Niches: what are the advantages & disadvantages?

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This video is subject is super silly. Nichemaxxing goes against the RPT.

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Society has become some non-homogenous, there is really no such thing as mainstream anymore. Everyone is in a niche to some extent.
 
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Out society has become some non-homogenous, there is really no such thing as mainstream anymore. Everyone is in a niche to some extent.
And the more niches you can claim, the more wimmin...
 

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While I like the video, some of the nichemaxxing things are funny, as they require congruence. For instance, if you nichemaxx as a biker, you better own a badass motorcycle, or you'll come off fake. Another thing is that you can be in several niches at the same time, appealing to different women. If you would feature high in more than one niche, the percentage of attractiveness would go up.
I'm big into congruence. I like the rest of this comment.
 

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While I like the video, some of the nichemaxxing things are funny, as they require congruence. For instance, if you nichemaxx as a biker, you better own a badass motorcycle, or you'll come off fake. Another thing is that you can be in several niches at the same time, appealing to different women. If you would feature high in more than one niche, the percentage of attractiveness would go up.
Being into too many niches can make you come off as fake and try-hard. I don't think it matters what equipment you use but more whether or not you can back it up with knowledge of the niche and practical skills.

The question is: is it the niche the girl is attracted to or the guy? There's a saying I can't remember rn, but basically every niche has it's own cheerleader girls that are there to get the hot guys. (e.g. video game tournaments)
 

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I'm big into congruence. I like the rest of this comment.
For one: the video mentions some average bloke 'nichemaxxing' to a bad boy image with scowl plus leather jacket, but if it's just an act, women will notice the incongruence. Same with a 'soft' guy I know who wanted to look more masculine by having tattoo sleeves on both his forearms. Now he looks like a soft guy with tats. I doubt if it does much for the image he tries to broadcast.
 

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Being into too many niches can make you come off as fake and try-hard.
What I mean is more that you appeal to women in different niches for different aspects of your authentic self. If you are a multifaceted person, you will have different traits/qualities that appeal to different women.

I don't think it matters what equipment you use but more whether or not you can back it up with knowledge of the niche and practical skills.
If we stick to my example, it does matter what equipment you use. Bikers ride different motorcycles than Racers. Riding a motorcycle is part of the culture. You can dress in your dirtiest Jack Daniels T-shirt with a denim vest and a bandana and prance around in your engineer boots, but if you give her a ride on your Peugeot moped, she probably won't believe that your Harley is in the garage.

The question is: is it the niche the girl is attracted to or the guy?
Women who are interested in bikers hang around in biker bars, become Sign girls in competitions, pose with motorcycles. If you are an authentic motorcycle rider, you are more attractive to these women than a suit in a Mercedes.
Women who are into creative spirits hang around in artist communities, visit gallery openings, art markets. If you are an artist, you are more attractive to these women than a suit in a Mercedes.
Women who are into athletes hang around in gyms and sports arenas and competitions. If you are in fit shape, you are more attractive to these women than the average dadbod guy.

If you're fit, creative and ride around on a motorcycle, you will be considered attractive in these three niches, as well as with women who are looking for this combination.
 

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Are there good and bad niches?
I wouldn't say "good" or "bad," since those are relative terms. I would say "compatible" or "non-compatible" to be more general. Example: If you hate comic books and/or anime, a nerdy girl is probably going to be insufferable to be around if she participates in her hobbies regularly. This does not make the nerdy girl bad for everyone, it just makes her annoying in your personal life.
 

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