Real life interestest indicator

[_sideways_]

Just an example...
Was saturday night...i had a long productive day but was hungry evening time. Went to buy groceries instead of ordering food. Tshirt jeans...was walking bored and hungry...chick that works there says hello as i enter..."evening ma'am" lol jk...just said howdy...grabbed my basket and i run into her in another isle...she walks by says hello again.
Third time some other cashier yells her name to come help...i bump into her again and say..."marjorie they want you at the register."
So nothing weird right....
As i type this im realizing it was just an interaction with a woman...maybe she saw something or my ambivalent attitude because it was saturday night and i couldnt care more about anything or anyone. Didnt feel like going out, dressing up...just got my fruits and veggies and cottage cheese , yogurt cuz i like .
So maybe that was an IOI as a real life example.
Super subtle...i mean...it is hard to know...but a girl saying hi twice was an indicator in high school right?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Yes, this is how they do it. The second time she was in your aisle when she should've been someplace else.

At least she wasn't deliberately getting in your way and annoying you lol

I think there may be a margarine joke for the next time.

 

[RazorRambo24]

why do some of you sound like you rarely go outside

 

[Serenity]

IOI? She's PAID to be there and be nice to customers, one of those being saying hello to them. You could say this IOI is so subtle that it's not an IOI at all, it would just be you conflating the significance of common behavior.

 

[_sideways_]

Well exactly....
That was my whole intention of putting this on here.
Dudes come out saying...shes paid for customer service and you rarely go out that a woman saying hello turns you on.

Anything can be a sign depending on the female. A shy one will be harder to gauge whereas a bold one will grab your meat.

Or nothing is a sign and shes just monlighting as a hooker.

 

[SW15]

IOI? She's PAID to be there and be nice to customers, one of those being saying hello to them. You could say this IOI is so subtle that it's not an IOI at all, it would just be you conflating the significance of common behavior.

Approaching women who work in the general public is tricky.

If a man wants to meet women who work in retail stores, restaurants, etc., he needs to find a way to meet them during their leisure time.

I created a thread about this exact topic in 2020.

Successfully Approaching Women at Work (General Public Workers)

The idea of approaching women while they are at their jobs containing interaction with the general public is a topic that is somewhat contentious among men. When I think of women who work with the general public, these are the categories that come to mind of women to approach. Strippers...

www.sosuave.net

This thread would be good reading for the original poster.

 

[_sideways_]

I wasnt trying to approach her....i didnt even.
I bought my things and when i got home i thought about the whole thing.
I was just out cuz i was bored and hungry lol