...fecked up to be you..

But to give your apparently peanut sized brain some food for thought: in a predominantly white country....you can geuss the rest right?? There are only like 40 million afro Americans , vs 200 million whites. I am from Europe and i understand this

Let me keep it civilized : you have an idiotic way of thinking and its people like YOU who feed this race -on race hate.

I mean, I may occasionally be at odds with @Gamisch and OP, I like the heck outta you as a person my dude. However, sometimes, you are like me. The two of us have a cranky day or a day where some crap runs through our head and we post a thread on it lol. I have posted threads on here that I feel like are completely useless, this is something I am actively working on and I am glad that standup dudes on this forum keep me in check.

TBH OP, I know you are a lot better than this man. I get that we all have those weird days when a bunch of random crap comes into our head and we just have to let the forum know lol. For sure we wouldn't say a lot of this stuff in public.

However OP, I think you can benefit from starting a Game Journal on here. I try not to even post threads anymore and just keep it all in my field reports area to sound off.

 

[DoofusDonutDude]

DDD, that's really interesting analysis. I never quite considered it from that angle fully.

There are some beautiful Arabic and Indian/Pakistani women floating around. Something utterly sensual about arabic women with the right look in my eyes.

That's just the honest view man , because as a brown guy i would more than not mind dating a white women but i wouldn't fall so low to date just any rando bad looking redneck white girl .

@Jesse Pinkman is SPOT ON.

Somehow, its okay for American guys to go gaga over Asian or Middle eastern women but not the other way around. Its tribal mentality.

White men take a piss at brown men because they indeed do suck right now at dating. Their priorities right now is getting the loot, they can get chicks in arranged marriages. They don't NEED to put in the work to get a woman to settle with. Often a 3-4 looking dude can get an HB7 chick easy if he has the cash in arranged marriage, with a 80-90% chance she won't cheat on him .

White and black men? They got no arranged marriage system to fall back on.

If the arranged marriages system wasn't there, i have no doubt, south east asian brown men would have no option to get in the dating world, get there **** togethar and they would've absolutely slayed.

However, sooner or later, these guys that are failing at dating will "crack the code" and get those women who consider them undesirable right now. Case in point, in UK, 2nd generation Indian British men are considered the one of the most attractive race. There are lots of cases i've heard where brown men living in the west would date a white women but marry only one of their ethinicity..

Whenever there is an attractive women and the attractive women is from a different country/culture/race ..the difference will become "exoticism" and become more attractive.

That's it.

To Asian men, white women are attractive and exotic, the additional factor contributing to that is they are exposed to them less and their own cultures promote the physical features that white women possess.

 

[DoofusDonutDude]

If you can pull the hot white women that aren't the Kim Kardashian/cleat chasers that white men don't pursue then be my guest. I am just confused on why men are downgrading/putting their dating life on hard mode to get with meh/10 white women at best. African American men I get it because our women aren't that great, and it is easier for us to jump from a toxic black female to a white version of the same girl. Now for Asians, Indians, Middle Easterners, Hispanic, I need some explaining from y'all because y'all have women that destroy white women. Hispanic men tend to stick with Hispanic women though, so I will give them that as well.

Never understood all the hate for black women? Somehow they always end up on the bottom for desirability wherever i see online.

Gimme a Simone Missick, a beyonce, Meagan Goode, Kat Graham..anyday..all the time.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I mean, I may occasionally be at odds with @Gamisch and OP, I like the heck outta you as a person my dude. However, sometimes, you are like me. The two of us have a cranky day or a day where some crap runs through our head and we post a thread on it lol. I have posted threads on here that I feel like are completely useless, this is something I am actively working on and I am glad that standup dudes on this forum keep me in check.

TBH OP, I know you are a lot better than this man. I get that we all have those weird days when a bunch of random crap comes into our head and we just have to let the forum know lol. For sure we wouldn't say a lot of this stuff in public.

However OP, I think you can benefit from starting a Game Journal on here. I try not to even post threads anymore and just keep it all in my field reports area to sound off.

I expected back lash from this topic because it is a race related topic lol. I know everyone on here isn't black, but as a black guy with most of his people being infiltrated by feminism and obesity, I just had to ask the question lol. Nevertheless, I have made efforts to limit creating topics on this site, but it looks like I still post a lot because my topics keep getting bumped lol. I will not create another topic on this sub-forum until 2024 at the least. I'll be around in the Anything Else section though.