First of all coming here and looking for answers is not ideal, as most posters have little to no experience in dating. It is like asking a toddler to perform heart surgeryI'm a 52yo guy, in great shape, most people say I look 45. Step 1 - Saturday: I chatted up a hotty at a cafe - she is mid to late 30s. She gave me her number. I asked her out the next day. She agreed. Despite being great weather she made it clear she wanted to meet in a cafe not walk in the beautiful park we have here.
Step 2: Sunday - great cafe date. 1.5 hours. She hugged me at the end and said she wanted to see me again and looked excited.
Step 3: Monday - probably a rookie move. I just texted "Great to meet you yesterday". No response from her.
Step 4: Wednesday - I texted suggesting a walk on the beach or dinner on Saturday. I joked about giving her completely diverse options. No response.
How can a woman go from 100% interested to 0% ghosting me just from Monday's text?
Thanks
Second of all, as a summary you looked like a guy that has no clue what he is doing, especially since you are quite a mature guy and women expect you to be very experienced in all matter of life stuff ( including seduction, relationship and sex )
Let’s start with the very beginning
1. You approached her and she was like “ this guy has the balls the approach a woman he likes” - you scored points
2. You proposed her to go walk in the park, which is a rookie mistake but she was still curious to see what you gonna do so she agreed to a coffee date. She agreed to the coffee date because it was still more or less at the same time as you would have went to the park. Strike 1
3. The date came, you did not escalate at all. Most likely no sexual vibe at all. Even though she really liked you l, you disappointed her again as again you looked like a guy that does not get it. Why else would she agree to see you since you were quite blunt in you being interested in her? She gave you the opportunity to make a move . Strike 2
4. You waited for a day to send her a
was nice to meet you text. From her perspective you looked like a guy that has no idea what he is doing, or like a guy that is playing games or like a guy that is not interested. Why else would you wait for a day to send her a text like that? Strike 3
Women after high school are not children anymore, so treat them as such. Don’t beat it by the bush
You did not really do anything plainly wrong, just that you had 3 consecutive strikes and she sent you off
Read the whole article, maybe it will help you
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