How do you guys feel about mail order brides?

Pierce Manhammer

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Hey man, you’ve admitted in the past that you have nothing to offer women at this juncture.

A list of fundamental changes and how to accomplish them have been hashed and rehashed for you, for weeks in another thread by scores of us.

Why even start this thread if you’ve not done anything yet? This amounts to nothing but attention wh0ring and mental masturbation.

What is your goal here?
 

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I knew a guy who did it. She was much younger and hotter than him. Stuck around for a couple years then left and took him to the cleaners. Spent as much as she could when married and then got what was left as part of the divorce settlement. He's dead now. Be wary.
 

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Idk if I'd want to become a truck driver but I'd be open to learning a trade
Become a welder or a pipeline worker. They pretty much exclusively travel. You will make decent money too. If you make yourself look nice, and have a traveling job, women will often get with you out of a classic case of "FOMO." The thought of them missing an opportunity after you are done with a job in a region will often drive them nuts.

Taking random vacations with almost no money in hopes to get laid is a recipe for disaster. A mail order bride that agrees to come here with you will likely leave for better options at the first convenient opportunity, unless you are uber-rich and/or uber-handsome.
 
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Are they a viable option for guys who are fed up with the dating scene in the west? All the major mail order bride companies seem like scams designed to part lonely men with their money. I personally wouldn't go that route unless I had no other options
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A lot of them are scams. You can't really get to know someone just through chat and email. If you can't go and live in a foreign country for a while, don't expect to meet the perfect person in just 2 weeks.

In Ukraine a lot of these agencies just made comission on translating love letters, and often they wrote them themselves.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Hey man, you’ve admitted in the past that you have nothing to offer women at this juncture.

A list of fundamental changes and how to accomplish them have been hashed and rehashed for you, for weeks in another thread by scores of us.

Why even start this thread if you’ve not done anything yet? This amounts to nothing but attention wh0ring and mental masturbation.

What is your goal here?
I wasn't seriously considering mail order brides myself. I guess I just wanted to see others' opinion on that topic
 

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Oke..even tho i agree with @Pierce.Manhammer for obvious reasons ,I'll chime in and offer my opinion because i actually do know of TWO GUYS who are doing this right now.

Our lil spoiled trust fund baby wants to googoo-gaga his way to p00sy with YET another shortcut..why this doesn't surprise me??

These two men (41 and 36) were obviously incels who went through lengthy dryspells. The first one is a white dude, 6,4 and also worth his length and (over) weight in bytchazzness. The other is a 5.5 Arab dude.


White dude got a 25/26 y.o woman from the Philippines who looks like a 12 year old boy, especially next to his 6,4 bytchazz. Got TONS of debts yet insists on marrying her on European terms. Needs to go through a heavy financial program where he (they if she comes over) has/have to to live on 50 euros a week for at least 3 years in order to become debt free ,AND keep a fulltime job...read that twice gents!!

And the Arab dude got "married "to a 19 y.o farmer girl via his family (I believe its his niece although this isn't mentioned anymore after the "marriage "), and she DEMANDS 2000 euros ASAP as that apparently is "normal" . (He's like, shall we save that cash for when you are here next couple of months, she's like FECK YOU PAY ME!). He'll move across the border to "live together with her" while she doesn't speak our native language, nor English...

Both will get married in "our "country (north/west Europea) next year. Yet i can already predict both will get TONS ,or I'd say, a little bit of pity sex ,deal with a cranky monsters of a women on a daily and eventually get taken to the cleaners.

Oh wait; i DID predicted this ! ; https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...wer-for-me-its-all-a-mess.279284/post-3057038

I'll include my predictable post from back then ,so y'all dont have to leave this thread)

"Because he's a spoiled lil' biatch that never had to work for anything in life , hits almost 30 and still lives a teenager's dream life of "playing in a band". Never lifted a finger in his life . Probably doesn't know how to change a light bulb

He needs some more pain in life to know what's what. His loneliness is a great first step towards some needed realism.

Next will be a 304 who'll milk him dry financially , as much as she can. I geuss it will be a passport bro-ish type of deal. A Latina? Latinas are vicious..."

@Pierce.Manhammer , remember his response?;
Bro come on there's no need to put me down like that
 
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It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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