I'm attracted to younger girls, but are they interested in older men?

[SmoothSmooth]

The only time I struggled with getting women was between 13-16 years old, so I have no idea what you're talking about, except that I became more attractive with age. There are more men in their 50s who became more attractive to women after what you call 'their prime'.

But you are thirty and unable to step out of your own myopic perspective to see that the world is a bit bigger than your sandbox.

Bro you say women aren’t attracted more to guys in their 30s shows me you are just talking out your ass. Also saying you only struggled at 13-16 tells me you’re talking out your ass or dealing with low quality women. Nobody dealing with top tier women is gonna be fully ready at 24. You’re gonna make mistakes, slip up, break frame etc etc all things which are natural with younger age. A hot woman who is 24 will have had experience with older guys as a fact and as a 24 year old male it’s very hard to compete with that.

ALL THINGS BEING EQUAL, if a guy is Just as good looking at 24 and 34, he will get more girls at 34 than 24, by a considerable amount.

For a 23 year old girl looking for a hookup, a guy in his 30s is a safer bet - more experienced, has a better apartment, less likely to get attached/do something stupid etc
For a 23 year old girl looking for a serious relationship, a guy in his 30s is also a safer bet - more likely to also be ready to settle down, more money, more job security, more wisdom/relationship experience/leadership skills - have you seen most 24 year guys???

30s are win-win for men whether looking for casual sex or relationship.
40s are generally a more quiet period but age isn’tsole reason - it’s also due to changing motivation, less motivation to go out, party, date new people, low sex drive etc. However it can still be better than 20s if you really still care about dating new girls at that age. I’ve seen guys in early 40s that date bombshell 20s.

There is a huge various in men which is a reflection of many years of bad habits vs good habits. A metropolitan type guy in his 40s who is fit, runs daily, looks good, extroverted and charismatic, lives in an apartment in Manhattan is going to have a 10000000x different reality than an out of shape, divorced truck driver in tenesse who is 40 and introverted.
Now let’s say the first guy works in fashion or is a part time club DJ, or photographer…and had tons of sexual experiences in his 30s that made him confident…do you not think he’s gonna slay more 20 year olds than his 25 year old self

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Bro you say women aren’t attracted more to guys in their 30s shows me you are just talking out your ass. Also saying you only struggled at 13-16 tells me you’re talking out your ass or dealing with low quality women.

Sorry, I'm not going to join you in your echo chamber. You're too fond of your own thoughts to step out of them. Enjoy the sound of your own voice.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If you have to ask. Then the answer is ‘no’.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Ok, and how many times has something like this actually happened to you and how often do you think this occurs amongst the general population of men around your age? Have you ever considered that maybe this was just an unusual event where things lined up for you, aka you were incredibly lucky, or do you think this is something you could regularly repeat? You were by chance at a bar where there was a much younger woman that by chance found you attractive and you had an opportunity to meet. Most women in this age range are NOT attracted to much older men. I don't mean this as an insult, but I also highly doubt you are some "Chad" type that is attractive, well over 6' tall, fit/muscular, etc.

It's great that you had an experience like this but it's not a good idea to encourage other men to think that this is something that is possible when it reality it's an incredibly unlikely thing to happen to them. I'm 33 and taller and in better shape than the vast majority of men and I had issues approaching women when I was younger, I can't imagine what the experience would be like for a much older guy lol. Vast majority of men approaching 40 or over it are NOT getting success with women if they are single, this is the reality that we need to accept.

I attract them consistently, that was an example. You're right, I'm not a Chad type as you describe. I just have great game and I look fit and healthy.

You're jumping to a lot of conclusions which I won't argue. Up to you how you want to think of yourself. I'm having fun, you can too.

 

[MatureDJ]

Sure, look at this old coot:

 

[lubstur]

In my 30s dating model type girls 19-23…it just comes down how attractive you look.

You say 30s, but how old are you Smooth? Early 30s 30-33, mid, or late 30s?

 

[SmoothSmooth]

You say 30s, but how old are you Smooth? Early 30s 30-33, mid, or late 30s?

early 30s to be honest. But I get more girls and better quality than i did in my late 20s. And my late 20s was better than my mid 20s. So the trend is better girls with age. I’m now Able to get the top tier girls, and I don’t see why that would change in the foreseeable future, as long as I continue to look the same, I should be able to continue dating these girls until my 40s at least. I couldn’t imagine any of the girls I’m currently seeing being less interested if I was 38 but looked similar. What attracts girls to me is the fact I am established, tall, good looking, rich, masculine and good with women…which makes me stand out from 90% of guys they encounter, and thus makes me attractive. Age doesn’t come into it. It’s about the real value which they want in a man they sleep with. Women are f*cking and getting off on your objective smv, not your imaginary game or narrative that you sell them

 

[Solomon]

Another thing as a guy who is getting older in my late 30s seeing 40 soon, I'm not trying to cold approach hot women at clubs or bars, I always found it cringe and quite frankly i burned out on clubs at 25. If you're 40 doing the sugar daddy route I understand but unless you're circles with attractive younger women it's gonna be hard

THe best place don't laugh in 2023 is church, tons of single women 3 to 1 ratio but you have to go there with intent don't go there treating it like a club

 

[Fruitbat]

When I was in my early 20s a lot of the girls my age were interested in guys who could pick them up in a plush car and take them to Paris, not me, who could show them how if you play this pass on fifa you can glitch it and score a guaranteed goal, and then how to make your cigarettes go further by rolling up dog ends with a filter

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

THe best place don't laugh in 2023 is church, tons of single women 3 to 1 ratio but you have to go there with intent don't go there treating it like a club

The only religious chicks I pick up are nuns out on adventure.