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[Bigpapa]

What is the fathers role more often than not in the family household? His role is to set boundaries, apply discipline and be a positive strong male role model to his daughter & to protect her.

I understand your point of view and I agree with it till a certain point

My only comment was from the get go was around why do you think the father role is stronger than the society role in the development of children?

And more importantly why do you think that father figures are not already “touched” by society, and thus are just a washed self of what they could have been?

Healthy parents from my experience so far in the world are very rare. Most of them are quite f8cked up and have little to no clue on how to raise their children

It is that saying, “ children redo the same mistakes of their parents or go to the other extreme ( which again is not the healthiest way of doing things)”

 

[savi0r]

https://archive.ph/xoIL4

This is an old thread , but with great insight. Those of us who had dealings or relationships with these girls can confirm that ,in most of the cases, the end result is soul crushing for the man. After my experience ,I prioritize now the importance of good upbringing and good traditional family ,where the man and the woman know and play their God given roles.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It is that saying, “ children redo the same mistakes of their parents or go to the other extreme ( which again is not the healthiest way of doing things)”

Depends on what other extreme.

I was beaten as a child. I feared my father and hated him.

When I became a father, I vowed that I would never raise my hands or my voice against my children.
I do admit to raising my voice on the few occasions when my polite request got no response, but my children are teens now and I have never raised my hands to them, which is why both of them see me as their safe harbour. (Despite the divorce in 2017 and maybe because I've been taking care of them as primary caregiver since 2011.}