Why are guys under the age of 35 or never been married calling themselves Red or Black Pilled

[ThisIsSparta]

despite me being straightforward about being in a relationship for over a year. Why do I have to do it? Why can't he do it then? I can make topics on dating & relationship, but it will just be derailed by Mr.WhoHurtYou Cynical RedPill and turn in to a mess. Hence, all the Redpill does on this site is make everything a cope fest for women are bad & meaniebutts.

From what i have read by now, your expertise on LTR´s is rather based on Disney movies then on real life experience.

Dating the same women for one year doesnt put you in the same league as men that have been living under one roof with the same woman for years. (Yo momma doesnt count)

You are just a boi that thinks he can look down on people that have been there and done shyt you not even experienced.

So, unless you show some serious receipts on LTR´s , you are just a brat badmouthing more experienced members of this forum.

You are the guy on first day in his new job, trying to tell the senior employees how to do their work and then you are pissed because nobody listens to your hot air.

 

[CornbreadFed]

RedPill is fundamentally against marriage, so if a man was truly following RP methods - he'd never get married.

Moreover, if you had near unlimited access to women, why would you stop that for just one woman?

Let's use economics to explain this. Simple Supply and Demand my friend. When you are struggling with women, pvssy is in short supply and high demand, so you focus on mainly getting that. Once you figure out how to get pvssy, that raises in supply and lowers the demand. What is harder to find is a woman that is not a headache to be around, acts feminine, and is hot. Once a man finds that, he tends to settle.

 

[CornbreadFed]

From what i have read by now, your expertise on LTR´s is rather based on Disney movies then on real life experience.

Dating the same women for one year doesnt put you in the same league as men that have been living under one roof with the same woman for years. (Yo momma doesnt count)

You are just a boi that thinks he can look down on people that have been there and done shyt you not even experienced.

So, unless you show some serious receipts on LTR´s , you are just a brat badmouthing more experienced members of this forum.

You are the guy on first day in his new job, trying to tell the senior employees how to do their work and then you are pissed because nobody listens to your hot air.

Where's your receipts amigo? Are you going to put the cynical faux philisophical redpill persona on now?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I will always continue to shvt on your red pill. If you cannot handle it, then I would suggest blocking me. If you don't like the topics I make or what are on this board, how about you and your powwow of mostly lurker accounts that liked your post start making topics then? @Solomon has been really critical of me because I am not making cold approach/day game topics despite me being straightforward about being in a relationship for over a year. Why do I have to do it? Why can't he do it then? I can make topics on dating & relationship, but it will just be derailed by Mr.WhoHurtYou Cynical RedPill and turn in to a mess. Hence, all the Redpill does on this site is make everything a cope fest for women are bad & meaniebutts.

You sound like a raging incel, you should probably do something about that.

Anyways, your on my ignore list now so feel free to spew your black pill nonsense

 

[CornbreadFed]

You sound like a raging incel, you should probably do something about that.

Anyways, your on my ignore list now so feel free to spew your black pill nonsense

Instead of creating a topic to further the site, you resort to insults. Exactly my point indeed, you just lurk and troll.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I'm not disagreeing, I'm stating what RP methods are.

Keeping 2(+) in the kitty is a fundamental RP belief, whether married or not.

In less friendly terms: your wife gets first crack at your libido, but not sole custody.

Is Rollo Tomassi doing this? I would never do this especially if I have kids.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

RedPill is fundamentally against marriage, so if a man was truly following RP methods - he'd never get married.

Moreover, if you had near unlimited access to women, why would you stop that for just one woman?

I did the serial dating and plate spinning for about a year before Covid. While exhilarating, it is also exhausting. It’s awesome short term. But for me, mot sustainable. One good woman works for me. Though I’m glad I sowed my wild oats.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Why does it matter if Rollo does this or not? IDGAF what he does with his life, I care about what value he provides to me.

You keep bringing this back to YOU and what YOU would do. Why?

Do what exactly? Having other options in case your wife doesn't wanna fvck you because you became complacent in the marriage but then you started fixing it, but your wife is used to see you as a beta before the new you starts to catch her eyes?

I'm pretty sure if it were the opposite for woman like "My hubby doesn't fvck me so I had needs and I fvcked some other guy, because he doesn't give me attention" that will be okay.

You said this was a fundamental belief for the RP belief in which I disagree with. Rollo is the king or close to it when it comes to the RP and is married himself. That is why I asked if he did this. I don't care if Fresh and Fit or any non-married RP believe this because they aren't married. If the father of the RP's opinion is irrelevant, how can you say something is fundamental or not.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It's folks like you who live as the plowhorse to provide for a wife who puts out <1x a month in full starfish position.

You can live on with your sense of moral superiority, but I'll be getting laid more. Red pill is amoral.

If that is your fundamental belief, then be my guest. You do you! However, don't make a strong claim for a group when the head honcho of your group disagrees with it.

It is not about a moral sense of superiority; it's about not being a hypocrite to appease your edge lord boner. Would you have your preferred your father to focus on raising his family & household or neglecting it to sleep around with his other women? Would you want your daughter to marry a guy that is family focused or prefers sleeping around with other women instead of taking care of her?

 

[Barrister]

OP,

You seem confused on what the Red Pill is and also misinformed in that no one who believes in Red Pill sees Rollo as a "head honcho" or a leader of the cause. Rollo is best know for Rationale Male which put a lot of how a woman's nature works to paper. It was a little verbose in parts but still a very good read. I am venturing a guess you haven't ever read it. But past that, his own personal views and how he applies the Red Pill by no means extend to everyone.

Red Pill is really about waking up to women's true nature and understanding they aren't damsels in distress who are going to fall head over heels in love with a guy because he was nice to them - regardless of what Disney hammered into our brains about women throughout the 80s, 90s, and 00s. They are cutthroat, hell-bent on obtaining security for themselves and their children at all costs, and use their vaginas as collateral to get it. That is Red Pill. A guy spinning plates or a guy in an LTR (even marriage) can be Red Pilled and it doesn't require the latter to have side pieces or stay true to the woman he is married to. Those are all a matter of personal desire for the man.

Why you continue to try to stir the pot I don't really understand. I actually agree with you on a few stances you have had, and agree a younger guy in his 20s should simply get out and experience many different women. But picking fights with people here, usually longer term posters specifically, serves no purpose other than to irritate and make yourself look ignorant.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I am arguing with brick walls at this point. I will not be posting in this topic anymore.

 

[CornbreadFed]

When you get actual answers to the question you post, you bail.

Classic.

you have responded with mostly insults instead of proper rebuttals and I have 3 different definitions of the Red Pill being tossed at my face. Convo is over.

 

[The Duke]

Majority of this forum wouldn't even like my actual pickup advice because it is not RED PILL or urban youth friendly. I am not going to waste my time entertaining that. The only I

So you waste your time posting these biatching theories? Lol

Get some more experience, and you will have something solid to contribute.

 

[CornbreadFed]

So you waste your time posting these biatching theories? Lol

Get some more experience, and you will have something solid to contribute.

If being a bitter cynical pessimist that thinks cheating on his wife/neglecting his family is seen as experienced, then that's never going to happen. Keep on dreaming. Red Pill or not, I am going to call out the stinky bull shvt when I smell it.

 

[The Duke]

I am arguing with brick walls at this point. I will not be posting in this topic anymore.

That's probably a good idea. I think we have you surrounded. Lol

 

[Barrister]

I am arguing with brick walls at this point. I will not be posting in this topic anymore.

No - just guys with actual real world (and women) experience. Hence why your word salads continue to be dismantled with little effort.

 

[CornbreadFed]

No - just guys with actual real world (and women) experience. Hence why your word salads continue to be dismantled with little effort.

What is this experience? All I am interpreting is that Women are the boogeyman and be scared of them. I am one of the few posters on this site that has a positive outlook on OLD and can consistently pull from it. I don't see y'all posting anything other than the standard women are doomed to fail wolf stuff?

Go ahead and keep ragging on me, but do not ever complain about toxic women or the destruction of the traditional American family BS because you are literally defending part of the problem by backing @Money & Muscle fundamental principle.

 

[CornbreadFed]

The well is already poisoned bud. The damage done by unrestricted women's sexual repression cannot simply be undone.
It's not my principle either, it's just a redpill one. I've got a lower body count than you, I promise. I also probably get laid more than you. Red pill taught me how to do that from a previously dead bedroom.

Red pill doesn't hate women, though I understand why it looks that way. It's just explaining the way women are and what tools you have to deal with them. Whether you use that tool or not is your choice.

Better to have a tool, know when to use it - and never need it, than to not have it when you do.

You can be cautious of women's nature and not hold extraordinary contradicting beliefs at the same time.

 

[zekko]

Originally the Red Pill community was a niche community catering to older men burned out from divorce and dating in general.

Really? I always thought it was more for younger guys who hadn't yet learned the potential pitfalls of getting too emotionally involved with women.

 

[VirtuousD]

The age for this keeps moving up.

First it's 21, then it's 25, then it's 30, now it's 35.

I remember guys under 25 talking about getting girls and people saying "Wait until your 25, then you need to be a rich lawyer to get laid." I'm getting action now at 30 after being an incel at age 25. So what now, it's "wait until you're 35, then it's really over?"

Thanks to the cost of living, people are getting their lives on track much later.